Advice on Aqua male... yes, yet another one! =D
This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by Marla.Singer on Wednesday, October 18, 2006 and has 7 replies.
Ok, so I've met this guy in a work/business related situation; he's an Aquarius with Moon in Sagittarius and Venus in Capricorn (for the record I'm a Capricorn female, Moon and Venus in Sagittarius). It was pretty noticeable how we instantly got along, and I myself was pretty much swept off my feet.
Being typical Cap, I'm quite shy and usually refrain from talking about my personal stuff but, for some reason, with him I just feel this urge to be ridiculously open. Not before long, I had told him pretty much everything that there's to know about me. And weirdly enough I felt very comfortable doing so, even though the guy wouldn't say much about himself (and as a matter of fact I didn't ask, either - I tend to give him A LOT of space).
Well, now, two months after we first met, he's beginning to open up, and is telling me some pretty intimate stuff which gives me good reason to believe he really trusts me. The thing is, even though I'm actually quite smitten with him, I've been kind of playing aloof since the beginning, and now I was wondering if it'd be a good idea to show some kind of, eh, deeper interest (and if so how should I do that), or if it'd would scare the shit out of him. I'm currently in another relationship (which is obviously not going very well) and he knows it, and I'm afraid he's considering me "out of range". I know it's way too early (especially for an Aqua), and I'm not considering any bold moves for now, but I really wanted him to know I'm game. Advice, please? =)
Being typical Cap, I'm quite shy and usually refrain from talking about my personal stuff but, for some reason, with him I just feel this urge to be ridiculously open. Not before long, I had told him pretty much everything that there's to know about me. And weirdly enough I felt very comfortable doing so, even though the guy wouldn't say much about himself (and as a matter of fact I didn't ask, either - I tend to give him A LOT of space).
Well, now, two months after we first met, he's beginning to open up, and is telling me some pretty intimate stuff which gives me good reason to believe he really trusts me. The thing is, even though I'm actually quite smitten with him, I've been kind of playing aloof since the beginning, and now I was wondering if it'd be a good idea to show some kind of, eh, deeper interest (and if so how should I do that), or if it'd would scare the shit out of him. I'm currently in another relationship (which is obviously not going very well) and he knows it, and I'm afraid he's considering me "out of range". I know it's way too early (especially for an Aqua), and I'm not considering any bold moves for now, but I really wanted him to know I'm game. Advice, please? =)
just be his friend. let him make the first move. yeah, tough i know, but it sounds to me like you're in the beginning of a very good friendship. why ruin things?
Wow, thanks, guys! That helped A LOT. I really needed to hear someone else's opinion.
Now, as a matter of fact, I'm very concerned about loyalty too. I guess I sounded a little fickle on my post, and that's definitely not the case. My idea was showing interest just to probe how deep Aqua's own interest goes... because not knowing is driving me mad! (but I do agree it may be way too early for that). I would never *actually* cheat on my current partner, even being as smitten with someone else as I am right now. I've been in this relationship for 8+ years, and this is the first time something like this ever happened to me. That's why I'm so lost, I guess.
Now, as a matter of fact, I'm very concerned about loyalty too. I guess I sounded a little fickle on my post, and that's definitely not the case. My idea was showing interest just to probe how deep Aqua's own interest goes... because not knowing is driving me mad! (but I do agree it may be way too early for that). I would never *actually* cheat on my current partner, even being as smitten with someone else as I am right now. I've been in this relationship for 8+ years, and this is the first time something like this ever happened to me. That's why I'm so lost, I guess.
marla.singer, i do think you should read subject: aquarius, trying to understand aquarius men... it is a definite no no to let aquarius know how you feel, this is one man who needs to wonder to be interested. trust is the most important thing to them and definitaly will it make a little scar in your friendship (potential relationship) if you let him know how you feel while in this long term relationship. maybe you can ask for advise to let him know that your relationship is bet rockey!
"it is a definaite not to let an aqua know how u feel" what if hes already showing u hes nuts about you?
unusualcancer.....COOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Ok, so now there's this kind of flirty banter going on between us. I suppose our shared Sag moon is showing its roguish, reckless face. I'm trying not to take it seriously, for my own sake, but... I don't really know for how long I'll be able to hold myself back.
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