What did you love and hate about dating a pisces?
This topic was created in the Pisces forum by Victoria on Monday, September 12, 2005 and has 18 replies.
I was dating a pisces for quite sometime and he would be really clingy at times and then be completely disassociated with me. I'm also a pisces but i was never like that with him ( was i?) Anyways do tell if you have comments.
We can be quite possessive at the times when we need an answer. We can place all relationship dating etc thing at the line when we do not receive answers. We are also same giving in return, so this is something like Pisces mutuality.
Helllo Branh0913:
" I also find Pisces to be very uncommunicative."
I do not agree with you. Perhaps your judgement is based on your experience with your Pisces girlfriend. If so then I want to say you this: She is not the only Pisces in this world. Please dont place us all in same basket.
Personally I experience alot of communication problems with people. I'm not sure yet as if this problem is coming from me or from others. In the times when I try to communicate with people, they call me demanding. Ok. Let's say I am demanding. Then people want me to not ask that much questions. Right? Ok. Then I don't ask that much questions. But this is worse. Then they tell that we are not communicative. WTF?
" I also find Pisces to be very uncommunicative."
I do not agree with you. Perhaps your judgement is based on your experience with your Pisces girlfriend. If so then I want to say you this: She is not the only Pisces in this world. Please dont place us all in same basket.
Personally I experience alot of communication problems with people. I'm not sure yet as if this problem is coming from me or from others. In the times when I try to communicate with people, they call me demanding. Ok. Let's say I am demanding. Then people want me to not ask that much questions. Right? Ok. Then I don't ask that much questions. But this is worse. Then they tell that we are not communicative. WTF?
"Well being a detailed oriented Virgo, I would say people may think you are demanding because perhaps you talk about yourself too much."
No man. I do totally opposite. I do ask them what they want and how they want. Actually I was started to think that I do not talk about myself at all and that may be my problem with people, since they don't know how to relate to me, LOL.
"Pisces seek attention, to a fault, from their friends, to the point where the drain them."
So you mean that we want to talk with people about the problems that present betwen us and them? Yes of course we want. And this is what I call communication, LOL. People don't like to speak about their faults. They are lack in communication, not me. And how people do suppose to deal with the problems without seeking attention to the fault? Also would it be correft to ignore problems?? And what is not problem for others, may be problem for me. Arent we all different? Why should people expect everyone to have the same problems only? This is respectless behaviour!!
"Pisces people they are being selfish, and shouln't center every conversation around their personal problems."
That what I never do. And this is my mistake. Because being so silent with people made my social skills so retarted as you have mentioned above.
" But then again, lack of communication could just be a woman thing. I've found women to be terrible communicators."
Yes. I agree with that. Pisces women are quite silent.
No man. I do totally opposite. I do ask them what they want and how they want. Actually I was started to think that I do not talk about myself at all and that may be my problem with people, since they don't know how to relate to me, LOL.
"Pisces seek attention, to a fault, from their friends, to the point where the drain them."
So you mean that we want to talk with people about the problems that present betwen us and them? Yes of course we want. And this is what I call communication, LOL. People don't like to speak about their faults. They are lack in communication, not me. And how people do suppose to deal with the problems without seeking attention to the fault? Also would it be correft to ignore problems?? And what is not problem for others, may be problem for me. Arent we all different? Why should people expect everyone to have the same problems only? This is respectless behaviour!!
"Pisces people they are being selfish, and shouln't center every conversation around their personal problems."
That what I never do. And this is my mistake. Because being so silent with people made my social skills so retarted as you have mentioned above.
" But then again, lack of communication could just be a woman thing. I've found women to be terrible communicators."
Yes. I agree with that. Pisces women are quite silent.
Yeah Branh0913. I know that. But my problem is I guess because I don't open up at all. I mean, I don't really like the stuff that most men like to do. For example: Soccer. Many Turkish people are fan's of soccer. But I hate the Soccer. I prefer other things. For example paint shooting gun's game in the forest. People even don't know that something like that is exist in the world. That why I don't have friends of same interest. I have to find my own place.
paint shooting gun's game in the forest.= Paintball
Yeah Branh0913. Speaking about women is what they do most of the time. But after some time the women topic become boring. And everywhere you go, women, women, women arhhh. People don't have other life rather than the women. Their lives are meaningless without women which makes their talk boring like hell.
