Aquarius Men What's up with them?

I met a very nice Aquarius. Analytical and Intelligent, as a scorpio that intrigued me. We had a great platonic relationship for a month or two then he just stop communicating with me. Have any idea why? I don't.

I find that Aquarian males generally aren't interested in having a relationship. They're just sooooo independant.

he is playing game to see wether you are still interested in him or not.

if you re still interested in him, then call him, otherwise ignore him, and sooner or later he will also ignore you completely. i did it too to all of my exes

yeahh stupid and childish

Goodness this is JMO here, but as a lone aquarius growing up in house of 4 scorpios and one of my best buds being scorpio, I can say that scorpios can be intense and intriguing. However in a romantic setting I'd have to kill any man who tried to possess me, make me stronger, criticize me, all in the effort to 'improve me.' Scorpios are the greatest people I know, but romantically I just can't see an aquarius staying with a scorpio for very long. Fighting with a scorpio can get ugly and a scorpio can be seen as a cold hearted monster who doesn't let the scorpio's sting show on the outside ALL the while there is this underbelly of sensitivity that scorpios never see. If you are really interested in an aquarius the biting nature of the scorpian personality is the biggest turn off. However a scorpio also shows an aquarius an intensity that very few signs can offer and the aquarius can see a kindred spirit who instead of putting the emotions to the side to get what he/she wants, the scorpio has no problem dicing in an emotional intensity.

Since the question concerns why an aquarius can back away, my guess is the biting nature of a scorpio proved too much for him to handle. Don't stress about him at all. If he comes back, he's yours. If he doesn't then he never was.

it's possible that maybe he started having feelings for you and decided it's too much for him to handle right now?

i'm a scorp female that dated an aqua male - twice (same guy). we started off by having a platonic relationship for about a year, before he told me that he was interested in me.

unfortunately it didn't work out between us - all i can say is that we make way better friends than lovers. as a friend, i can always count on him to be there when i need him. as my boyfriend, however, he was never there. he was too detached and emotionally aloof for us to make a genuine emotional connection.

Forget about him! Please listen to me. I am a female scorpio. I was "involved" with an Aquarius male and we got along about as well as hot oil and water splatter! He liked me because he said i was a challenge. I liked him because. Hey he was cute and i thought a good person (it's that Aqua friendliness that sneaks up on you) They don't hold that emotional depth us Scorpio's need. Waaay to unpredictable.

Queen, I experienced what you did with a guy I dated casually for about 8 weeks. The first month was nice, but then bam! he started acting strange. he stopped calling, he stopped emailing, told me that we needed to break ties, but then changed his mind and would call me to talk...

it's part of their make-up...it takes a strong person to put up with their BS, independence, and aloofness.

They do get bored easily, and they also do tend to develop feelings that sometimes overwhelms and scares them - so much so that they retract and back pedal.

I just read the intial post.

I started looking into things, like what signs my friends were, what signs my past friends where, my family, and some things kinda match up. I'm an aquarius.

And I had a Scorpio friend once.

I ended it with her because she was VERY pocessive!
She'd call my house for me several times a day, even though I just got off the phone with her. It got to the point where I didn't want to speak to her any longer. I'd say something like "my ma needs the phone." and she'd come back with "WHY! Who is she going to call?" .. What the f---? Whenever I made plans with other people, she HAD to be included in them. She was acting as though we were best friends for years, even though I really made her aquaitance for only a few months! The point of friendship is that there is no pocession! That's why I personally like it much more than none plutonic relationships.

She also lied a lot, about stupid things that didn't matter in the first place.
I.E. lying about owning an article of clothing.. lying about interests.
Her opinion of things also changed when she was with different people. THAT drives me up a wall.

But anyway.

We don't like positions where we are made to feel obligated to talk to you. Obligated to hang out. Made to feel guilty if we don't do either.

