Cancerian dilema of the virgo male!! please help
This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by cancercutie on Monday, April 30, 2007 and has 1 replies.
Hi everyone, i am (thought i was) currently in a relationship with a virgo male.
I knwo that several women on these boards have talked about virgo men and their charecteristics whihc i am familiar with, but wanted to post my situation to see if anyone can help clarify my current position and also if i am the one that is getting pi $ $ ed over nothing!!
Both me and my boo met on a website, it wasnt a dating website more of a social network and for the first 6 months whilst we were acting like boyfriend and girlfriend, he wasnt ready. Come the new year he go ahead for the relationship but there has been a big problem!! (well according to me!)
We both agreed last year that we would no longer go on the website that we met on, this is because although it is a social network typically men talk to women and women talk to men, however aroudn about march he posted back up his profile and his pics and has been on there several times for the day. Now i appreiciate that he lives far away and doesnt always get the chance to network, but he also lives a complicated life style in terms of family connections and commitments, work, study and everything else that goes on for him. I told myself that this should not be a problem, but last week he guessed that something was up with my tone of voice but we didnt get to finish the conversation as his phone cut out. I heard nothing more from him all last week (coincidently he was logging into the website!)and by friday i had to have a conversation with him...the converstaion was along the lines that he doenst see what the problem is and that is his way of socialising and anyway he doesnt have time to go one there and there are bigger things in life to deal with. In the end i didnt say much but graciously ended the conversation and again have heard nothing from him.
This might seem silly, but from the time we met, he has called me everyday, somtimes 3 or more times for the day to update me or let off steam about something at work, when he has an assignment to hand in i stay up with him on the phone checking it through and the rest, i stayed patient while he had problems with his daughters mothers, laugh, talk and cry that is how it has always been. But now, since last week, there has been nothing, no phonecall not even to see if i am ok. It's like he doesnt care anymore.
Was i wrong to bring up the website issue? Do you think my greatest fear that he would move on or find something else to play with come true?
I knwo that several women on these boards have talked about virgo men and their charecteristics whihc i am familiar with, but wanted to post my situation to see if anyone can help clarify my current position and also if i am the one that is getting pi $ $ ed over nothing!!
Both me and my boo met on a website, it wasnt a dating website more of a social network and for the first 6 months whilst we were acting like boyfriend and girlfriend, he wasnt ready. Come the new year he go ahead for the relationship but there has been a big problem!! (well according to me!)
We both agreed last year that we would no longer go on the website that we met on, this is because although it is a social network typically men talk to women and women talk to men, however aroudn about march he posted back up his profile and his pics and has been on there several times for the day. Now i appreiciate that he lives far away and doesnt always get the chance to network, but he also lives a complicated life style in terms of family connections and commitments, work, study and everything else that goes on for him. I told myself that this should not be a problem, but last week he guessed that something was up with my tone of voice but we didnt get to finish the conversation as his phone cut out. I heard nothing more from him all last week (coincidently he was logging into the website!)and by friday i had to have a conversation with him...the converstaion was along the lines that he doenst see what the problem is and that is his way of socialising and anyway he doesnt have time to go one there and there are bigger things in life to deal with. In the end i didnt say much but graciously ended the conversation and again have heard nothing from him.
This might seem silly, but from the time we met, he has called me everyday, somtimes 3 or more times for the day to update me or let off steam about something at work, when he has an assignment to hand in i stay up with him on the phone checking it through and the rest, i stayed patient while he had problems with his daughters mothers, laugh, talk and cry that is how it has always been. But now, since last week, there has been nothing, no phonecall not even to see if i am ok. It's like he doesnt care anymore.
Was i wrong to bring up the website issue? Do you think my greatest fear that he would move on or find something else to play with come true?
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