Ummmm well i've never in my life had a " woe is me" attitude or have thought myself to be "permissibly weak". So thats something altogether new.
Piscean boys are so very cute 
I loved the tenderness, empathy, sensitivity, appreciated the "clinginess" too, his ability to listen for hours, massages and by far the kinkiest in bed! That equalled the up side.
But then there was...
His lack of objectivity and logic in thought, his tendency to get carried away with emotion, his constant guilt tripping/emotional manipulation, his draining defeatist attitude and double standards... I'm glad it's over but I still savour sweet memories.
I loved the tenderness, empathy, sensitivity, appreciated the "clinginess" too, his ability to listen for hours, massages and by far the kinkiest in bed! That equalled the up side.
But then there was...
His lack of objectivity and logic in thought, his tendency to get carried away with emotion, his constant guilt tripping/emotional manipulation, his draining defeatist attitude and double standards... I'm glad it's over but I still savour sweet memories.
Pisces also like to project a "victimized" approach to life. Pisces women I have encountered have always taken a "woe is me" mentality. I don't believe people are victims 100% of the time.
Brahn0913...I agree WHOLEHEARTEDLY with the victim thing. Is that NOT the most annoying thing ever? It's like, Oh I had a bad childhood so I have an excuse to be an ass...or everyone does me so bad and uses me. I hate that crap! All of them who have had any severe hardship in life act like they just can't ever get over it and make you suffer in turn.
Juno...what was the story with you & your Pisces, if you don't mind me asking
Cancerlady
Brahn0913...I agree WHOLEHEARTEDLY with the victim thing. Is that NOT the most annoying thing ever? It's like, Oh I had a bad childhood so I have an excuse to be an ass...or everyone does me so bad and uses me. I hate that crap! All of them who have had any severe hardship in life act like they just can't ever get over it and make you suffer in turn.
Juno...what was the story with you & your Pisces, if you don't mind me asking
Cancerlady
Pisces boy and I met over the net.
I found ee had fantastic instant rapport; ended up meeting in person and after a while I found there wasn't much time for anything or anyone else - he became all-consuming. We stayed together for a year. The relationship was too draining emotionally, and he tended to get hurt if I needed any space alone or time with friends. I know I wasn't receptive enough to his feelings and lost patience with him after a while too. But in general I loved the needy side of him, maybe because of my protective scorpio moon but I also have 7th house in Uranus which makes me need my space from time to time - he had his in Moon (which made him clingier than ever).
I think maybe if I had earth in my moon (more stability/less likely to give into to his emotional games), then it would have lasted, maybe. That sounds terrible because I would never take the experience back, it was really special for me. These guys bring out things in you that you never knew existed, it was deffinately a life changing experience - maybe if I was retired and had all the time in the world for him I'd have considered something permanent.
I found ee had fantastic instant rapport; ended up meeting in person and after a while I found there wasn't much time for anything or anyone else - he became all-consuming. We stayed together for a year. The relationship was too draining emotionally, and he tended to get hurt if I needed any space alone or time with friends. I know I wasn't receptive enough to his feelings and lost patience with him after a while too. But in general I loved the needy side of him, maybe because of my protective scorpio moon but I also have 7th house in Uranus which makes me need my space from time to time - he had his in Moon (which made him clingier than ever).
I think maybe if I had earth in my moon (more stability/less likely to give into to his emotional games), then it would have lasted, maybe. That sounds terrible because I would never take the experience back, it was really special for me. These guys bring out things in you that you never knew existed, it was deffinately a life changing experience - maybe if I was retired and had all the time in the world for him I'd have considered something permanent.
I guess im lucky and both myself and my pisces has taurus moons.He knows how to leave me alone once in awhile but also makes for very stubborn arguements the few times we do argue.
Juno...
