ariespiscesgirl
@ariespiscesgirl
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What does this Pisces man want?
Asking how I am, and that he was thinking about me. ( i've been thinking about him since the day we broke up) I told him I was thinking about him too and he than told me he was sorry for upsetting me, and he also mentioned that my boyfriend was pissed. I corrected him and told him that it was an ex, and now he hasn't responded to my email.
I can't help but wonder, if he is trying to find out info on whether I got back with my ex.
I can't help but wonder, if he is trying to find out info on whether I got back with my ex.
He could of just never contact me again and I'd be fine with that. I have better things to worry about like school! But now this dreamy pisces has found his way back to the centre of my thoughts and I can't help but wonder how deep his feelings for me actually were if he felt the need to contact me and apologize again, plus I like the way he insidiously tried to figure out if I was single.
He could of just never contact me again and I'd be fine with that. I have better things to worry about like school! But now this dreamy pisces has found his way back to the centre of my thoughts and I can't help but wonder how deep his feelings for me actually were if he felt the need to contact me and apologize again, plus I like the way he insidiously tried to figure out if I was single.
I know this isn't what you want to hear but this man is too old for you and it rarely works out to go back for round two. If this relationship were gonna work, he wouldn't have walked to begin with. That's what I honestly believe. It's not enough to love someone with all your heart. They have to love you back and want what you want in a relationship. When they don't, release them and wait for a man who will love you and place you first. Sorry but I think you're cruising for a new bruising on this one. Going back to the well rarely works out. He's not the only fish in the sea and you will love again.
the 'is she single' sniffing - is purely to see if he can come back around and tap that because he senses that you are so easy to play, with just a simple repeat apology. do you want to be that girl? to me he's coming across as zero-respect.
if you want to bang, for banging's enjoyment... go to town. Keep the emotion far, far away from this guy.
if you want to bang, for banging's enjoyment... go to town. Keep the emotion far, far away from this guy.
Posted by deezie
the 'is she single' sniffing - is purely to see if he can come back around and tap that because he senses that you are so easy to play, with just a simple repeat apology. do you want to be that girl? to me he's coming across as zero-respect.
if you want to bang, for banging's enjoyment... go to town. Keep the emotion far, far away from this guy.
+10000
Posted by Este8
I know this isn't what you want to hear but this man is too old for you and it rarely works out to go back for round two. If this relationship were gonna work, he wouldn't have walked to begin with. That's what I honestly believe. It's not enough to love someone with all your heart. They have to love you back and want what you want in a relationship. When they don't, release them and wait for a man who will love you and place you first. Sorry but I think you're cruising for a new bruising on this one. Going back to the well rarely works out. He's not the only fish in the sea and you will love again.
I didn't post the whole story. I was never in love with this man. Infatuated? Yes! Love...nah. We've never even been intimate.
In fact when I simply just wanted to sleep with him, he turned down my advances and proclaimed that it would be better to date and get
to know each other.
We dated briefly as in he "courted me". It wasn't like a full blown relationship.
Posted by deezie
the 'is she single' sniffing - is purely to see if he can come back around and tap that because he senses that you are so easy to play, with just a simple repeat apology. do you want to be that girl? to me he's coming across as zero-respect.
if you want to bang, for banging's enjoyment... go to town. Keep the emotion far, far away from this guy.
I think he was single sniffing. I've never slept with him, when were dating. However I do think your right to a certain degree, he probably does think Im easy to play, however the fact that he didn't try to rush me into bed the first time around is pretty honourable. I didn't want a relationship with him at first I just wanted to play with him.....It wasn't until he questioned if that's what I really want and he told me that he didn't just want to fuck, is when I started to want more with him.
any who i think i'll take my chances, and have some fun before the summers up!
And I really don't think he is too old for me. Age is just a number. Men are so immature, I can't even look at another 21 year old.
Posted by ariespiscesgirl
And I really don't think he is too old for me. Age is just a number. Men are so immature, I can't even look at another 21 year old.
I respect your thoughts on the matter. I was with a man who was 16 years older than me when I was in my early 20s. I thought as you did. However, age isn't just a number. It's also about stages of life. And my ex didn't really want an equal. He wanted a young woman who he (thought) he could mold. It wasn't a conscious decision on his end but the fact he went for a woman so much younger kind of reflected his own level of maturity. I still don't believe going back is in your best interest because he already told you the relationship wasn't working out for him and taking him back isn't likely to change that. But I guess if you're not looking for anything too serious, it's doesn't much matter if you go back or not. Do what you will. Just live and learn as you go. That's what we're all doing. And, good luck!
to add to what Este is saying...
part of the problem with being in your early 20's, is that by 30-35 you're a completely different person. There is a lot of growth in that decade into becoming the adult you want to be.
The fact that you've stated you "just wanted to play with him", and that you were the one trying to initiate sex, but now you have no clue what he wants and are here asking for outsiders to crack the code is.... well... you're going to go ahead doing what you want anyway. You're one of the ones that just wants someone to validate what you already have in your head, because you're not changing your mind anyway.
