Do virgo men come back after falling in love?

My name is Elizabeth, I am a leo woman and my now ex-boyfriend Anthony is a Virgo. We officially became a couple last year on the day after Valentine's day. We had an instant connection! We blended well together emotionally, mentally, and physically. We literally had 3 fights throughout the whole relationship. (We had small arguments here and there too but everything was resolved quickly.)

Now here's a little more information about me. I am a leo woman with virgo rising. People have often said that I'm very sweet, generous, intelligent, loyal, determined, just likable overall. I'm not sure what Anthony's rising sign is but he is a very sweet, strong guy. Intelligent, funny, charming, loyal. An overall good guy. There is really nothing bad to say about him.

He told me he loved me about 4 months into the relationship and would tell everyone that he had a beautiful girlfriend that he was so in love with. (I know this because his mom and I became very close during the relationship.)He called me perfect, his dream girl. He introduced me to his family and friends and they all liked me and they all said that I was exactly like his mom. He even told his mom in November that he could not see himself without me and also if I could move in with them in the future. (She told me this too, we had never really discussed moving in together lol)

-->Here's where it gets complicated. Anthony wants to be a firefighter in the future and in order to do that he has to take an EMT class and work his way up. This is his 3rd time taking it cause the other times he's had to sacrifice school for work since his dad isnt even making an effort to look for a job and his mom is working 2 jobs.

He goes to work from 4:00am-2:30 pm and then he has to go to night school. I knew that during this semester we wouldn't be able to see each other as much but i was fine.

About 3 weeks ago he asked me for a break but everything seemed absolutely fine! I freaked out and asked to see him 2 days later because i didn't know where all this was coming from. We met up and he told me that he didn't want a relationship. I was absolutely confused and was hurt.

I met up with his mom a week later and she said that they were about to be evicted and they were going through a lot but he had never opened up to me about that. So I decided to reach out to him and we met up this Sunday actually.

I asked him what was the real reason why we broke up and he said that it was because he was scared

I asked him what was the real reason why we broke up and he said that it was because he was scared but I didn't understand why. I asked if we could take baby steps and turn the break up into a break instead.

He said 'if it's in the cards we'll be back together. but at the moment i'm trying to figure out who i am as a person.' i decided not to pressure him and kept the conversation light and friendly.

That same night the mom told me that he is still in love with me and that he's scared that he'll turn out to be just like his dad because his dad would HIT ANTHONY'S MOM and Anthony witnessed everything.

What can i do? I'm deeply in love with him and so is he but I'm in this weird limbo of 'Will we ever get back together? Should i just forget about him altogether in a romantic sense?' 😢

Because he told me that he does not ever want me out of his life but I want him to be my boyfriend not a friend

My name is Elizabeth, I am a leo woman and my now ex-boyfriend Anthony is a Virgo. We officially became a couple last year on the day after Valentine's day. We had an instant connection! We blended well together emotionally, mentally, and physically. We literally had 3 fights throughout the whole relationship. (We had small arguments here and there too but everything was resolved quickly.)

Now here's a little more information about me. I am a leo woman with virgo rising. People have often said that I'm very sweet, generous, intelligent, loyal, determined, just likable overall. I'm not sure what Anthony's rising sign is but he is a very sweet, strong guy. Intelligent, funny, charming, loyal. An overall good guy. There is really nothing bad to say about him.

He told me he loved me about 4 months into the relationship and would tell everyone that he had a beautiful girlfriend that he was so in love with. (I know this because his mom and I became very close during the relationship.)He called me perfect, his dream girl. He introduced me to his family and friends and they all liked me and they all said that I was exactly like his mom. He even told his mom in November that he could not see himself without me and also if I could move in with them in the future. (She told me this too, we had never really discussed moving in together lol)

-->Here's where it gets complicated. Anthony wants to be a firefighter in the future and in order to do that he has to take an EMT class and work his way up. This is his 3rd time taking it cause the other times he's had to sacrifice school for work since his dad isnt even making an effort to look for a job and his mom is working 2 jobs.

He goes to work from 4:00am-2:30 pm and then he has to go to night school. I knew that during this semester we wouldn't be able to see each other as much but i was fine.

About 3 weeks ago he asked me for a break but everything seemed absolutely fine! I freaked out and asked to see him 2 days later because i didn't know where all this was coming from. We met up and he told me that he didn't want a relationship. I was absolutely confused and was hurt.

I met up with his mom a week later and she said that they were about to be evicted and they were going through a lot but he had never opened up to me about that. So I decided to reach out to him and we met up this Sunday actually.

I asked him what was the real reason why we broke up and he said that it was because he was scared

I asked him what was the real reason why we broke up and he said that it was because he was scared but I didn't understand why. I asked if we could take baby steps and turn the break up into a break instead.

He said 'if it's in the cards we'll be back together. but at the moment i'm trying to figure out who i am as a person.' i decided not to pressure him and kept the conversation light and friendly.

That same night the mom told me that he is still in love with me and that he's scared that he'll turn out to be just like his dad because his dad would HIT ANTHONY'S MOM and Anthony witnessed everything.

What can i do? I'm deeply in love with him and so is he but I'm in this weird limbo of 'Will we ever get back together? Should i just forget about him altogether in a romantic sense?'

Because he told me that he does not ever want me out of his life but I want him to be my boyfriend not a friend