What will a Pisces Male Look for in Marraige

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Crazy Lunatic
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Sorry for the title mis spelling.

Anyway I love a Pisces dude not the same one that I was going about with that other leo chic and dude. anyway....

I want to know what does a Pisces go for in a relationship and what does not expect in a bad sense.

What are they like in marriage?

Do they like drugs or drinking?

P-angel can you comment please because your good at hitting reality at people about what pieces are like and anyone elses out there please do the same?

Thanks
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P-Angel
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Crazy Lunatic .. here's my perspective in generalizing for all Pisceans (sorry Sweet-P, I know you hate that) ..

It appears to me that all Pisces, no matter the gender, or even in just plain friendships .. we want to be heard and taken seriously.

This doesn't happen often because most people think we are too wishy-washy because our views are so broad. Oftentimes we think aloud and we voice different opinions that contridict themselves, and the thing is, it doesn't really mean we feel that way just because we say it. We are saying it all, from different angles to see if it feels right, to see if the person we're talking feels the same, or different.

And, I think most people think we get scard when something has to get real and the fact of the matter is .. anything can be real if that is your reality .. and reality can change with each changing thought. And because we are so open-minded to every possibility, people tend to think that we're living in a fantasy land and therefore, just disregard what we say, sometimes, as though it has no value.

Everybody has value, everybody deserves to be believed in by somebody. Pisces people "feel" thier way through life .. if it feels right, then it is .. if it feels wrong, then it is. And I believe that once a Pisces can connect with a person who understands this and accepts that just because they may not appear articulate, or decisive, or pratical .. then it doesn't mean we don't deserve to be heard, or believed in .. when people withdraw because we appear too vague, it makes us feel as though we aren't trusted for how we feel .. when, in reality we haven't even really stated how we felt yet, just going through the different options verbally.

Once we have this, everything else seems to fall into place .. stability, trust, appreciation, security, respect, space, etc.

So, in marriage, or any partnership, Crazy Lunatic .. I think that if you just understand that he may go through a whole slew of views before he actually makes a determination as to how he actually feels .. he'll be enamoured by your acceptance of him for being so broad in his considerations and NOT narrow-minded.

And that is important to us .. we feel like we are wide-open and are considerate enough to view all options before making a decision and if you appreciate this in him, he will feel endeared that you comprehend his objectivity.
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brokennose
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@ p-angel, i think thats so true. i have a best friend pisces who can never make up her mind but tries to debate it out load. do pisces do that in consideration for the person they are talking to? because it seems that otherwise they would just keep quiet with their confusion.

pisces come out with the strangest things too, one day my best friend told me she felt i was going to die..scared all day!