Cancer Confusion!! Please Help:(

Good Morning,

This is my first time posting on such a website🙂. I guess to start I am Aries woman on the cusp of Taurus. I have recently met a cancer man. I have done lots of reading and it does appear that these men can run hot and cold. For the most part we know Aries are not patient but I tend to not to chase and can be very patient, perhaps that's the Taurus in me?

What has happened in this: I met this Cancer online, We hit it off right away🙂. From then he was texting daily, making plans, squeezing me when he could cause we do both have very busy career lives. I was so excited cause I actually thought I met someone on the same playing field as me and could understand the demands of work life🙂. We have met each others friends, he speaks openly about me to is family cause I have heard him on the phone a couple times. He was nothing short of amazing, I actually thought this man was mine....

He is a rookie teacher, this is his first year. One thing he does discuss is the stress and anxiety he get with the job as he tries to figure out his balance Then the storm came it seems, one night he is calling me to cancel our plans cause he is feeling like he needed some downtime, he was extremely nervous about that parent interviews he was prepping for. Then no word for two days, I shot him a quick good luck message the night before the interviews cause I was thinking about him. He responded witha thank you cause he was so overwhelmed he really appreciated it. Then again no word for a couple more days, we had plans for that weekend but the change of our communication left me unsure, so I stepped out of my comfort zone and followed up. He responded that he actually was heading home he had encounter some car trouble so needed to head there and he was going to stay the weekend cause he parents were away and it would be a quiet place to get work done. Inthe same text convo be said something unsettling to me, he made the comment that he is afraid he is so devoted to teaching that keeping a relationship gooing is tough... He did not expect this demand on his time and energy. I wanted to clarify what he meant, he called me righ away to let me know it was the job and not me placing these demands and was unsure how I was feeling. I expressed how happy I was, both of us seemed to feel relaxed by the end. However the last few days still distant, I felt so good with our chat is this normal behavior or a way he is approaching the

I also wanted to mention this man has talked to me about not seeing others which I was excited to agree about🙂 Just feels unsettled right now and I am not sure if I am just learning a new side to him or if this is the beginning of the end with a cancer man. I would really appreciate any insite.