Virgo confused

I've read a lot on this board and the virgo board about the pisces/virgo interaction and have noticed mixed feelings. It seems that every pisces has been bitten by the virgo bug and vice versa. I've been dating, seeing a virgo for the past 10 months and have found that it has been a roller coater ride...which I have actually enjoyed. What started as a magnetic attraction has now developed into a very oddball friendship (must be my Venus/Aqu combo). He makes me laugh, think. I make him feel, see. He's very earthy, cerebral, and charismatic (leo asc) and I have grown to be very fond of him. I'm not sure if I am "in love" with him, but have found that his friendship and the time that he and I have spent together has been very uplifting and revealed a lot of my own insecurities. I know the whole polarity thing comes into play. And as a pisces, I am always looking for that one person to SAVE me. But this relationship has been unlike any other relationship that I have been in. We just enjoy each other, all that we are, good and bad. Acceptance I think is the key to a fulfilling relationship. I was just curious if anyone has had a similar experience with a virgo or their polar opposite.

Piesces and Virgo are supposed to be very compatible indeed:-) - so at least the stars are shining on you Misty:-)

You use the word "oddball" - that's it in one - you got it Missy....virgos are oddballs of the highest order...esp. the males!! (they have the strangest, craziest ideas alot of the time on life and how they want their women to act with them!! Rollercoaster...yes, that rings through...he will take you high and he will take you low...very low at times......
But for now - you are happy - so why not enjoy the moments of acceptance and upliftedness.....savour them:-) It's all about magic moments:-)

A x

i thought piscies and virgo are opoistes?

Thanks Alana...sounds like you've had a few run ins with Virgo men 🙂 I think it's because he's an oddball that I like him. He just makes me laugh at the way his mind works..His gears are always going. But he's sharing those things with me. Doesn't feel like he has to hide and it's been very interesting watching him get comfortable with me and TRUST me. Trust for him has been a very big issues. I never pushed only waited. I won't say his guard is all the way down because, of course, he is a typical analytic virgo. But now he know that I don't want to hurt him and for some reason I don't think he's going to hurt me. It's very comforting and interesting, to say the least. 🙂

Hi Mistyeyef........
Yep you could say I had few "run-ins" run outs, ups, downs, ins and outs, highs, lows, blows! even with a certain Mr. Virgo for over two years......he could bring out the best and the worst in me like no other man......reading back on some of my past virgo posts and escapades......I wonder how I didn't become ga-ga or go slightly insane at times with him....:-)he is still in my world to a certain degree....(guess once you are with a virgo, they want you round forever......) Even last night, we talked together....one minute everything was fine - the next he said something outrageous which made me crazy...that man knows how to push my buttons.....5 minutes later and we are chatty palsy walsy again....one thing I have learnt is that virgos don't hold grudges....

Anyway, enuf about moi......I am so glad that you and him are doing so well together and well done to you for breaking through the barrier to make him trust you and feel so comfortable around you....I do think virgos have that knack also - I know I could talk to Mr. Virgo about anything under the sun be it daytime banter or about intimate stuff and I never felt embarrassed - they are very earthy, realists. I am sure you won't hurt him intentionally and him you (very few people in this world set out to intentianlly hurt another - it's usually heat of that moment stuff that revs up our passion/anger engines)):-)

Anyway, keep us posted - me thinketh you might be falling for this man:-)

A x

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I am glad to know that there are lots of people on this board that I can relate to. I know astrology is not an "end all" and answers to all my questions, but it has helped me understand more. It has been a very valuable tool. I would be very interested in hearing about your run in w/ your virgo man. I am sure that you have posted it elsewhere on this forum, but as I am new, I haven't read much. So if you would like to chat I am always willing. Keep in touch.

misty

ps...I think you may be right! He had my heart a long time ago.. I doubt I will get it back, either. 🙂

And a bright hello to you my misty pal........I'm a bit misty eyed today myself!!!...got an eye infection.....misty...more like puff the magic piglet eyes!!!!.....anyway I digress. Yesterday, I decided to be a bit different and I bought myself a black pirate patch for my eye and wore it home on the bus....gotta say I looked quite sexy with it:-)!!!!!

So nice to have you on this board...we all love new members here.....especially mistys:-)!!

Please don't think I am being rude in not going into detail here about my relationship with Mr. Virgo over the past two years...I don't have home computer - gotta tap away in work when boss is not hovering!!!so I just wouldn't have time. Plus the whole gang here would be bored silly if repeated and reiterated the whole damn story.....all I can suggest is that there's lots of bits my story on the aquarius board under "how do I get an aquarian back" and "Aries and Aquarius -What next - Part II". The bottom line is - he is not Irish, like me. He is 8 years younger (but that's not an issue or ever has been!) He's sex on legs (for me anyway!! - and his stamina in bed is second to nobody!!!) - beautiful face, eyes, long ponytail, can talk and analyse everything for hours on end and doesn't lose the head or hold grudges, great cook:-), truthful but tactless - other people if they have to say something not so nice to you will dolly it up or sugar-coat - he just says it openly and it hurts!!! - bad points - doesn't trust anybody, serial criticizer, jealousy, clean-up freak and big time gambler - earns big money on construction every week and blows most of it by Friday evening when he finishes!!! Tries to stop but always fails in that department.

I will be seeing that man tonite!!!

A x