Can a Scorpio & Scorpio relationship work?
This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by NovembersVeryOwn on Friday, November 6, 2015 and has 3 replies.
I'm a Scorpio (22 on the 8th) and I would say I'm one of the most textbook female scorpios I've ever met, many friends also comment on it. Very moody but very focused and never let my moods consume me. Quiet but in a comfortable atmosphere I could be the light of the party and magnetic.
I met this guy online in a city/country I'm moving to in a few weeks for a job, set my location on tinder to there so I could meet some people to hang out with when I came around a nice sweet German guy (26)..(I'm American, we will both be in foreign countries to our home) His introduction to me was something about him being Scorpio also. Now honestly I'm extremely interested in scorpios in general because I can learn more about myself but Scorpio guy isn't the guy that I'm dreamily staring at when he announces his sign.. (Cancer is the one for me that makes me nearly instantly intrigued and interested)
I think I sadly haven't had the chance to be close to a Scorpio, maybe in the past I was torn between not being interested in them because I understood them completely and there was no mystery or for there to be so much mystery and me thinking it's not worth focusing on. Also, I think most the scorpios were at kind of a shit part of their life, bad job, not ambitious, not really doing anything.. Which was a major turnoff.
This guy is different and honestly, the way I think of him now is very wary and almost too good to be true. He's very hardworking and ambitious (maybe this is from his German background) and seems very stable. Like he's in control of life and life is not controlling him, I know this is a big prob w scorpios. We have really similar interests and for some reason if I stop being wary I think I can picture us as a very strong power couple. We are both very strong, I see this and very determined and I feel like their must be emotion deep down for him and once we are comfortable to show it to each other we will be have this connection we crave but also have the success in life we need and crave.
He's very, very endearing to me even though we haven't met and even if I forget to reply he will ask where I went to continue our convo and he speaks very highly of me, which is great for my ego. I think he likes me more than I like him and that's mostly because I'm very wary of trusting him as I know if I did fall in love with a Scorpio and was hurt, I would probably be devastated and I'm really at a place in my life where I'm looking for stability not tons of emotional games .. Been there done that w a cancer I cared too much about.
I met this guy online in a city/country I'm moving to in a few weeks for a job, set my location on tinder to there so I could meet some people to hang out with when I came around a nice sweet German guy (26)..(I'm American, we will both be in foreign countries to our home) His introduction to me was something about him being Scorpio also. Now honestly I'm extremely interested in scorpios in general because I can learn more about myself but Scorpio guy isn't the guy that I'm dreamily staring at when he announces his sign.. (Cancer is the one for me that makes me nearly instantly intrigued and interested)
I think I sadly haven't had the chance to be close to a Scorpio, maybe in the past I was torn between not being interested in them because I understood them completely and there was no mystery or for there to be so much mystery and me thinking it's not worth focusing on. Also, I think most the scorpios were at kind of a shit part of their life, bad job, not ambitious, not really doing anything.. Which was a major turnoff.
This guy is different and honestly, the way I think of him now is very wary and almost too good to be true. He's very hardworking and ambitious (maybe this is from his German background) and seems very stable. Like he's in control of life and life is not controlling him, I know this is a big prob w scorpios. We have really similar interests and for some reason if I stop being wary I think I can picture us as a very strong power couple. We are both very strong, I see this and very determined and I feel like their must be emotion deep down for him and once we are comfortable to show it to each other we will be have this connection we crave but also have the success in life we need and crave.
He's very, very endearing to me even though we haven't met and even if I forget to reply he will ask where I went to continue our convo and he speaks very highly of me, which is great for my ego. I think he likes me more than I like him and that's mostly because I'm very wary of trusting him as I know if I did fall in love with a Scorpio and was hurt, I would probably be devastated and I'm really at a place in my life where I'm looking for stability not tons of emotional games .. Been there done that w a cancer I cared too much about.
You haven't met him in person and you may not be as into him as he is you? And yet you are overanalysing this relationship thinking up all sorts of game playing that will hurt you but actually hasn't taken place.
Just chill and be.
Just chill and be.
I'm not overanalyzing, I'm just thinking in general does this relationship work because of my current experience. Curious only, I like to know what I'm getting into before I get into it as an effort to save myself time.
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