Dealijg with a psycho

Holy crap!! Don't even be nice about it, ICE HER OUT QUICK!!!

No I was sharing the craziness I only considered it for maybe a day but by like the third day when it got clearly obsessive and I talked to her and found out more shit, I was like nah. Her Aquarius Truth Node plays a big role too. It talks about how someone always wants things to go their way(selfish side of Leo) not only that her Venus again is in Leo (South Node). Yeah I'm not going to push it with her we actually had an adult convo yesterday evening for like 30 minutes after I posted this. She actually isn't that bad a person. The thing is she doesn't know how to date cause it's been a while. I'm not going to be with her , I'm just trying to find an exit strategy at the end of the week without her getting psycho crazy or depressed because I know what it's like to feel like that.

Sounds like you have excuses ready as to why you have to keep entertaining her .... and if you share this with her, "we actually had an adult convo yesterday evening for like 30 minutes after I posted this" ... then that is a clear indication that your intent is to try and control her, because for someone who isn't interested, as you claim ... you sure did go over the top in proving to her that you are.


In reality, this is a non-existent situation, due to the fact that you could have just put her on ignore and continue in your life ... but, instead of doing that, you have come up with situations in where you could shove her bad qualities in her face. ** see quoted sentence above **

Oh I meant to put I don't care even if she was a model I wouldn't take care of her. It's hard to type and proofread typing with a phone. She is not a model and is not a catfish like I said her texts make her seem more obsessive and crazy which she is crazy (the smallest things make her mad like washing car and getting dirt on it two hours later) Also the guy she married and lasted a month she was with off and on for 3 years so at least she knew him a lil bit lol. She is an overly neat freak and stress and worry about the dumbest things just like my mom another Virgo. It took me so so long to get used to living with my mom because of it. Still the exit strategy in place.

She is just trying to make up for lost time. She is getting a better logical view on love. And the obsessive texts stopped. After I posted this and we talked she got the point. I think I can help her get her life together and give her advice about stuff that's the best I can do. She really needs it. I don't think she is too crazy to be a waste to society. I just can't be some ones fantasy everything, that's not how it works.

To some to degree I understand what you mean entertaining her. Even though that's not what I am intending. Responding to her is entertaining.I obviously have more insight on what's going on. You are right I could just ignore her and I actually I should have. The ball is now in my court I made sure of that. What I mean by that she CLEARLY understands that I'm not going for that psycho texting thing. If I was working right now this would not be an issuem . I will be in like two weeks, but because I have more free time, this shit has occurred. She was not sad or any of that when I talked to her she has a better understanding.

I'm considering her mental state I don't know how bad she is that is what I'm considering . I have struggled a little bit usually when I know they have low self esteem or other problems I let them off easy. It's really 50 sometimes it's painless sometimes it's drawn out sometimes it's in the middle. For this case I don't have really any feelings I'm just considering hers but if she goes crazy at the end of the day it's on her.

The fuck is wrong with you ?

You haven't met her you don't know her just block her end of !!!!


You are the one insane and crazy here !!

Why the fuck you care who and what she is you have no past with her.

Your wasting life here mate , block delete end off.

Fucking loony tunes much ....

You phoned her WHAT FOR —?


Fuck off and go get a life

Seems the norm for middle eastern men ..... they treat women like property

Honestly I should have iced her ass... I've never been good with it. It's my stupid Virgo moon and I think, Neptune conjunct sun and sextile Moon. I always try to fix and save people. I dip my feet in the water. I only drowned once trying to save someone. That's why I put limits up with this one. I don't know I have a heart and I try to help people (everyone If I can), If I can't practically I say forget it. That's what I'll do with her too.

This situation has changed I really don't even discuss it further.


Long story short ah OK we met a couple days ago..... She has really changed a lot not nearly as bad as lije the first couple days. She is not really needy at all (yet). She isn't blowinf up my inbox as much. Though she is interested and said she misses me (short summary).

Ah I'm about to get roasted I'm prepared.

Another thing I have tried to Ice her 3 times. It's usually blah blah I can't commit to a relationship right now. Or I told her she doesn't need to be in one she needs to work to work on herself. If I ice her it will devastate her. Plus I think she knows where I live :////

If she is not iced in the next week or two. I can't chase other women. Including the fabulous and challenging Aires. Again the psycho meter has dropped from a 100 to a 40 but long term I know it wouldn't work.

I officially iced her ass!!!!

She is blacklisted.
( I did call her for the final time just to say hey now is not the time for you...go )

I can't receive anymore messages or calls from her.

She has more traumatic problems the more I know...

I tried to just give her someone to talk to because she needed it. I dealt with her for a week. That's enough.

She texted me last night that she has trust issues because of something really bad and sensitive happened to her. Her friend supposedly set her up.

She took her to a town like an hour a way from her, left her alone and a bunch of guys raped her ( I can't deal with this in top of everything else).



She has nothing going for her.

1. Lives with her parents

2.Bad anxiety

3. Terrible choices in husbands

4. Needy and attwches easy

5. Selfish lover

6. Has a traumatic life

7. Low Self esteem

Absolutely I would have never got in a relationship with her.

I was just looking for a one week exit strategy 🙂

Thanks ellesque

Wow, you seriously dodged a bullet there. That poor girl shouldn't be in any relationship, she needs to focus on her. Very sad.

Posted by TaurusinTexas
Wow, you seriously dodged a bullet there. That poor girl shouldn't be in any relationship, she needs to focus on her. Very sad.

It is sad I've attract a lot who need to be saved I think Neptune sextile moon says something about that.

I know I told her that like 3 times.

I'm so glad she didn't come to my apt and fuck shit up lol