cutting ties

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Posted by Sassysailorscout

I have done extreme distance ... the slowly allowed them back in based on my strength and growth.

Never completely cut off. I'm a softy and loyal.

Happy 62 dayyyyyyssss laydeeee ! ☺😙


i'm planning to move in to another country

while pretending how it's 'such a sacrifice to be away from family'

very convenient that i'm in love rn and doing business
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Posted by virgoOPPP

with your family

is there something in the chart that will make you feel as if that's

your ultimate emotional goal?

Is your ultimate emotional goal being emotional healthy and your family is not?
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a family member made a statement, so selfish and damning to... well, everything for me.

i know it seems crazy to base a life-changing decision on one statement but this is really the last straw for me. there's been a build up of resentment over the years and i admit i'm overly-sensitive but i can't live with it anymore.

can't change people and there's nothing else i can do to reverse the situation. and the only solutions left deeply disgusts me.

now i can completely embrace the role of lovestruck fool, the new slate that would be my ultimate scapegoat. 2 birds with a single stone.

maybe i'll stop being so resentful and emotional about it after a couple of years.
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Posted by aquarius09

Hmm! My older bro loves cutting ties with family members he considers fake or embarrassing. He has sun in Cap. Moon and mercury in Sag. Venus and Mars in Aqua.

Lets compare any common placements.


that's a similar chart to my cap sun/pisces moon boyfriend

but he's the one who wants me to try to mend ties

oh well, my 2nd dom sign in pullen now is capricorn
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Posted by Sassysailorscout

I have done extreme distance ... the slowly allowed them back in based on my strength and growth.

Never completely cut off. I'm a softy and loyal.

Happy 62 dayyyyyyssss laydeeee ! ☺😙

i'm planning to move in to another country

while pretending how it's 'such a sacrifice to be away from family'

very convenient that i'm in love rn and doing business

Awww congrats .... well that's different ! Your on way your way to build your own family with your partner. That becomes the number priority.

Sometimes the best way to support family is take care of yourself and be happy !🙂
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maybe i'll disappear for 2 years

that's a good enough time

just in time for my first saturn return
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Posted by virgoOPPP

with your family

is there something in the chart that will make you feel as if that's

your ultimate emotional goal?

Is your ultimate emotional goal being emotional healthy and your family is not?

a family member made a statement, so selfish and damning to... well, everything for me.

i know it seems crazy to base a life-changing decision on one statement but this is really the last straw for me. there's been a build up of resentment over the years and i admit i'm overly-sensitive but i can't live with it anymore.

can't change people and there's nothing else i can do to reverse the situation. and the only solutions left deeply disgusts me.

now i can completely embrace the role of lovestruck fool, the new slate that would be my ultimate scapegoat. 2 birds with a single stone.

maybe i'll stop being so resentful and emotional about it after a couple of years.
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What is the root issue that escalated into resentment in the first place? If you feel the need to cut them off then it's your life but I would reconsider holding onto that crap inside you. Total waste of time and can end up becoming a trigger someone can run into later down the road.
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Posted by Lostthoughts
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with your family

is there something in the chart that will make you feel as if that's

your ultimate emotional goal?

Is your ultimate emotional goal being emotional healthy and your family is not?

a family member made a statement, so selfish and damning to... well, everything for me.

i know it seems crazy to base a life-changing decision on one statement but this is really the last straw for me. there's been a build up of resentment over the years and i admit i'm overly-sensitive but i can't live with it anymore.

can't change people and there's nothing else i can do to reverse the situation. and the only solutions left deeply disgusts me.

now i can completely embrace the role of lovestruck fool, the new slate that would be my ultimate scapegoat. 2 birds with a single stone.

maybe i'll stop being so resentful and emotional about it after a couple of years.

What is the root issue that escalated into resentment in the first place? If you feel the need to cut them off then it's your life but I would reconsider holding onto that crap inside you. Total waste of time and can end up becoming a trigger someone can run into later down the road.
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it doesn't matter what led me here

i've tried to fix it and i feel like i'm just being fake to keep the peace

gotta isolate myself away from these people

that's when i'll stop feeling this way