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I think you have already been waiting and are wishing for change in his actions or whatever situation in his life. You should be friends and stuff but until he actually says I think we should be steady. But I can't see someone being serious yet in his situstion.
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It will lead problems at work where sometimes you want space or the other will space it out because they might not want to step that way. Sometimes job don't allow being couples. So you would keep it a secret.
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This is tricky because what's wrong with just be cool friends right now.
Yeah sometimes we get attracted but sometimes with other people's problems especially divorces it can't are a toll on some one. Some feelings get involved maybe an attraction. And your waiting and waiting for change. I have been through that I'll wait a little till you handle your business, but I want no drama from the exes or don't lead on to something more just to keep you around.
Know your value as a Cancer. You have a hell of a lot more to give and offer than the Capricorn can amount to.... The relationship is more beneficial for them, not you. Try a Leo, Taurus, or even Aries.
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Advice on getting Capricorn man back after breakup?
Also, does it mean anything that he comes out of his way to talk to me every day we work together? Which is 4 out of 5 days a week?
He dumped me. He's going through a nasty divorce. Normal relationship stress on top of crazy ex wife stress became too much and since she controls him seeing his kids, I had to go I guess.
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All you can do right now is be there as a friend that would help someone going through all that. Then there is always divorce and kids situation at play. You can't do anything and can't have sex like he's a bff. You can be a friend and go love your life right now sometimes it's not meant to be now.
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If you have any goals then go do it and if it is meant to be I'm sure you both will communicate that to you. He did let you know what's going on though.
We all been through some shit like liking some one who has kids or is getting a divorce but no one ever knows exactly what could happen in these types of cases.
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Right! I totally understand.
Like I wanna be like.. You broke up with me, go away. Just to make him realize my absence, like I would normally. But it's like he does this at work when I'm alone and can't leave my counter. I would totally understand a Cap keeping it cool at work, but some nights he'll come up like 3 or more times to talk to me. He'll be walking around with his work mates in the middle of conversation and stop off and talk to me, or he'll have work to do, but stop and talk to me.
He has said he doesn't have feelings for me but doesn't hate me. When we were together he was always talking about holding me back because when we met I was ready to move to another city and was chasing a career and I hated this town. But then I met him and liked the idea of staying... So I just wonder with all his stuff.. Did he just do what he thought was best for me?
I know there's not a real answer.. Just hoping to get some insight on caps and what's normal to expect? Idk it helps me to understand sometimes.
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Oh and I've been doing things and keeping busy and he knows I'm not just waiting around on him per se. I applied for jobs that aren't around here and he knows it. I make sure to always sound busy or something when we talk.
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And I know it's selfish and it makes me mad at myself for thinking this way, but it irks me to keep being there for him, and then he's gonna end up with someone else? Like I don't wanna get friendzoned and then also get the luxury of hearing about his next love.
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Lol yeah, I mean, I took opportunities where I am that'll still help me advance.
We were just too perfect. Lol like he was all about me and us and a future. We had both been through the worst times with love and he even said, he felt like I was his reward for all his trying times. He talked about the future heavily with me.
But no need to worry.. I'm taking baby steps with moving forward.. It's just hard to completely move forward with him in my face every day.
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Can't you just be friends why not just be good friends. It's too much in your plate and his. You might even find someone else in your class or grocery store and we all be thinking let's wait and see..
hm well it's been along time already for you both. Since you've been here before.
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Go date..
what if he got back with his ex because of his kids or what if you both had sex while they were married, and you both had sex he tells wife now wife is going to take kids. He would take his family first.
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I don't know if I can be good friends. To me that entails me hearing about his future love life and I don't think I'll ever be okay with that. Even if I move on. Idk like I think once I realize our fate, I'm moving or staying.
I want to have kids and my time on that is getting shorter so yes I will move on, but it's like... If there's still something there..I wanna know so I don't have regrets.
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You an example of why it's not a good idea of getting attached to a guy who says I'm in the process of getting divorced or have kids and isn't yet ready for any emotional connection. Trust been there too.
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Nah, the papers have been drawn. The divorce is now moving. A mediator is in play and a temp custody agreement is setup now. The wife tried to pull some dumb stuff since we broke up and now his family stepped in and helped him get a lawyer to get things taken care of. The wife took his kids away for a whole month.
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What's funny is.. When we first got together I was really just trying to hookup..as I was trying to leave town and I knew his situation, he's the one that got attached to me because I was so chill about everything going on in his life. He was always telling me to "catch up to his feelings"
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I might be okay with not having a kid of my own and just his as I don't know that I can have kids... I have some issues :/
And we haven't talked about us. I don't wanna bring it up as he does have enough on his plate..I get it. Plus I think I have to show him I'm not a complete maniac as the break up was not the most graceful lol I think I gotta let him make the move with that. I'll have a timeframe, if it's not brought up, I'll let go and accept what is.
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Lol sigh. What feels right is being nice and there for him. As I do care for him...
But the nice girl never comes out on top.
My friends have referred to me as good luck Chuck lol
I think I'm going to have to politely tell him that I need space to move on. That I'm cool with being pseudo friends, but I have to move on first and it's impossible with him in my face every day.
Like I get every once in awhile... But every day? That's what throws me.
But also.. Look, so he had court this week and it was his youngest kid's birthday and the wife wouldn't let him see him, and so I sent him a message like "hey, hope you're doing okay! I hope the best for you this week." He didn't respond but then comes up to me at work as soon as he sees me and says, hey thank you for your concern the other day. I meant to respond but then too much time passed and I thought it would be weird. ?? Lol then he told me about how everything went.
But you're right. It's awkward. It's hard to say what's going through his mind.. Probably not anything to do with us with all his other stuff. And I understand that.
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Hm maybe he still interested but is going through a nasty divorce just be cool, casual and take it one day at a time. But he did break up in don't know if i can be friends with an ex and I'm working with them too.
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I see. Makes sense.
I always believe guys are straightforward. I believe those words are true. That he lost his drive for me. I think it's because our normal relationship stress was all he had control over on top of his other stress. So I got cut. He actually forewarned me of this happening at one point.
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