Compatibility and guidance

Good day wise ones 😛

Could anyone tell me more about our compatibility and guide me on how to engage and keep love a live with the following placements.

Hers: (24 yr old, mind blowing woman)

Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Scorpio 26.41 Ascendant Libra 12.17
Moon Leo 13.18 II Scorpio 17.15
Mercury Sagittarius 1.27 III Sagittarius 14.13
Venus Capricorn 13.19 IV Capricorn 8.05
Mars Scorpio 9.59 V Aquarius 3.02
Jupiter Cancer 10.08 R VI Pisces 3.19
Saturn Capricorn 10.53 VII Aries 12.17
Uranus Capricorn 3.17 VIII Taurus 17.15
Neptune Capricorn 10.32 IX Gemini 14.13
Pluto Scorpio 15.36 Midheaven Cancer 8.05
Lilith Scorpio 1.40 XI Leo 3.02
Asc node Aquarius 20.21 XII Virgo 3.19


Mine: (28 year old male)

Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Taurus 16.26 Ascendant Pisces 29.41
Moon Sagittarius 17.20 II Aries 28.04
Mercury Aries 20.25 III Taurus 28.30
Venus Aries 8.37 IV Gemini 29.40
Mars Gemini 7.24 V Leo 0.51
Jupiter Aquarius 15.41 VI Virgo 1.16
Saturn Scorpio 25.29 R VII Virgo 29.41
Uranus Sagittarius 17.10 R VIII Libra 28.04
Neptune Capricorn 3.22 R IX Scorpio 28.30
Pluto Scorpio 2.59 R Midheaven Sagittarius 29.40
Lilith Aries 27.04 XI Aquarius 0.51
Asc node Taurus 18.17 XII Pisces 1.16

capricorn is a modest sign and her having venus cap makes her modest, she is not one to run up and fling her arms around her lover. Nor will she tell you how much she loves you, but when she loves its deep. As for you being a venus arian...you might come off a little too strong in professing your love so tone it down a little. She has moon in leo and sun scorpio, basically she HATES looking vulnerable in front of others. She wants to look like a million bucks, a confident-collected woman to the public eyes when in reality she is an emotional hot effin mess (her sun in scorpio). As for you, despite the fact that your sun sign is the shy taurus you have ALOT of fire placements which make pretty hardcore and durable (psychologically/mentally). Hope that helped 🙂

Ugh Moon in Leo. Worship her or die a painful death.

Whahaha, Thanks Damnata. I basically already do 😉

Really like your input Geminilove. I understand what you are saying. Quick question though. She knows me inside out, and still pushes and pulls etc. Is there any indicator in her placement of how long she is going to do this? Or is it going to be until I put my foot down?

And, what your saying is, that despite me knowing she is a boiling cauldron of emotions, when she is with me I should not embrace her for who she is but who she wants to be in front of others?

I don't like the idea since I feel it is totally inaccurate and a lie, and I hate lies.

@OmagaIII: in a nutshell, scorps are the more emotionally guarded, mysterious version of a bull, more complex than a bull (emotionally). The push and pull thing....she is testing you, i cant exactly tell you when she will stop but she has felt constant pain from people (past lovers esp) to the point of numbness. If you back off then she will break apart, but shes still unaware of the fact that you keep her grounded, she kinda takes you for granted. To her you are that one constant in her life, no matter how much she pushes you away you will be there. My advice is make her open up to you about her pain+hopes+dreams, her moon in leo just makes it 10 times harder for her to let her guard down. Put your foot down, sometimes back off let her do the chasing. I know male bulls are gentlemen, esp to their object of affection but if she wants to do something for you LET HER. If she wants to buy something for you LET HER.

Posted by OmagaIII
Whahaha, Thanks Damnata. I basically already do 😉

Really like your input Geminilove. I understand what you are saying. Quick question though. She knows me inside out, and still pushes and pulls etc. Is there any indicator in her placement of how long she is going to do this? Or is it going to be until I put my foot down?

