Aqua is freaking out??

I've been aquaintances with an aqua girl for a while now (since feb) well I dont know if she considers me a friend but I see it as aquaintances. Anyway shes previously told me she likes me etc but I never really believed it, her words never follow through with her actions. And I told her a few weeks ago well she knows I've always wanted to get physicall with her but maintain the friendship. Anyway so yesturday I was bored and thought id stir a lil so I text her saying
Me - busy busy?? do u still think im good looking and find me attractive?"
she replied pretty much straight away and said -
"as always!! lol, Yeah I do!! Why wouldnt I? Do u?" so i replied saying"
Me - Dont know just thought you were over it & you know already know how hot and sexy I think you are. Well when the fk are u going to let me make a move? lol. Do you know how badly I want to pull you to one side and have my way with you! Nothing would change between you and I, just act like nothing happened "

So i get no reply. Thats fine this was at about 3.30pm, I left it alone and text her back at about 9pm and I said "Did I say something I shouldnt have or that made you uncomfortable? Or you just dont want to answer"

She replies like 2 and a half hours later going
"Hey girl my iphone is playing up. You said nothing to offend me!! Im bout to sleep now but will text or email you in the morning! Hopefully you will get this text!! Nyt xo

So it seems she got shocked? maybe freaked out by what I said... Her text seemed really awkward and 'formal' and she gets like that when I've said something that she didnt want to discuss. lol. I might be seeing her today (we have uni together)... how can I make it non awkward or what should I do? just act like nothing happened and not bring it up again or—....

I see nothing awkward or formal about her response. In fact, she said you said nothing to offend her. I can tell you if i felt even slightly offended, i would never say what she said. Plus, she said shed contact you tomorrow. It doesnt sound to me like you made her uncomfortable at all!

Maybe im thinking too much into it... I feel stupid now in a way for saying what I said. But I think she said she'd contact me tomorrow just not to make things awkward... I think she deffinately would have rather ignored the whole thing completely but maybe she doesnt want to be slack? The last thing I want is her 'feeling sorry' for me!

Hey...i answered because im an aqua. I feel strongly that you are over thinking this. As an outsider, i have to say that this looks promising to me! Sometimes its good to be a little crazy...sometimes it pays off! 🙂

I thought it would pay off... but then her reply I dont know I just FELT as though she got weirded out by what I said and didnt want to confront my question... anyway maybe im wrong. Hopefully i'll see her tonight. Do i act normal like nothing happened?

I can't help but think you may be more uncomfortable with what you did than her reaction. I seriously don't see what you're seeing...in fact, I see the opposite.

I would act normal. Totally normal. But I would hold back from that craziness next time you see her. You put it out there and I think thats great, but you don't want to force it down her throat.

Did you hear from her this morning?

Well we were supposed to have class last night (day after i sent the text) and she didnt turn up although she had said to me on tuesday when I saw her that she might not be able to make class on thursday (last night) because of her work etc etc. But still even if she WAS able to come, I have a feeling that she didnt because it would have been awkward? not sure.... or because shes testing me out?? see my reaction to her dissapearance...

Either way, I couldnt help myself and so i sent her a msg late last night saying

"Aye I hope u didnt not come to class bcos of what I said.... lol I dont want u to get 'weirded out'. Anyway hope ur all good. laterr"

This was last night I thought she'd reply this morning (she usualy replys instantly when I text her in the mornings or she tends to text me to say goodmorning. Anyway she hasnt replied and I highly doubt i'll hear from her all day and all weekend. Supposed to see her again on tuesday for class.. Im not going to make any contact either and if she turns up on tuesday then all well and good if she doesnt well im not going to ask why didnt come or anything im just going to leave it alone. As bad as i want to here from her, i've sent her a text already, she knows Im waiting for her to say something so the ball is in her court. she can take it or leave it!. Do you think shes 'testing' me? lol.

hear*

Unfortunately, theres no way for us to know. I think it is best to lay low until your next class. Then give her some breathing room when you see her and take it from there. I agree...she know where you stand. Its up to her now.

Hello again. She finally got back to me on Tuesday morning after not hearing from her since Thursday. We were supposed to have class on Tuesday but I fgured she wouldnt turn up. Anyway so she emailed me tuesday morning asking how I think I went in an assessment we had last week etc etc then she started saying she was most likely going to drop out of the course etc. She's said she wants to drop out like 3 times before and I always convince her to stay.

This time when she told me she was dropping out I told her yea thats probably the best way to go, might as well drop out today and not bother coming to class. Call them and they will fax you a cancellation form. So she replied saying that yea she was going to call them now and it was probably the best option to drop out because shes too busy at the moment to attend classes. SO??_. i didnt reply to that last email of hers. I thought long and hard about whether I should tell her how I felt since she was dropping out of the course and thats the only place I get to see and id prob never see her again her or just keep my mouth shut and be strong and let her go without saying anything and act like it didnt phase me. Anyway after consulting a friend who is also an aquarius she told me to just tell her how I felt because if i could have stopped her from leaving and if I didnt tell her how i felt then I might regret it. So I sent her a lengthy email telling her I liked her and a few other things etc.

So she replied the next day at 9am sharp and said:

hey thanks for the email.

It really says a lot about you and im glad that you have said how you felt!

I feel the same and well at the moment im not me!

im going through a hard time and well i do want to go to class to see you but thats the only reason why i have stayed.

I will try to make thursday??s class! and no i was not running away from your text!

Sorry that my email is short compared to yours but i cant really write you a long one as i am on my mobile and its difficult.!

Hope we can still talk!



So I told my aqua friend and she seems to think that this girl DOES like me but is just a tough cookie to crack. What are your thoughts??

Thanks guys.

Wow, I was actually cringing when you said you wrote her to tell her how you felt, but it looks like it was the right way to go! I think her response is awesome!

As someone who types on her mobile phone, I can tell you it would take a lot for me to write that much! 😄

I think you ought to continue to support her dropping the class. It sounds like you were the only reason she was sticking around. If thats the case then you two can get together outside of that class to see eachother. I think it would work in your benefit. Maybe you can even say...'hey, if you're not happy then drop the class. We can always make time to see eachother'.

I'd also though try to give her some space. It sounds like shes got a lot going on and I can tell you if someone pressures me I will always run. So, I think you should stay in touch in a nice light and breezy way, be there for her, but stand back a little to let her come to you sometimes.