Will my pisces man come back?

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by Bellapinhamd on Monday, December 25, 2017 and has 4 replies.
Aries woman here.

We had dated long distance for a year. We have been travelling back and forth to see each other and Hands down a truly gentleman, partner in crime, etc. There never was a dull moment. We had so much fun that romantic movies would be jealous of us. Finally after me telling him for a while he finally gave in and introduced me to his family. We went over thanksgiving had a great time and he said they only said nice things about me. I helped him out get an amazing job in his city and everything seemed to be going well until he received a call "from a girl he used to see" this call he didnt pick it up in front of me but told me she was a psycho who wouldnt leave him alone, that he would tell me if he wanted to be with her. After I realized he actually picked another call when I wasnt around. Me being an aries I burned the city to the ground for like a week. I had to go back to my city and I couldnt shake off the feeling there was something else he was hiding. Accordingly to him he just picked up to tell her not to call him again. But when us aries feel jealous there we dont stop until we see blood. I was checking up on him closely while he starting acting more and more distant, which instead made me feel even more insecure and the fights got worse.

At the end he broke up with me like 2 weeks after introducing me to his family and all this stuff happened saying we wasnt happy that he thought we would do great as friends. I crumbled and cried but at the end I iniatiated no contact.

Ive been in this for a week and I can't get him off my mind. Pisces man are bad in the matter that they can be very inconsistent and act like shady and at times he wouldnt stop bringing up an ex he said was "one of a kind" and all of that just make my worst aries behavior burst so he might be right. But together we were amazing and I cant seem to let him go so easy. I never fell so hard for anyone.

So tonight after reading online that appealing to their feminine kind side I decided to text him. Being very careful said that I think we were amazing together, that I analized what happened and I'm willing to change and all ask for him is to meet me half way, i asked for him to forgive him and let me know if he would like some time and space to reconsider or if he just wants to move on.

Idk if it was the wrong move but I cant live in this state when im holding on to the pain because if I let it go then it will be over for sure and I think we have the most amazing potential or maybe at the end he indeed was cheating on me with that girl, ive heard they can be cheaters.

Will he come around? Or should I just crawl away as fast as I can?

Bump
Wait for him to answer and hear what he says.

Your psych showed and that has unmasked ones true self which we all keep hidden during the first stages of dating. Easily done too when it’s distance. I’m sure if he thought his ex was psycho you may have hit a nerve if he’s been down that road before.
Posted by sweethearts
Wait for him to answer and hear what he says.

Your psych showed and that has unmasked ones true self which we all keep hidden during the first stages of dating. Easily done too when it’s distance. I’m sure if he thought his ex was psycho you may have hit a nerve if he’s been down that road before.
well it kinda worked. but he kinda decided to friendzone me for a while until we can discuss it in person. idk what to do because all im getting now its breadcrumbs and feels like he is just stringing me along then. idk if I should go back to no contact or what