It seems as if we should have switched Pisces because mine is always so damn busy. I never get any time. You probably would have liked him. His moon is in Cancer but Venus in Aries AND Gemini Rising...I never had a chance.
Tiamat...you are the only female I know that doesn't have problems with your Pisces...must be the real deal. I am very happy for you!
CL/CM2
It seems as if we should have switched Pisces because mine is always so damn busy. I never get any time. You probably would have liked him. His moon is in Cancer but Venus in Aries AND Gemini Rising...I never had a chance.
Tiamat...you are the only female I know that doesn't have problems with your Pisces...must be the real deal. I am very happy for you!
CL/CM2
He's only 29-is a snakey for chinese though which is supposedly another taurus.But on the whole he isn't the typical pisces-he's not very emotional,exsessively jealous,needy or soft being compared to the other pisces I know.He doesn't have much water in his charts either although I don't know his rising,have read if other aspects are higher in degrees it outweighs the sunsign though in personality.
Sun-pisces 5 degrees
Moon-taurus 20 degrees
Mercury-aquarius 20 degrees
Venus-aries 18 degrees
Mars-aquarius 11 degrees
Jupiter-Taurus 23 degrees
Saturn-leo 11 degress
Everything else is basically generation stuff.
Sun-pisces 5 degrees
Moon-taurus 20 degrees
Mercury-aquarius 20 degrees
Venus-aries 18 degrees
Mars-aquarius 11 degrees
Jupiter-Taurus 23 degrees
Saturn-leo 11 degress
Everything else is basically generation stuff.
He did have to help his single mother pay bills at a young age though so yeah the getting real thing may of happened to him,didn't know him until he was about 20.
Damn Tiamat...That's crazy
The only difference in the charts of my Pisces & yours is the Moon & Mars sign...his is in Cancer/Sag respectively. Sun, Mercury, & Venus are all the same...What happened to mine?!!
Well he is a Rooster (Virgo) that's different too..Hmmm Pisses me off!
The only difference in the charts of my Pisces & yours is the Moon & Mars sign...his is in Cancer/Sag respectively. Sun, Mercury, & Venus are all the same...What happened to mine?!!
Well he is a Rooster (Virgo) that's different too..Hmmm Pisses me off!
BTW Brahn...I agree with you on this too...
Most Pisces don't know reality, and they tend to obsintately cling on to their fantasies.
My Pisces man is still trying to pretend the babies don't exist. I asked him to come to the doctor with me so the could check his genetics (for the babies health) and he freaked out and got back on that "I'm not down for this and I want nothing to do with them and I don't even want to think or talk about it" crap...only to call me later & say "I am confused, I can't let you go" crap. Then I told him pretending like it doesn't exist isn't going to make it go away...he said "let me deal with this the way I can"
TOTAL BS! Get outta the clouds man!
Most Pisces don't know reality, and they tend to obsintately cling on to their fantasies.
My Pisces man is still trying to pretend the babies don't exist. I asked him to come to the doctor with me so the could check his genetics (for the babies health) and he freaked out and got back on that "I'm not down for this and I want nothing to do with them and I don't even want to think or talk about it" crap...only to call me later & say "I am confused, I can't let you go" crap. Then I told him pretending like it doesn't exist isn't going to make it go away...he said "let me deal with this the way I can"
TOTAL BS! Get outta the clouds man!
Tiamat, omg, I had to look twice, in case my Pisces was not the same guy as yours
Moon- Virgo
Mercury- Pisc
Venus- Aries
Mars- Aqua
Jupiter- Tau
Saturn- Leo (very similar)
This guy was also a snake in Chinese astro, born 6th Mar 77.
Cancerlady.. Yes I understand what you mean by damn busy.. I have a pisces friend she has the Gemini rising and it's so hard to get a hold of her, she's always off being "social".
Moon- Virgo
Mercury- Pisc
Venus- Aries
Mars- Aqua
Jupiter- Tau
Saturn- Leo (very similar)
This guy was also a snake in Chinese astro, born 6th Mar 77.
Cancerlady.. Yes I understand what you mean by damn busy.. I have a pisces friend she has the Gemini rising and it's so hard to get a hold of her, she's always off being "social".
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