And, what your saying is, that despite me knowing she is a boiling cauldron of emotions, when she is with me I should not embrace her for who she is but who she wants to be in front of others?

I don't like the idea since I feel it is totally inaccurate and a lie, and I hate lies.

No u need to accept her for who she actually is. The other persona is a public front lol. She doesn't like lies either but she needs to trust u to open up. Share some of ur darker stories if u want her to share hers. Ask very direct questions if u truly want answers.

Anything else u'd like to know?

Scorpy sun Leo moon here 😉

Posted by Damnata
Ugh Moon in Leo. Worship her or die a painful death.

Geez we r not all that bad 😉

Posted by Geminlove
@OmagaIII: in a nutshell, scorps are the more emotionally guarded, mysterious version of a bull, more complex than a bull (emotionally). The push and pull thing....she is testing you, i cant exactly tell you when she will stop but she has felt constant pain from people (past lovers esp) to the point of numbness. If you back off then she will break apart, but shes still unaware of the fact that you keep her grounded, she kinda takes you for granted. To her you are that one constant in her life, no matter how much she pushes you away you will be there. My advice is make her open up to you about her pain+hopes+dreams, her moon in leo just makes it 10 times harder for her to let her guard down. Put your foot down, sometimes back off let her do the chasing. I know male bulls are gentlemen, esp to their object of affection but if she wants to do something for you LET HER. If she wants to buy something for you LET HER.

Yes!!! I luv doing things for people...just can't seem to help myself!!! Also she will like it if u do things for her too. She may object, she may even feel uncomfortable about it, but secretly she will like it/appreciate it. 🙂

Ok, got it. Things have been very weird over the past year or so, but she has been more trusting of me and been making an effort to keep my close.

What is currently haunting me is the fact the it feels like she lives a double life. With me she is relaxed and would actually stay close by my side etc. When I am not around she is just all over the place in bars etc. Always complains that she is never home and constantly fighting off assholes who only want one thing...

I am jealous and a scared. She is much more open with me the last few months but it still catches me. 😢

What gives with this behaviour?

@OmagaIII: Despite all the BS in her life, she finds protection in your presence......Thats a VERY good sign, gotta love you bulls, make women feel so safe 😄 Why are you scared and jealous? Elaborate? Your scorp needs to realize that you are the one for her and shes having a helluva hard time thats all, be patient.

Thanks for the encouragement, it really helps out. I am just so dazzed and abused some days and thats when it really hurts bad.

I meant I am jealous and scared because I am so head over heels. I am scared to lose her and jealous of others stealing her away from me. 😢

It just is so hard to see this one and only drift right through your hands an heart ripping you to shreds and you are helpless.

Posted by OmagaIII
Thanks for the encouragement, it really helps out. I am just so dazzed and abused some days and thats when it really hurts bad.

I meant I am jealous and scared because I am so head over heels. I am scared to lose her and jealous of others stealing her away from me. 😢

It just is so hard to see this one and only drift right through your hands an heart ripping you to shreds and you are helpless.

awwww. 😢

that is so sweet. You won't lose her if you make sure you have her back, your loyalty, you're loving, give her security and grounding which are pure catnip for her.

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Posted by OmagaIII
Thanks for the encouragement, it really helps out. I am just so dazzed and abused some days and thats when it really hurts bad.

I meant I am jealous and scared because I am so head over heels. I am scared to lose her and jealous of others stealing her away from me. 😢

It just is so hard to see this one and only drift right through your hands an heart ripping you to shreds and you are helpless.

awwww. 😢

that is so sweet. You won't lose her if you make sure you have her back, your loyalty, you're loving, give her security and grounding which are pure catnip for her.

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I think if u remain patient, consistent & reassure her how u feel about her, she will come around 🙂

Just be careful not to pressure her. If she feels u r being over bearing she will probably run.