Went too fast with Pisces Girl

What do you do if you, unknowingly, went too fast with a pisces girl and it backfired? Give up and move on? Create some distance and see what she does? or call it quit?..

Posted by Leo1212
What do you do if you, unknowingly, went too fast with a pisces girl and it backfired? Give up and move on? Create some distance and see what she does? or call it quit?..

Not possible to go too fast w/ a fish. You did something else.

Idk man, were you pushy? Personally, I'm always willing to keep going if I feel like whatever the person did was a one time thing and not part of their personality.

How did it backfire? Was she just upset, isn't responding to calls, told you it isn't going to work, etc?

Hey asshole, you probably irritated her.

I guess I saw her signs of interest then got interested and tried to get to know her but I might have been pushy, through unintentionally cuz I tried to hold off my leo ways, but I might have missed a sign of when I was being too pushy/inquisitive or too rapidly deep in conversation or such. So I guess I got shut down but I do not how if its permanent or not. She did have lots going on in her life that had an impact on things, through that might all be relative.

So should I backtrack to when things where normal and just start again from there?

Leo moon.

Hey, don't blame it on the charts! Haha. I'm with a firey leo and it's been working out well!
I'd say keep casually talking to her but back off a little bit. She may need some time to process things. Though, she could have seen your personality and decided it wasn't right for her. You said you had to hold off your leo ways which suggests to me that you won't always be able to hold it off and that this part of your personality will come shining through again, naturally. If that's the part that put her off, then you will only be able to hold her interest as long as you hold that back. But, in the end that's not good because you want to be yourself. I'd say hold out a little longer to see if you can get a better idea of the cause and if it doesn't seem to be moving forward at all, then find someone who you work better with and won't be as sensitive as to how you act. : )

Posted by Leo1212
What do you do if you, unknowingly, went too fast with a pisces girl and it backfired? Give up and move on? Create some distance and see what she does? or call it quit?..

You're being somewhat vague.

What exactly happened?

Posted by theie
Yeah man...this is not so bad..


but she probably knows your intentions already so its not so good either


tell me the story

I don't think she knows me intention, I think she missread them quite often by judging me on her impressions instead of asking me. So I kinda got stuck in her assumptions I would say.

Posted by MissPirate

Posted by Leo1212
What do you do if you, unknowingly, went too fast with a pisces girl and it backfired? Give up and move on? Create some distance and see what she does? or call it quit?..

You're being somewhat vague.

What exactly happened?

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I'll try to resume it to its essential. I met her and found her to be too shy and such but over time she opened up and opened up to my humour etc. so I thought I like what I see from this person and I wanna get to know her. So, with that intention in mind, over time we started to talk. At one point, I saw that she went through something I went through before and I thought she needed to change her mind so I invited her to go to a museum. She misread my intention or was against the idea, but I explained why I offered and it was solely for her good not for a date or such but I think that she might have felt it was too fast and showed signs of asking me to slow down but I might have missed those.

I continued to trying to get to know about her, and that's what I eman by my leo thing, trying to know about someone and how they are think etc. but I feel I got stuck with that judgment or assomption about me and since I missed that big Slow Down sign I think it just complciated things were aon't know if its too late to back off to the beginning and let her drive the car instead of me being the driver, which is a leo thing that didnt seem to work in this.

Ok hun. I'm a little bit confused. At first you said " so I thought I like what I see from this person and I wanna get to know her. So, with that intention in mind, over time we started to talk." Then after that, you said " so I invited her to go to a museum. She misread my intention or was against the idea, but I explained why I offered and it was solely for her good not for a date or such." Hmmm, it seems to me that you were kinda feelin her and asking her out on a date. Lol. But anyways, I'm not sure about the details of everything that happened, but I think you should definitely give her some time or even try talking to her. I don't think asking her to go to the museum is moving too fast at all. But idk how she feels. So the best thing to do is just ask her. Good luck hun. 🙂

Oh yeah, and please don't listen to people who's telling you to just move on just because she's a Pisces and you're a Leo. That's so foolish. You can be with anyone you want no matter what their sign is. The Pisces and Leo combination is not easy, but it's possible as long as you two take the time out to really understand each other. I've dated a couple of Leo men and I talk to one almost everyday and we get along just fine. Again, good luck hun.🙂

Posted by missnia08
Ok hun. I'm a little bit confused. At first you said " so I thought I like what I see from this person and I wanna get to know her. So, with that intention in mind, over time we started to talk." Then after that, you said " so I invited her to go to a museum. She misread my intention or was against the idea, but I explained why I offered and it was solely for her good not for a date or such." Hmmm, it seems to me that you were kinda feelin her and asking her out on a date.

I guess I could see your point. From my perspective, and I guess I'm old school that way, I see a difference between a date (romantic) and doing something with someone in a casual manner. But I'll follow your lead and give her time, let her lead at her pace and see what happens.

when i feel that someone comes on strongly instead of letting things develop naturally i retreat. i don't like feeling like someone likes me before they actually know me. im not sure if this is the pisces sun, or the air in my chart. coming on too strongly too quickly scares me. anyway.. typically though if a guy does that with me, and they back off, then i'm a bit more intrigued. give the sitch some space