Don't feel so bad about his sudden distance, if you moved in on him as quickly as that scorpio girl did to me.. He's probably freaked out, and if that IS what you did, I wouldn't expect him to associate with you very much any more.

If it's not. Don't feel so bad. I know if I haven't spoken to a friend in a while it wasn't to make them feel bad, you know? Maybe he's busy, or catching up with other friends.

"He acted so standoffish and did not give me a good reason why."

-ahhh, gotta love those aqua men when they do that!!!

"he is playing game to see wether you are still interested in him or not.

if you re still interested in him, then call him, otherwise ignore him, and sooner or later he will also ignore you completely. i did it too to all of my exes"


alien...ok, so what if an aqua guy does this to an ex even is he has been seeing another girl, in other words, he has a girlfriend but still plays games and strings along the ex to get a reaction and to see if the interest is still there...

"it's part of their make-up...it takes a strong person to put up with their BS, independence, and aloofness."

"They do get bored easily, and they also do tend to develop feelings that sometimes overwhelms and scares them - so much so that they retract and back pedal."


-i completely agree!

Why are aquarius men so so ja so .isnt it unfair to the rest of us pisces females.All we want to do is love after all it is what we do best and please i dont think we clingly and emotional and detached and all those dreamy thing we are realistic strong and independent maybe a bit stubborn but we are strong to —?

Who cares about Aquarius men? Sounds mean but after listening to all of this who would want to deal with that madness? I speak from experience though. And honestly they are a waste of time.

Aquarius and Aries are good together. I don't ever really hear of that pair having a problem.

i dont think that is mean..i agree..who cares? why expend all this energy and be in a state of confusion? It is not worth it...i have known some aquarian men in my time and they always turn out to be a disappointment..not becuase of how the relationship turned out, but becuase they made themmselves out to be something they're not...they lie a lot and are insecure...their so-called "unpredictablility" becomes predictable after awhile and kind of boring...There are so many other exciting men who you can have fun with.

hey honeycoe - i was just reading ur problem with ur aqua male. and how he told you afterwards that you were never his friend, and all that crap. so interesting bc the same exact thing happened to me. after my aqua guy started a fight with me and wanted me out of his life after us being together for a year he started saying i was never his friend, and he would never chose me over other friends of his. aquas are mad strangeee!

Not all Aqua's are like that - Really just don't take anything too personal. And sides, Any guy could say that to you after a big arguement & after u break up, I have worse things said by a virgo than an Aqua & I would rather be confussed by an Aqua than pissed off at any other sign - u got to look at what ur problem is

Whew! Alotta bitterness and rancor wafting from thess postings. I'm an Aquarius male. Had 2 scorpio girlfriends. Got along famously with them and they with me. Great sex, great friendships, great intellectual stimulation.

But the bottom line is that if a person is right for you then they're right for you....PERIOD. Doesn't matter if they are an aquarius, pisces, testes, feces or whatever. Love and all the magic it entails far outstrips any astrological influence. Anyone who doesn't believe that I'm sorry for, because their romantic experiences will only go as deep as their astrological beliefs and concomitant limitations will allow them to go.

hmm...I guess most aquarian man are very comfotable with the frens tag and blow cold when it comes to the realtionship issues. Hav'nt read too many aqua men success stories so they do seem like the commitment phobic types.

As a Scorpio woman, the initial attraction to aquarius men is really good. But all the A-guys I have dealt with have done the same thing. Either that, or I stop talking to them. As far as relationships, emotional maturity, and communication, Scorps dont work well with air signs and just like air signs, they will just wander off with the breeze.

I LOVE MY AQUA MAN!!! is working here - no drama -
HE LOVES ME!! HE IS NOT A COMMITMENT PHOB!!
geminifox - beer is good 🙂

Woo lordy lordy...hell yes. Committment phobes extreme. OMG, the story I could tell. I've been dating this Aqua if you can call it that for about 4 months now. I'm a Sag girl, so the whole independence thing doesnt bother me. But oh my gosh, they take so much work.

