Why can Fish control their emotions?
This topic was created in the Pisces forum by fishworry on Saturday, December 9, 2006 and has 9 replies.
Is just me or all fish feel their life goes around their main love relationship. If that is going well then everthing in life is going well....why is it like that?
why can't we control our emotions? why do we feel so intensly for love? or get so attached they we never want to let go....
Jeee i need some power to control my emotions....like other people around me do.
Does anyone feel like me?
Nope, at least, not out of control.
Feeling intensely is certainly present, but, not to the point that I lose my perspective and just let my emotions run rapid.
My life doesn't revolve around the love of my life, because . . I don't let it. It's in my nature to, just as it's in the nature of all Pisces . . but, my brain tells me it's wrong to martyr myself and let myself suffer on behave of another . . so, I made the choice not to let it run my life, rather, I control it.
It's not easy, though, sometimes . . usually, the only thing that really gets me to where I have no control over my emotions, is when I see REAL suffering with my own eyes: like a dog gets hit by car, elderly abused or fallen, someone skeletal from starvation.
Only to REAL causes, do I allow my emotions to take over my brain . . not the FAKE ones of just being MY tendancy to martyrdome.
fishworry, it's hard as hell sometimes, though . . cause we just FEEL.
Feeling intensely is certainly present, but, not to the point that I lose my perspective and just let my emotions run rapid.
My life doesn't revolve around the love of my life, because . . I don't let it. It's in my nature to, just as it's in the nature of all Pisces . . but, my brain tells me it's wrong to martyr myself and let myself suffer on behave of another . . so, I made the choice not to let it run my life, rather, I control it.
It's not easy, though, sometimes . . usually, the only thing that really gets me to where I have no control over my emotions, is when I see REAL suffering with my own eyes: like a dog gets hit by car, elderly abused or fallen, someone skeletal from starvation.
Only to REAL causes, do I allow my emotions to take over my brain . . not the FAKE ones of just being MY tendancy to martyrdome.
fishworry, it's hard as hell sometimes, though . . cause we just FEEL.
You have two questions:
1) I don't have one to let my life revolve around her. So don't know what you mean.
2) You mean our emotions interfere with our judgement? That's pretty usual situation with me. It happens like that when we don't possess sufficient information. This is the strongest point that makes all my sensors either go wild or start learning wtf is going on. It's really not possible to predict how am I going to deal with situatuin at such point. Most probably that I will listen to my intuition at the end.
1) I don't have one to let my life revolve around her. So don't know what you mean.
2) You mean our emotions interfere with our judgement? That's pretty usual situation with me. It happens like that when we don't possess sufficient information. This is the strongest point that makes all my sensors either go wild or start learning wtf is going on. It's really not possible to predict how am I going to deal with situatuin at such point. Most probably that I will listen to my intuition at the end.
It's hard to do, fishworry and Lady . . damn hard, sometimes, isn't it?
Because feelings just well-up inside and seem so overwhelming. I think that when I was younger, I didn't really have the grasp on it that I do now and I would find myself doing stuff that made me a "doormat" . . I caused it myself, by forsaking myself and giving into him/her. As each year passes, it gets easier to cope with these feelings, and with age comes the ability to find strength, more in the power of the brain than the intense force of the heart.
The epiphony came to me one day, my life was revolving around a man, practically hanging over his every word and every movement, so I could jump up and serve him in some way . . other people looked at me like I was retarded, and they even treated me that way, sometimes. "Oh, look at the poor tarded girl, she can't think for herself", was the feeling I was sensing from them. THAT OPENED MY EYES.
The decision was made, do I want to look stupid, or confident?
It's hard, though . . . it's just in our nature to want people to be happy and comfortable. But, the problem with not having control over it, is that people don't look at us like we are loving them and wanting them to have a better life . . they are looking at us like we have no brains, no direction . . and in turn, treat us that way.
Because feelings just well-up inside and seem so overwhelming. I think that when I was younger, I didn't really have the grasp on it that I do now and I would find myself doing stuff that made me a "doormat" . . I caused it myself, by forsaking myself and giving into him/her. As each year passes, it gets easier to cope with these feelings, and with age comes the ability to find strength, more in the power of the brain than the intense force of the heart.
The epiphony came to me one day, my life was revolving around a man, practically hanging over his every word and every movement, so I could jump up and serve him in some way . . other people looked at me like I was retarded, and they even treated me that way, sometimes. "Oh, look at the poor tarded girl, she can't think for herself", was the feeling I was sensing from them. THAT OPENED MY EYES.
The decision was made, do I want to look stupid, or confident?
It's hard, though . . . it's just in our nature to want people to be happy and comfortable. But, the problem with not having control over it, is that people don't look at us like we are loving them and wanting them to have a better life . . they are looking at us like we have no brains, no direction . . and in turn, treat us that way.
SMELLY FISH HAFFO
CANISTER OF FART ELLY
*Meh* I know at least one fish who can control their emotions.
If you look on the bright side...it's these very raw emotions and passions that has made Pisceans some of the most artistic and talented the world over! i guess to a certain extent all signs have to take the good with the bad...'Piscean emotions are both our 'gift' & our 'cross'...without both for the most part, we wouldn't be the wonderful, soulful, sensitive, artistic, intuitive people that we are... 
Never give-up, (baby steps) you are much stronger & more resilient than you think...!!
Never give-up, (baby steps) you are much stronger & more resilient than you think...!!
Not shure, but I can extremely control all my emotions... 'If that is going well then everything in life is going well' That what we are - I gues?
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