Advice about Sagittarius guy anyone?? :)
This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by simplysweet987 on Tuesday, November 8, 2011 and has 12 replies.
Another relationship story haha
I met a Sagittarius navy pilot going through flight school, beginning of Sept. We completely hit it off, and were practically inseparable for the following three weeks (many dates, went to one of his good friend's weddings, etc.). My friends loved him and thought he was good for me. Soon found out he would be going 2 states away, but that it was worth a shot to see what would happen. I was leery at first, but he reassured me. Everything was fantastic, we kept in touch very frequently and we visited one another and always had a blast together.
Anyways, towards the end of October he went for some intense flight training called centrifuge. He came back from that and told me that he didn't think a relationship was what he needed at this time in his life and that he needed to make school his priority. He said he wouldn't be able to give me the time that I deserved and it wouldn't be fair. I was upset of course and told him that he knew this would be the course of his career and that I had made the choice to be there with him and see how things went...
I was devastated and still in shock. It's been a little over two weeks and no word from him, and I haven't tried to talk to him. So should I expect to see this guy again, and if so, as a friend or anything more? Thanks so much!!
if you need the information:
I'm Libra 9/28/87 born in Pensacola, FL at 0815
He's Sagittarius 12/10/86 born in Santa Cruz, CA at 1605
I met a Sagittarius navy pilot going through flight school, beginning of Sept. We completely hit it off, and were practically inseparable for the following three weeks (many dates, went to one of his good friend's weddings, etc.). My friends loved him and thought he was good for me. Soon found out he would be going 2 states away, but that it was worth a shot to see what would happen. I was leery at first, but he reassured me. Everything was fantastic, we kept in touch very frequently and we visited one another and always had a blast together.
Anyways, towards the end of October he went for some intense flight training called centrifuge. He came back from that and told me that he didn't think a relationship was what he needed at this time in his life and that he needed to make school his priority. He said he wouldn't be able to give me the time that I deserved and it wouldn't be fair. I was upset of course and told him that he knew this would be the course of his career and that I had made the choice to be there with him and see how things went...
I was devastated and still in shock. It's been a little over two weeks and no word from him, and I haven't tried to talk to him. So should I expect to see this guy again, and if so, as a friend or anything more? Thanks so much!!
if you need the information:
I'm Libra 9/28/87 born in Pensacola, FL at 0815
He's Sagittarius 12/10/86 born in Santa Cruz, CA at 1605
update: he contacted me tonight saying hey you....
havent answered yet though.
havent answered yet though.
sounds like he's fishing. checking in to see your reaction...
a sag is likely to put his career over a relationship, or worry he won't have enough time for the commitment of one. it's a big source of stress for them. at this point, it's better that you embrace the friendship and allow him to work things through in his head.
it's likely he will decide to pursue the relationship, so keep things friendly for now and don't have too many expectations. decide if you can maintain the connection, and let things flow at a steady pace.
a sag is likely to put his career over a relationship, or worry he won't have enough time for the commitment of one. it's a big source of stress for them. at this point, it's better that you embrace the friendship and allow him to work things through in his head.
it's likely he will decide to pursue the relationship, so keep things friendly for now and don't have too many expectations. decide if you can maintain the connection, and let things flow at a steady pace.
i got this from cafe astrology, in case there's anything here you agree with:
Inter-planetary aspects
The following aspects between planets concern the possible relationships between two charts: especially the emotional and romantic relationship, but also aspects on social, intellectual and spiritual levels.
-158 Square Sun - Neptune
Negative aspect: The Sun will probably suffer in this relationship. Neptune may deceive the other, lie, will promise a fantastic future that only exists in the imagination. Neptune will not be able to live up to these dreams.
154 Conjunction Sun - Saturn
Positive aspect: Here is a couple you can call stable. They will lead their life together quietly, with friendship slowly replacing love. Saturn will dominate the Sun - as is only natural - but the Sun might find this difficult to accept. In any case, as the Sun likes to feel secure, Saturn is a perfect partner.
113 Conjunction Venus - Pluto
Positive aspect: Great passionate affair, very intense and transforming. They feel that the relationship forces them to grow.
-101 Square Mars - Uranus
Negative aspect: They make each other impatient and easily frustrate each other. The sexual attraction is unique and powerful at first, seeming to arise suddenly and unexpectedly. However, it is a temperamental attraction and can leave just as suddenly. Erratic responses to each other.
-100 Square Jupiter - Saturn
Negative aspect: Difficult relationship as a couple, the two being too different even to complement each other.
90 Conjunction Sun - Uranus
Positive aspect: The Sun person will be enriched by this relationship with Uranus, which will lead to the discovery of a new world, original and full of change. They will go well together, but the Uranus person may resist marriage, at least on a formal level. In some cases, the relationship works better when the bond is not formalized, simply for the sake of the Uranus person's sense of freedom.
54 Trine Mars - Pluto
Positive aspect: Enormous physical passion. The sexual attraction is intense and insistent. They want to be around each other as much as possible. Their sexual relationship evolves with time, instead of dissolves.
50 Sextile Venus - Saturn
Positive aspect: This union could be favorable and lasting, if Venus is really looking for a mature person to be with. There can be a certain level of self-consciousness together that is always present, no matter how long they are together. T
Inter-planetary aspects
The following aspects between planets concern the possible relationships between two charts: especially the emotional and romantic relationship, but also aspects on social, intellectual and spiritual levels.