We hung out last nite and I was asking him if he ever "thought" about me when we weren't together, his response..."I'm here aren't I". I wanted to smack his head. He's really good at making me feel "random", which as a single free spirited, attracted sag, who dates a lot. I am NOT used to being made to feel random by my boy toys.

He's intelligent, handsome, and one of the funniest guys I know, and OMG the fireworks in the bedroom are ridiculous.

I thought I had it made, finally a guy who won't smother or control me, cherishes his space as much as I do, loves to travel, and explore like me, but then something awful happened....

I FELL FOR HIM. Strangely, Ididn't really realize it until last nite.

So last night after hearing him tell me twice that he is very good at running from relationships, my response, hell, what do you think I'm trying to marry you or something, I'm not saying I'm in love with you, but hell it would be nice to get a phone call every once in awhile, dangit. (We only, and I mean only stay in touch via text messages...) I could tell I scared the crap out of him, which I find funny. BUt honestly, I just wanted to know if he thought about me. Damn, throw a dog a bone every once inawhile.

So the evening progressed, we headed back to my place to complete our routine, dinner a movie and the bump and grind. It was amazing as usual. I really wanted him to stay the nite, (which is so rare for me). But, I woke up in the middle of the nite, (think I passed out from the activities and the wine) But my aqua was gone. Funny thing is, it didn't bother me as much as I guess it should have, but I'm bored now. Woke up, deleted his number from my phone and thought, oh well. Life goes on.

Decided, he's fun, but just too much hard work for this Sag girl...so I'm done playing with my Aquarius now.

So the moral to the story, I do think Aquarius men are awesome, but just DO NOT fall for them. Unless you feel like chasing them, and my four inch heels don't allow this Sag to run after anyone for very long!!!

Aloha!

Dear All

I dont think that this is going to sound good comming from another Air sign, but AQUARIANS ROCK!!!...i a Libra Women, have been friends with this Aquarian guy for 4 yrs now. We have just recently started seeing each other.....I like many of you was cold shouldered by my Aquarian Man, but that did not stop me from wanting to be with him. I supposedly, am amongst the most sensitive signs in the Zodiac, and rejection is one thing i perhaps, dont take too well.......2 years of COLD agony with my AQUARIAN man!!! but at then end it did bear fruit!!!
We are so happily in love and are tying the knot this December in our hometown.
Let me share a secret about Aquarian Men:
First of all, they dont like weak women, they like women who are mentally strong. They have no time for tears, they are good advisors, but they cannot stand a crying woman.....You need to be creative and active in Bed....They love that!! though they may not admit it! Aquarian men are KINKY!! so women do what you dont DARE! 😄....They are big gadget or automotive freaks, talk to them about the lastest cars, or about the latest Universal Remote and its functions, beleive you me, that will definitely grab their attention....Good cooked food is what they crave more than Junk food....NEVER try to make them Jealous, they never do, but might just stop liking you as a person...

These are just a few.....will post some more after i read a few comments to this post....

I am the poster-child for Leo and I am extremely attracted to an aquarius. I thought we were doing really great until all of the sudden he acted like he was spooked about something. We both are very intelligent, good-looking, and artistic. It seemed that we were so much alike it was insane; except for the fact that in a year and a half I start law school... possibly far away. I am confused about why he freaked out all of the sudden and although he is still "talking" to me through text messages, he has changed. Any ideas? I am not the type to really like a guy because it takes quiet a bit to impress me, I am so involved with school, and I take my future in law very seriously... but this Aquarius has really gotten my attention; however, his recent behavior has made me very nervous about the whole thing. What on earth is going on—

i think "play" would be the operative word in that explanation!!!

them aqua's love playing the game as much as they would never admit to it...
i am also a cancer with an aqua male, so i can relate to all of the above.

yes aquas love to play but they also don't like anyone getting the better of them, playing the game takes skill. If you play too hard they will lose interest and move on. its a balancing act and a very fine line, be careful, when games are involved there is always a loser.

you must play to win their heart and in return you must also show them, through tests, that your love for them is real...

yes aquas love to play but they also don't like anyone getting the better of them, playing the game takes skill. If you play too hard they will lose interest and move on. its a balancing act and a very fine line, be careful, when games are involved there is always a loser.