Go to town. Keep the emotions out of it is the best I have to offer in the way of advice still.
And for the record "playing around" with people is a very selfish mentality. Have you been played around with? Do you hope to be at some point? I predict you'd be a hot mess if it has or does happen. So just remember what goes around comes around.
part of the problem with being in your early 20's, is that by 30-35 you're a completely different person. There is a lot of growth in that decade into becoming the adult you want to be.
The fact that you've stated you "just wanted to play with him", and that you were the one trying to initiate sex, but now you have no clue what he wants and are here asking for outsiders to crack the code is.... well... you're going to go ahead doing what you want anyway. You're one of the ones that just wants someone to validate what you already have in your head, because you're not changing your mind anyway.
Go to town. Keep the emotions out of it is the best I have to offer in the way of advice still.
And for the record "playing around" with people is a very selfish mentality. Have you been played around with? Do you hope to be at some point? I predict you'd be a hot mess if it has or does happen. So just remember what goes around comes around.
Posted by ariespiscesgirl
And I really don't think he is too old for me. Age is just a number. Men are so immature, I can't even look at another 21 year old.
good thing you just wanted to "play" with the 34 year old then....
sigh
Posted by Este8Posted by ariespiscesgirl
And I really don't think he is too old for me. Age is just a number. Men are so immature, I can't even look at another 21 year old.
I respect your thoughts on the matter. I was with a man who was 16 years older than me when I was in my early 20s. I thought as you did. However, age isn't just a number. It's also about stages of life. And my ex didn't really want an equal. He wanted a young woman who he (thought) he could mold. It wasn't a conscious decision on his end but the fact he went for a woman so much younger kind of reflected his own level of maturity. I still don't believe going back is in your best interest because he already told you the relationship wasn't working out for him and taking him back isn't likely to change that. But I guess if you're not looking for anything too serious, it's doesn't much matter if you go back or not. Do what you will. Just live and learn as you go. That's what we're all doing. And, good luck!
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Este, you never cease to amaze me with your wisdom! You nailed it again baby and I could not have said it better! Ariespiscesgirl listen to this lady, she's got it!
Posted by deezie
to add to what
The fact that you've stated you "just wanted to play with him", and that you were the one trying to initiate sex, but now you have no clue what he wants and are here asking for outsiders to crack the code is.... well... you're going to go ahead doing what you want anyway. You're one of the ones that just wants someone to validate what you already have in your head, because you're not changing your mind anyway.
Go to town. Keep the emotions out of it is the best I have to offer in the way of advice still.
And for the record "playing around" with people is a very selfish mentality. Have you been played around with? Do you hope to be at some point? I predict you'd be a hot mess if it has or does happen. So just remember what goes around comes around.
Yeah, I have to agree with Deezie on the "playing around" comment. Look, I'm not trying to be a judgmental biddy here but that mindset is NEVER gonna make you or any man you "mess with" happy. What it's going to do is plant seeds you don't want to see grow. You play with someone's heart, you get played. It's all part of growing up but stop and check your motives here. You could be cruising for a bruising. Treat people the way you'd like to be treated. That's the best and simplest way to live. It also lessens the drama by a factor of 10!! Good luck!
Posted by ninalovePosted by Este8Posted by ariespiscesgirl
And I really don't think he is too old for me. Age is just a number. Men are so immature, I can't even look at another 21 year old.
I respect your thoughts on the matter. I was with a man who was 16 years older than me when I was in my early 20s. I thought as you did. However, age isn't just a number. It's also about stages of life. And my ex didn't really want an equal. He wanted a young woman who he (thought) he could mold. It wasn't a conscious decision on his end but the fact he went for a woman so much younger kind of reflected his own level of maturity. I still don't believe going back is in your best interest because he already told you the relationship wasn't working out for him and taking him back isn't likely to change that. But I guess if you're not looking for anything too serious, it's doesn't much matter if you go back or not. Do what you will. Just live and learn as you go. That's what we're all doing. And, good luck!
Ah shucks, I'm blushing! Thanks for the kind words, ninalove.
Este, you never cease to amaze me with your wisdom! You nailed it again baby and I could not have said it better! Ariespiscesgirl listen to this lady, she's got it!click to expand
Posted by ariespiscesgirl
... when we broke up I was quite upset and made sure he knew and so did my ex who I ran crying too. My ex had sent him a nasty text message .....
You played two men against each other.
And when the Fish started giving you shit about your games, you came back and said ....
Posted by ariespiscesgirl
I didn't post the whole story. I was never in love with this man. Infatuated? Yes! Love...nah.
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... as an attempt to justify that since you were never in love, then it gives you a right to play head games with men.
You're a piece of shit ...
How long did you date?
You went crying to your ex, who actually defended you?
You and Pisces man deserve each other-- you both use people.
Bleh
You and Pisces man deserve each other-- you both use people.
Bleh
Posted by everevolvingepithet
*Sniffs air*
I think we got ourselves a f*pig! >🙂 0.0 😛
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