WHAT DO I DO??

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by ventibreeze on Sunday, January 22, 2012 and has 23 replies.
Hello all! I was sitting at home watching tv minding my own business, the phone rings, it's my pisces ex??!!
He asks me how i am, i say fine and i ask him the same, he's okay too, cool, everyone is fine.
Then he drops it on me, he has started to see another girl, he realy likes her, i wish him well, then he out of the blue he asks me if i will meet her????? WHY?? i say, he wants me to see if i think she is good for him. How the bloody hell do i know? It's none of my business who he sees, i told him that he has to figure that out for himself and he got realy nasty with me, which in turn hurt me. I mean, why ask me such a personal thing to do. What should i do? We ended our relationship on a realy good note, I mean it when i say i wished him well. I realy do, is it usual for pisces men to seek the help of their exes, it seems so odd.
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I would agree with Virgo. Regardless the sign, when a relationship ends on good terms it usually means you were also good friends throughout. He probably values your opinion, he knows you care about him and he wants not only a female perspective of this girl's character, but he trusts that you would want him to be happy. If you don't have romantic feelings left for him, what does it hurt! He still obviously cares about you and puts your judgment of her to high regard. I don't think it was a big deal that he asked you, nor if you do it. If there are still feelings involved, then I'd say no.
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Thanks for your comments, but i just don't want to be blamed for anything in the future. She is a LEO apparantly, if that means anything. He told me that me that she is the female version of him, she goes to church, she is very quiet and quite shy. The exact opposite of me.......oh boy!
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Posted by ventibreeze
Then he drops it on me, he has started to see another girl, he realy likes her, i wish him well, then he out of the blue he asks me if i will meet her????? WHY?? i say, he wants me to see if i think she is good for him.




It should be obvious to everyone at this point that he thought of you as a friend.
Which makes perfect sense as to why it ended on such good terms ... because women, it seems, can't end a REAL relationship on good terms. And when I say REAL, I mean where the guy actually feels for the woman, and it's just her delusion.
For example: See Cancer Cunt
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I think it was rude and deliberately "in your face" cruel. Sounds like he wants to show you what he's got now. Uggh, I would've hung up on him.
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You can kindly then tell him you apreciate that he valued your opinion but you'd rather not be the one to influence him one way or another. She goes to church so she should have some wholesome values learned which means she most likely treats him well. That can go the opposite though. If religion is forced on her rather than her embracing it and taking it in, it can make for a rebellious person. Kind of like a preachers daughter feeling like she can't explore and be who she wants to be so she sneaks out and gets into trouble. I'm just in a rambling mood right now. I'm not sure I even know what I'm talking about. He's a big boy, he'll be fine with whatever he does with her.
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When a guy feels for a woman he doesn't call her a joke a looser and a moron. He doesn't ignore her on her very first mothers day, he doesn't tell her while she cries to him if he doesn't take better care of her heart, he will loose it, that he doesn't give a fuck what she thinks or how she feels. I'm still trying to wrap my head around this supposedly being a guy who cares about a woman. Cutting off her husband to get him to want to leave her instead of having the balls herself to leave, now that speaks cunt, wouldn't you say?
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Hmm that could go one or two ways. But before I start...who ended the relationship? Where you both alright with the split? Is there any feelings left over where something could be more, on both ends? I'm sorry but my senses are tingling and I need more info on this one.
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Oh H she's just trying to get you riled up. Pay no attention to her.
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Posted by tbird
Oh H she's just trying to get you riled up. Pay no attention to her.

I liked to get riled up.
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Posted by ventibreeze
he asks me if i will meet her????? WHY?? i say, he wants me to see if i think she is good for him. How the bloody hell do i know?


This is stupid...he doesn't need your opinion...and pisces men ...in my experience...do like to make you jealous with shit like this...they will do and say things for a reaction...
If he got nasty because you didn't want to meet and told him he has to figure it out for himself...it looks like he thinks he can control what you should do...well newsflash you can do what you want so don't feed his ego...and don't show a reaction because the Pisces guy will look for that for years to come they thrive on that...lol
Regardless if he has a new woman some just can't let go...want to continue that comfort level of what they had in the relationship as if you never parted...my ex is the same like this and I just don't wanna bother but because I have children the best I can do is pass the phone haha...
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I could meet my ex's new GF now w/ no problem - but this is eight years after the fact! We ended on a good note and I wished him the best, but STILL....

He obviously thinks highly of you and values your opinion, which is great, but clearly you are not quite there yet to be meeting the new girl. And that's okay. Dont let anyone make you feel bad about that. If you value him though, dont let this come between you. Call him and just explain that you dont feel comfortable doing that but wish him the best w/ her. Just be honest.
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I honestly don't think of his actions as cruel, i care very much about him still love him, but i want him to be happy, i just don't want to get inbetween any of his new relationships. If he likes her he should just go for it, he doesn't need my input. And i don't want to give it quite frankly. Our relationship was difficult, strained, we just didn't understand each other, and we didn't think it was fair to stick around and hope things would change when they plainly weren't. Like i have said, he was just lovely, i feel lucky to have known him, and we agreed to be there for each other if times get tough, but i just don't want to come inbetween him and his new ladyfriend.
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Now I know you're either deluded in believing that you were in a relationship with him when you weren't ... or this is jsut a big fabrication, fantasy of yours ... because you said something right there that has red flags waving.
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Posted by ventibreeze
Our relationship was difficult, strained, we just didn't understand each other .....




If there was no understanding between the two of you .. then that means you didn't understand him.
So, there's no fucking way he is going to seek out your advice on who/what is good for him. Pisces are adamant about that detail. If a person doesn't understand where they are coming from then they have zero interest in trying to make them get it, and will instead, jump stream and go find someone who will.
It's highly likely that this is all in your head.
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HE called me. Why would i lie about that? YOU CUNTING OLD FAG HAG!!!
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LOL............hag hag hag, you obviously aren't getting enough great sex or you wouldn't be so uptight you dryed up old twot!
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RATTY RAT i will thwack you with a broom handle!!!
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lol, you sound like a teenager

Actually, that would solve this equation
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Blah blah blah.........i would bloody well hope that i sound like a teenager, i'm a saggy i have a rep to uphold. You just hate anyone else to have an opinion you silly woman, far be it from anyone else to retaliate to your waste of time negative comments. Carry on P ANGEL, i can be a right nasty cunt too.
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wayyyy too many sensitive people on these boards...sheesh
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Well, we all know that a Pisces wouldn't give a person the time of day if this said person had no understanding of the Fish, and failed to communicate .... so, therefore we all know that he would NEVER contact this person for advice.

You can blah, blah, blah all you want .. doesn't change fact, which is under the circumstances in which you stated, the Pisces isn't asking you what your opinion is regarding what is good for him.

So, that means you're lying.
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Posted by P-Angel
So, that means you're lying.


or you are just full of shiet (full of yourself)
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