Its NOT a game...you have to be able to match my wits...atleast its not viewed to us as agame.

But it is a test...so to speak

lady m ...lol, you sound just like my aqua bf!!! he says that he is not playing a game, but that he is constantly giving tests.
i think he does a lot of what he does as a test of my love for him... hopefully, i have passed the test after 2 1/2 years!!!

Ive hoped you've passed the test..LOL.

Seriously its not a game, Its just the way we operate...we got to know you can be relied on (I hate flakiness)...and we need reassurance (aquas are plagued by insecurity and guilt...but we'll never show it 🙂). It just takes alot to put up with us, and we have to know you can withstand anything we dish out...thats why all the tests and trials.

Its not your fault, its mostly us...we got to do the figuring out thing (virgos are also known for this).

* I would hope*

well, i would hope that after 2 1/2 yrs. and a LOT of bullshit(that i was willing to put up with b/c i love him dearly)...that i have passed the test, but that is still a qustion i am asking myself. but, for the most part i do think i have passed the test. although, he is still testing me every day!!! i am beginning to think it never ends!
and yes, aquas are plagued by insecurity and guilt...although mine HAS shown it to me...and i have seen that side of him. he has admitted his weakness to me a couple of times and he has also broke down in front of me, which says a lot b/c nobody (not even his own family) has seen that masked side of him.

well, here's a question for you ...how long does it take to figure it out—
i am always asking my aqua this. b/c after all the testing he has put me through, it is obvious that he is still a little unsure of our relationship. but everytime he becomes unsure or insecure within the relationship, he wants to take a break. there's got to be a better solution than a break. and he always finds his way back to me, so i know that deep down he thinks i am it for him. so, if he knows what he feels for me, what is there to figure out— isn't that enough assurance?

Aquas may never actually be able to "figure it out" or even have a need to. You as a Cancer must accept and understand about your Aqua. He is never going to need to be "definite" or profess that he has figured it out. It will just happen by him showing you that he is "with" you, but not necessarily constantly declaring it. And he will expect you to just have faith.

Very true Unusualcancer. You are correct...if we're with you, WE ARE WITH YOU. Simple. I'm not saying he isn't capable of cheating, but thats not an aqua issue...its a huMan issue. Trust is big.

Moonchild:
I understand your aqua has left several times...but has come back...well next time he decides to go, let him know this will be his last...You shouldn't have to put up with so much nonsense. "We never know what we've got till its gone" ...well that saying is VERY true for aquas. But that doesn't mean he can be able to leave 10,000x! and expect to come back each time. Yes its true, we find it very hard to feel...even though we know in our head we're supposed to feel a certain way towards you. This happens with anybody really (like me and my family for example) We know we love you, but we dont know what it "feels" like....we usually find out when we're taken away from what we love.

(I hope this makes sense.)

I dont know how long it takes to figure it out...but once he accepts that this is it...he should be fine.

yeah, that's the problem...i wish he could just accept what we have and realize that it IS a beautiful thing that we have. i know he does realize it, but then he runs away from it every once in a while instead of accepting it. but i know, i know... i can't push him to feel a certain way!
and LadyM...he does tell me that he does know what he feels for me. he says he is unsure of what the future will hold, but that he knows how strongly he feels about me and that he loves me very much. so i do think he is making progression and finally accepting his feelings more...which is a good thing!

unusualcancer...that seems strange that he would not invest his time with you and spend an entire night together with you. when he leaves you to go meet up with other friends, why can't he bring you along once in a while— do you ask him, or do you just go ahead and do your own thing? do you ever hang out with his friends or just with him—
and thank you for the advice that ladym had quoted you on above...you are right. i can't expect that he is going to show his feelings the same way that i do or even act the same way...i need to appreciate him for him and except it. i know that he wouldn't be with me if he didn't love me or care for me...and that DOES mean a lot to me. and being more accepting of others and the way they are is something that i am working on.