-158 Square Sun - Neptune
Negative aspect: The Sun will probably suffer in this relationship. Neptune may deceive the other, lie, will promise a fantastic future that only exists in the imagination. Neptune will not be able to live up to these dreams.
154 Conjunction Sun - Saturn
Positive aspect: Here is a couple you can call stable. They will lead their life together quietly, with friendship slowly replacing love. Saturn will dominate the Sun - as is only natural - but the Sun might find this difficult to accept. In any case, as the Sun likes to feel secure, Saturn is a perfect partner.
113 Conjunction Venus - Pluto
Positive aspect: Great passionate affair, very intense and transforming. They feel that the relationship forces them to grow.
-101 Square Mars - Uranus
Negative aspect: They make each other impatient and easily frustrate each other. The sexual attraction is unique and powerful at first, seeming to arise suddenly and unexpectedly. However, it is a temperamental attraction and can leave just as suddenly. Erratic responses to each other.
-100 Square Jupiter - Saturn
Negative aspect: Difficult relationship as a couple, the two being too different even to complement each other.
90 Conjunction Sun - Uranus
Positive aspect: The Sun person will be enriched by this relationship with Uranus, which will lead to the discovery of a new world, original and full of change. They will go well together, but the Uranus person may resist marriage, at least on a formal level. In some cases, the relationship works better when the bond is not formalized, simply for the sake of the Uranus person's sense of freedom.
54 Trine Mars - Pluto
Positive aspect: Enormous physical passion. The sexual attraction is intense and insistent. They want to be around each other as much as possible. Their sexual relationship evolves with time, instead of dissolves.
50 Sextile Venus - Saturn
Positive aspect: This union could be favorable and lasting, if Venus is really looking for a mature person to be with. There can be a certain level of self-consciousness together that is always present, no matter how long they are together. T
*Their sexual relationship evolves with time, instead of dissolves.
50 Sextile Venus - Saturn
Positive aspect: This union could be favorable and lasting, if Venus is really looking for a mature person to be with. There can be a certain level of self-consciousness together that is always present, no matter how long they are together. There is a lot of loyalty between them, and a feeling of responsibility for one another.
50 Sextile Venus - Saturn
Positive aspect: This union could be favorable and lasting, if Venus is really looking for a mature person to be with. There can be a certain level of self-consciousness together that is always present, no matter how long they are together. There is a lot of loyalty between them, and a feeling of responsibility for one another.
awe thanks! 
guess i'll hope for the best but not get my hopes up too too much!
This is the first Sagittarius I've dated though....I wonder if they are into playing mind games?
Don't seem like it cause he's pretty straightforward, but I have definitely had my share of Pisces guys haha
I can definitely agree with most of that stuff you sent! it was an awesome connection...
guess i'll hope for the best but not get my hopes up too too much! This is the first Sagittarius I've dated though....I wonder if they are into playing mind games?
Don't seem like it cause he's pretty straightforward, but I have definitely had my share of Pisces guys haha
I can definitely agree with most of that stuff you sent! it was an awesome connection...
harpoons on stand-by
Posted by simplysweet987
awe thanks!
This is the first Sagittarius I've dated though....I wonder if they are into playing mind games?
Don't seem like it cause he's pretty straightforward, but I have definitely had my share of Pisces guys haha
I can definitely agree with most of that stuff you sent! it was an awesome connection...
haha, you're welcs. i've been out with 3, and i'm with one now. yeah typically they don't play games, they're straightforward. they like a challenge. one thing i've noticed is they try to be all things to all people and that sometimes means key relationships get put on the back burner.
so...don't take anything to heart. if you sense he's blowing hot and cold, fallback for awhile. don't pile pressure and expectations onto him, and allow him to continue being honest with you, encourage that. let him feel that he can do that, that you aren't going to morph into some flaming banshee when he's being a bit unsure about what's going on with the two of you. be confident. if things don't work out, there'll be another opportunity with someone who better suits what you want.
pisces guys? omg lol
Posted by westside
harpoons on stand-by
are you calling us whales?!
Posted by nimbuePosted by westside
harpoons on stand-by
are you calling us whales?!click to expand
hahaha omg i died laughing of this....no nimbue the harpoons are not for thou
Here is another interpretation of Sun square Neptune in synastry:
Sun square Neptune:
What does it mean in a relationship when your natal Sun is square your partner??s Neptune? A Sun square Neptune aspect often seems to promise more than it delivers. Attraction may be based upon appearances, which may lead to romance but have a hard time in the cold light of day and a very real but different person emerges. Psychic and creative as it seems, each party tends to glamorize the other. This challenges the idea of long term domestic commitments made under this influence. If your romantic partner??s Sun is square your Neptune he/she is just as likely to see the partner he/she wants rather than understanding you and your desired relationship in your terms.
Sun square Neptune:
What does it mean in a relationship when your natal Sun is square your partner??s Neptune? A Sun square Neptune aspect often seems to promise more than it delivers. Attraction may be based upon appearances, which may lead to romance but have a hard time in the cold light of day and a very real but different person emerges. Psychic and creative as it seems, each party tends to glamorize the other. This challenges the idea of long term domestic commitments made under this influence. If your romantic partner??s Sun is square your Neptune he/she is just as likely to see the partner he/she wants rather than understanding you and your desired relationship in your terms.
@aquaj, he had been engaged before! She apparently couldn't deal with navy life style ...so im pretty sure it broke his heart. So all that made me believe he'd be ready...also he pursued me!! Hmm im trying not to think on this too much more. It'll all be ok
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