What are the common cheater charicteristics in men and women?
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Dec 07, 2011Comments: 33 · Posts: 13769 · Topics: 154
how he treats him mom
how he was raised
extremely jealous
narcissistic behaviour
excellent liar
cheated in the past
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Oct 04, 2011Comments: 267 · Posts: 3037 · Topics: 43
Really pay attention to the following:
How they speak about/treat:
-Their exes (Look out for the stories about victimization and how their exes were so terrible but never take responsibility for their part in the breakup)
-Family (Especially their Mother/Father)
-Animals
-Children
-Strangers (Especially people that work in the service industry)
I know the one above may seem strange but you can tell a shit ton about someone and how they treat people in the service industry.
There are several reasons I know that some of these might not be a direct qualification for cheaters but you would be very surprised. One of my best talents (through an ass ton of trials and tribulations) is learning to listen/communicate/investigate (Gemini's are awesome at that) and reading people very quickly. Normally one of these above points to something much more. Like a domino effect.
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Dec 07, 2011Comments: 33 · Posts: 13769 · Topics: 154
I think cheaters have a deep void that needs to be filled. They might spend a lifetime searching to fill it unless they come to understand the motives of their actions/behavior.
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Aug 16, 2011Comments: 3 · Posts: 7849 · Topics: 52
yea its hard to say as ligeia mentioned....anyone can be capable...even if they had a great relationship with their parents or love animals or all that good stuff
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I think they get so distorted they believe their own lies...