Unusualcancer..the aqua I know is EXACTLY the same..might be the same guy?! He will never say in advance that he has already made plans for later that night, or the next day..its like they are defending their right to be free from all constraints (that would be cool if i made any demands on him..which i honestly dont). Its sooo annoying, and personally i find it damned rude. He has asked me to go along, but its totally obvious the he'd rather i didnt. I mean who wants to be where they're not wanted? Im sick of this guy..he's getting kicked to the kerb!!

"Aquarius Men, What's up With Them?"

Interesting question but I have another one - Let's say we forget the sign of the man because really I don't think it is that important - what is important are these men in questions ACTIONS.

So, my question to the Ladies that are in a "relationship" with them - what is it about you that tolerates their actions if their actions do not feel good to you? I say if their actions are no big deal and it works for you then go with it but...when it doesn't? why do you even think about continuing the "relationship?" what are you getting from it?

Personally, I think once a woman knows herself, she will have a better understanding of what she wants and is then better at saying "no" to that she does not want. Perhaps, these men are showing up for you so that you are able to find out more about yourself - what you like, and what you don't. In essence, they then become a gift to you. Thank them and then move on with a smile 🙂

I have been dating an Aqua since late October,, and I must say that he is the sexies t man I have ever met. and I am 50 years old! As far as sex, it is out of this world.,,,never have I been around such a sensual man. But, it is all not "blissful" I am a Leo and you know how we can be. There are times that I get annoyed at his lack of calling.....but I usually hear from him at least every other day and occassionally I will call him. He definitely likes his "private" time,,,, and that is hard for me to understand....but when he is with me,,he makes us for lost time.

He told me once that he used to go to the mountains,,,, have someone let him out with a backpack,sleeping bag, a couple of books and some food and just hang out for a few days,,I guess to an Aqua that is normal...but a Leo...I think not!

He is very family oriented and close to his friends. But I do not think I am #1 on his hits list. As for me...I could put him at the top no questions asked. Just the differences in us I guess.

I have found that when he is working... he is self-employed, that his work is his priority. He is also very musically inclinded.... and I have never been able to beat him at Jeopardy..and that has almost become a regular for us. Very intelligent creatures.

Not so sure as to whether they like for women to take the initiative or not....but as I said, I have been seeing him since Oct. This past week, I left the living room and came back wearing a very seductive black nighty... well, it worked that time....he was all over me like a duck on a June bug!

Other than the distancing..(which he has told me that he carries that trait strongly) he is a great guy,

As for honesty? I have never flat out caught him in a lie...but there have been times when I think he may have ommitted a few details or rolled things around to keep from being 100% truthful. Monogomous? I don't really know... I do know there is one ladyfriend that he goes to church with and sees her also some through the week...not sure of their relationship... and to keep from making him feel like I am attacking his freedom or questioning him.... I just don't ask. (Yes... I snooped!)

Courteous, flirtatious, sexy, chaming, and a little old fashioned....but I will tell you this....if I could bag him and claim him...I'd do it in a heartbeat!

Would love to hear how others deal with the so called.."Quirks" of a relationship with an Aquarian.

what up with aqua men who knows?? but let me know when you find out.

Luckily for me (I think!) the Aqua I'm dating is on the Pisces cusp so isn't as bad with the whole detachment thing. I like my own space so not seeing him for a few days is fine with me, but usually we see each other about 3 times a week (but depends on his shifts). I have noticed that most dates revolve around being with other people, but again, he is attentive and doesn't leave me on my own to speak with other people for hours or anything. He can be emotionally detached at times, but I think he does this to hide his vulnerability about some things.

