Can cappy return back after breakup ?

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by Scorpio_711 on Friday, May 20, 2016 and has 11 replies.
I'm a Scorpio women born on 7 Nov 85. I hv been relationship with Capricorn man since more than 2 years. He sometimes broke up but usually used to come back by next morning or so. Maximum he would stay away for 2 days. But he broke up recently with me for apparently no major reason. I was going through a tough time as I lost my job recently. But instead of being with me he left me. He was constantly avoiding me and on talking about it he said he doesn't wants to continue as me and him are on parallel tracks.
I couldn't understand any concrete reason why he behaved like that. Furthermore he said I should deal with my problems myself. I felt so disheartened and cried a lot as he always talks of being together then why he preferred to walk away instead. After few days I called him and this time he said I was like a snake who bites him and because of whom he can never succeed in life. I never saw this side of him. And said that we have different paths.
I really don't get what has happened to him or what I did?
Can anyone tell him he will come back? It was jus a usual tantrum of him or he has finally walked away from my life... Plzz advice I love him a lot.
He seems psychotic.
Move on, girl.
Yeah it seems same like my situation. He does behaves same as u mentioned. On and off n keep breaking up for stupid reasons or should say no reason at all. It's so frustrating and depressing. So you mean it's best to move on. But it's so difficult i feel so handicapped. 😔😔😔 cannot figure out why he behaved that way what was actually my fault? I gave him my best
@brandyp - yeah u right on dat but I dunno what keeps m holding back to him n I keep overlooking what he does to me... Thanks for uplifting my spirits ... 😊
@cheekyfaerie - but don't u feel that u gave ur best to this man and this man doesn't bothers. Instead calls u a reason that pulls him back. And I have always supported him in everything n still get to hear all this. It's disheartening.
I wish to ask you something. Is it true that men say they want a women of equal status and talk everything about equality but in reality they always want a woman who should be a little lower than them. Hypocrites basically and if u want a relationship to work you should accept that.

Or is it just I'm not good at handling relationships 😔 Too practical and men like emotional fools like women and not a women who has brainz and demands equality...
Posted by alayna_nyx
He seems psychotic.
Move on, girl.

We, capricorns, are not psychotic, however, I like to come back from time to time to check her mental state Devil Big Grin
As a Cap who has done this in relationships, I say leave him alone let him go. If he truly cared about, respects & wants to be with you, he wouldn't gamble and play with ur heart like that.
Posted by Scorpio_711
I wish to ask you something. Is it true that men say they want a women of equal status and talk everything about equality but in reality they always want a woman who should be a little lower than them. Hypocrites basically and if u want a relationship to work you should accept that.

Or is it just I'm not good at handling relationships 😔 Too practical and men like emotional fools like women and not a women who has brainz and demands equality...

Fight for your Rights!
You deserve It.
Go ahead! Don't Look Back!
You want to control a man with the same intensity a man wants to control you. That's the equality you demand.
You crave it!

Now... after all the hype.... you're right!
Posted by sandynicecheeks
As a Cap who has done this in relationships, I say leave him alone let him go. If he truly cared about, respects & wants to be with you, he wouldn't gamble and play with ur heart like that.

Why u cappies do that. Want attention or what? Create a mess first then when u come back behave as in nothing happened ...
Posted by cheekyfaerie
Posted by Scorpio_711
I wish to ask you something. Is it true that men say they want a women of equal status and talk everything about equality but in reality they always want a woman who should be a little lower than them. Hypocrites basically and if u want a relationship to work you should accept that.

Or is it just I'm not good at handling relationships 😔 Too practical and men like emotional fools like women and not a women who has brainz and demands equality...

A man should be empowered by a strong woman, not threatened by them. In a healthy relationship, she doesn't use that strength against him, but for their common good. He doesn't feel emasculated by her, but proud to know she has his back.
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But I feel guys are dumb to understand that if a woman loves em intensely and truly she won't let anyone harm him nor would herself.
The things driving m more crazy is dat few days back he was all gaga abt m n does love vanishes dat fast n one has to use such strong n harsh words for a gal whom he claims to love.