Why would a Pisces still associate with Scorpio ex

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by libralotus on Saturday, October 14, 2017 and has 5 replies.
I agree with @Jayc3on. But there may be a chance that they may just want to be friends. Personally, I'm not friends with any of my exes. But I've been curious about contacting them to only be friends and see how they're doing, definitely to not try again.

But if they broke up due to their visa expiring, and lying about being in contact, it may raise some questions for you and because of that you should seek some answers. It would be suspicious to me too.
They are still knocking boots
lol obviously he's still interested
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I agree with @Jayc3on. But there may be a chance that they may just want to be friends. Personally, I'm not friends with any of my exes. But I've been curious about contacting them to only be friends and see how they're doing, definitely to not try again.

But if they broke up due to their visa expiring, and lying about being in contact, it may raise some questions for you and because of that you should seek some answers. It would be suspicious to me too.


He says that they're just friends. They talk on occasions and the times he's shown me messages they have only been friendly. The part that kinda makes me suspicious is how he's private about it. But like I said from the few time that I've seen messages it's been platonic.

I think it would be messed up if I forbid him to talk to her but at the same time it makes me uncomfortable how he's not open and honest about it. I think he won't tell me because he knows it's uncomfortable for me and wouldn't risk a fight.

They dated a year, long distance, after she moved and we dated six months after they officially ended it. I told him it's hard to get over a heartbreak and that's pretty quick to move on. He said that it was like beating a dead horse and it ended a long time before they officially split up.

Do you think they still have feelings for each other and that's why they talk every so often or more innocent than that?

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Hmm, well if he has shown you the messages and you see it's platonic I think you would have to trust his word. I agree with you, that he keeps it private because he knows that it would make you uncomfortable. Sometimes Pisces would do that, even though their intentions are good it may backfire and actually hurt their partner.

I think based off what you just said, I would say it's more innocent than that. The reason being, is if he knew that it was going to eventually end. A Pisces would close off their feelings, without telling them, and then eventually swim away. Since he knew that it was going to end, I would assume he did this. I did this with my most recent ex, since I knew it was going to end and I closed off my feelings until we had that "talk" so I was able to get over the relationship quicker than usual.

I would highly recommend to not keeping him from talking to her since it might push him away. But if he offers to show you messages, and you are curious to see em, then I say look at them. But let's say you constantly ask to see the messages, it would eventually push him away because you aren't trusting him. I also would reassure him to just be open and honest with communicating with you and how it won't bother you if he is maintaining open communication.

Out of curiosity, do you know his moon sign?
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Posted by Endlessly-dreaming
Posted by libralotus
Posted by Endlessly-dreaming
I agree with @Jayc3on. But there may be a chance that they may just want to be friends. Personally, I'm not friends with any of my exes. But I've been curious about contacting them to only be friends and see how they're doing, definitely to not try again.

But if they broke up due to their visa expiring, and lying about being in contact, it may raise some questions for you and because of that you should seek some answers. It would be suspicious to me too.


He says that they're just friends. They talk on occasions and the times he's shown me messages they have only been friendly. The part that kinda makes me suspicious is how he's private about it. But like I said from the few time that I've seen messages it's been platonic.

I think it would be messed up if I forbid him to talk to her but at the same time it makes me uncomfortable how he's not open and honest about it. I think he won't tell me because he knows it's uncomfortable for me and wouldn't risk a fight.

They dated a year, long distance, after she moved and we dated six months after they officially ended it. I told him it's hard to get over a heartbreak and that's pretty quick to move on. He said that it was like beating a dead horse and it ended a long time before they officially split up.

Do you think they still have feelings for each other and that's why they talk every so often or more innocent than that?

Hmm, well if he has shown you the messages and you see it's platonic I think you would have to trust his word. I agree with you, that he keeps it private because he knows that it would make you uncomfortable. Sometimes Pisces would do that, even though their intentions are good it may backfire and actually hurt their partner.

I think based off what you just said, I would say it's more innocent than that. The reason being, is if he knew that it was going to eventually end. A Pisces would close off their feelings, without telling them, and then eventually swim away. Since he knew that it was going to end, I would assume he did this. I did this with my most recent ex, since I knew it was going to end and I closed off my feelings until we had that "talk" so I was able to get over the relationship quicker than usual.

I would highly recommend to not keeping him from talking to her since it might push him away. But if he offers to show you messages, and you are curious to see em, then I say look at them. But let's say you constantly ask to see the messages, it would eventually push him away because you aren't trusting him. I also would reassure him to just be open and honest with communicating with you and how it won't bother you if he is maintaining open communication.

Out of curiosity, do you know his moon sign?


I guess I'm kinda of cynical about it. I've told him he can talk to her but not lie if he has or hasn't. He always seems hesitant to tell me when I ask and acts like it annoys him. We got into a HUGE fight and he told me that he talked to her about it which makes me feel like he still needs her emotionally.

His moon is in Gemini.. close to cancer. Her moon is in

Libra like mine.
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Hmmm yeah, honestly it would bother me if my partner was telling his ex all of our relationship stuff. So it makes sense why you feel like he still needs her emotionally. He just needs to be more straight forward because otherwise it's going to confuse you more and more. Since both of you have air moons, it would make sense that your moon signs would be compatible. Was the fight regarding his communication to her? Also, do you think it does annoy him or or do you know it does? I wonder if its the Gemini moon's moody nature, though Cancer moons are moody as well (I should know since I am have a Cancer moon lol)