I like the comment about the unpredictability becoming predictable because that's exactly how they are! No matter how 'out there' he pretends to be I can pretty much guess what he's going to be doing!!

And sometimes he doesn't text back when I text him, and other times he can ring me out of the blue for no reason so it kind of balances itself out all in all.

i have a friend who is a scorpio dating an aquarian and i think they are dysfunctional!!! he thinks he's the shyt when he's not and she just goes along with him...everyother week he breaks up with her!!...that's psychotic!!

Personal story:
I know this aquarian guy who i never really liked but i knew he liked me years ago up till recently when i started liking him, but i never told him but i showed it in the way i acted and now he doesn't talk to me as much as before and i want to jam his head in a blender.Oh yeah i'm a pisces if u were wondering.

i don't understand what u people talking about Aquarians, I am a aquarian. a Simple, Humanitarian, peaceful but with technical mind who's more concerned with work and prosperity. I no that we people don't give enough time to relations, this is probabely bcause we understand the situation more quickly and act on it rather than getting involved in some thing that is not necessary. i hope u all should try and understand aquarians more closely than u normally do.

another victim of aquarius man...

I am also a scorpio girl... i met an awesome guy that intrigued me soooo much... that was about 3 months ago.

Guess what? after the first month, I have had a hard time seeing him in person. I do talk to him everyday online thru messenger, but he is always sooo busy with friends and work, which comes first. But at least we talk. I DONT NAG him, "why havent u call me?" blah blah blah... I just say, what do you think of this, I read abut this, I saw this, how was it last night and the party or whatever he did.

Lots of girls are his "friend". The cute thing is that he does open up with me and he tells me what he thinks about them. Which makes me feel ummm "safe".

You have, have to, have to, read about this type of men. After reading about this type of guy, I learned to back off, and play it cool. If you really like this guy, you can't be hard and emotional. Just keep your emotions to yourself.

His best friend has to like you. They confide in their friend. That was THE FIRST THING that my aqua did when he introduced me to his crowd, his best friend first, and he already knew me by name. Or so he says.

Actually, about a month after I met him, and a weekend would come by, and he wouldn't invite me to do anything or go anywhere, I started freaking out. But, I discreetly asked his best friend what was up. And he said, "just play it cool and laid back". So, thats what I have done.

You can't be overpowering the first few months. Give him his space. But stay close. Just be friends. If you get to see him, don't touch him. He will not be able to resist that.

He is not going to get close to you unless he knows you. Tell him a little bit at a time who you are. Do things on your own, go out, park, movies, dance class with other friends, and tell him about it; and then one day let him join you to do something fun, but dont wait 4 months to do that.

You are a scorpio girl. We like challenges, and Aqua man are a real challenge. Scorps girls want everything quick, but these guys they take their time, that because they want to have a friend to hang out with instead of a girlfriend. If you go out with him in his crowd, dont cling to him, go off to talk to other people, dont flirt with the guys, just be like one of the guys. He will notice you. Make his friends laugh, he will like that. then his friends will talk to him about u.

I still don't know if my aqua likes me. But he did tell me that he likes how ind

I'm a cappie and have on and off, been in a relationship with an aqua guy for 2.5 years. Sadly, I'm disappointed to say, my connection with this aqua guy has been identical to the other women whom have experience with an aqua guy. I've pretty much read all the four pages of this forum and have not yet come across anyone complaining that their aqua guy is too warm and emotionally expressive, affectionate, committed, emotionally secure and easy going as partners. In fact, I'm only hearing the opposite and have only experienced the opposite myself too!

To date, my aqua guy has bought me THREE different engagement rings and proposed to me on four different occasions (once was with a ring he made out of twigs) and then has turned around, removed them from my finger and returned them to the store!! If that doesn't break the heart and emotional confidence of a woman whose in a relationship, I don't know many other things that would. He has claimed I'm his soul-mate and the love of his life but here we are broken up for the umpteenth time!! I've now come to a point where I call it (break up!) every time I detect his emotional coldness, aloofness, detached and selfish tone and talk. I'm emotionally terrified of ever committing to this guy and being burned over and over again in the future. Ironically (or stupidly), I still love him though I'm also emotionally paralyzed by all the rifts. He blames me for the incidents with him breaking up with me and which is the same as what he has done with all past girl friends. It's sad he never sees his part of the equation or takes responsibility for his own actions (an aqua trait?). I was married to a scorpio guy for 14 years and although we had disagreements, we managed to resolve them without much emotional drama or huge conflict!! We have two beautiful boys together. This is so not the case with an aqua guy. It seems EVERY issue is an EMOTIONALLY CHARGED and fatal incident for them! lol This is the 3rd aqua guy I've dated with all three having the same insecure and emotionally charged traits.

In reading the posts by others, I also noticed aqua partners saying how to "please" an aqua guy to bring him back to earth (which feels is all I've done in my aqua relationships sheesh!), but how does an aqua's partner get THEIR needs met as they seem to be the least important issue when in a relationship with them??

Thanks for reading!

Signed,
Dazed and Confused

Posted by Karima27
Forget about him! Please listen to me. I am a female scorpio. I was "involved" with an Aquarius male and we got along about as well as hot oil and water splatter! He liked me because he said i was a challenge. I liked him because. Hey he was cute and i thought a good person (it's that Aqua friendliness that sneaks up on you) They don't hold that emotional depth us Scorpio's need. Waaay to unpredictable.

I was with one for 10 years...we had this twisted inside joke that he is a cold fish...well, I will say that again: COLD FISH...
never again will I date an Aqua man.

Women thought are ok.

I met an aqua guy about 3 years ago,i was in a relationship at the time,i still am but we fucked couple of times then he met a girlfriend and where with her about 1?_ years.Out of a sudden he starts texting me and wanting to meet.So we where at it again and have been for about 4 months.

He told me had met a girl he was intrested in,i cant see the point why?He said i just wanted you to know..eeh ok..well couple of weeks went by and i thought he was at it with her,but then we texted again and met up once again.

I dont know how he would be in a relationship.

Sometimes he dosnt answer my texts,often when i ask or wonder about sensitive issues.I get frustrated about it but i no longer mention it.

Im a gem but i would rather prefer a more sensitive man,just because i have a hard shell myself so i need someone to break it down,and aqua is not the right man for that job.But they make fun boytoys.And its always reassuring to know that they struggle with their emotions and it has to take hard work to bottle up all the feelings.

I'm seeing an Aqua man. I'm a sagg.

I don't really have any major problems with him to be honest. I mean, yes there are times when he's distant and we don't speak for days, but for me personally it's cool, and in a strange way it benefits us because when we do meet we have loads more to talk about. Our 'spark' always seems to be that much stronger when we haven't been around eachother for a while.

I'm a laid-back kinda girl, so for us it works. Recently I've started opening up to him more with personal stuff and he's been really supportive and saying he'll be there for me when I need him, but because I'm used to dealing with things on my own, I sometimes don't ask him for the support. But I know he's there, ready.

Somedays he'll be really quiet, eyes and mind drifting somewhere and few words are said between us. Other times we can't stop nattering about something random and will be up all night, chatting. I'm quite aloof at times also, (Aqua moon) but he has an uncanny way of peeling my layers and opening me up when needed, which brings us closer. He'll kiss my forhead when I'm feeling anxious, and he's an undercover romantic.

The only thing I would say is he hasn't opened up much yet himself, but I understand the need to hold back sometimes. It's healthy to test the waters before jumping in. And as a sagg, I have a tendacy to jump in straightaway, so in a way he's teaching me that slow and steady wins the race.

The other person will need to be independent, happy (within) and mentally strong to handle Aquas. He ain't around to complete you. But he will be there.