Do you guys ever look at your composite chart between you and a love interest?

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by themilkyway36 on Friday, October 22, 2021 and has 6 replies.
I came across an astro blog where the author outlined key aspects in a marriage/soulmate composite chart - they had used Beyonce and Jay-Z's chart as an example and apparently the chart shows their relationship is a strong and powerful one.


So I calculated the chart of my longest/closest friend of 10+ years and we had a lot of those similar aspects.


Then I looked up the chart of the most recent person I got a broken heart from and although we share 4 of the same inner personal planets and several of the same outer ones in our natal charts, the composite chart looked BAD. So that was kind of another final-seal-the-deal, universe-giving-me-another-reason-to-let-this-person-go.
I do but I dont let it guide me. The chart will reveal itself. I like natural interactions with love interests and alot of times Im too caught up in the moment to use synastry. But astrology is a hobby of mine so if I see some connections I just note them and use it towards my studies.



Other than that I would never approach a Gemini any different than I would a scorpio.
Posted by WarAngel

No, just the personal lineup and then try to figure out the rest naturally.
I tend to want to see their chart asap when I meet someone, then I like to make it a sort of experiment / observation to see how our aspects play out.


The biggest lesson I probably learned so far is that great synastry compatibility on paper is NOT the same as real life - that's a wild card dependent on timing, values, how their character/personality manifests, mental/intellectual/emotional compatibility etc.
Posted by Libra4rmTX

I do but I dont let it guide me. The chart will reveal itself. I like natural interactions with love interests and alot of times Im too caught up in the moment to use synastry. But astrology is a hobby of mine so if I see some connections I just note them and use it towards my studies.



Other than that I would never approach a Gemini any different than I would a scorpio.
Same I do that as well.


Though I can't deny after repeated experiences with certain Sun and moon signs, I'll have an idea of how it'll go off the bat, or how they will perceive me based on what house their planet falls in my chart
Posted by peachy06

Who doesn't ?


I also do that with celebrities couple 🤭
Same it's so interesting to use celebs to gain deeper insight into what happened in their relationship.


It hit me last week that despite the general public and media hating on justin bieber, he might actually be way ahead in the relationship department compared to selena Gomez because her saturn is in the 7th and she victimized herself like how cancers usually do. And pisces always gets the superficial blame for the issues as the martyr figure
Posted by peachy06
Posted by themilkyway36
Posted by peachy06

Who doesn't ?


I also do that with celebrities couple 🤭


Same it's so interesting to use celebs to gain deeper insight into what happened in their relationship.


It hit me last week that despite the general public and media hating on justin bieber, he might actually be way ahead in the relationship department compared to selena Gomez because her saturn is in the 7th and she victimized herself like how cancers usually do. And pisces always gets the superficial blame for the issues as the martyr figure


I'm not that deep into astrology yet, but you're right it's very interesting. As for Selena and Bieber I'd go with my instincts and keep thinking they were both toxic to each other. Bieber is problematic. I don't think Selena is a bad person, but she seems all over the place and petty in her relationships. She used Puth and Abel to get back at her ex. Hailey Bieber doesn't come off as sane neither.


Anyways, I use astrology on celebrities to see what exactly attracted them to each other, some really make sense.
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Oh yeah considering the songs they both wrote about her - yikes. Cancers are petty-ass people despite the sweet outer persona, I've seen their true nature. It's also the immaturity of the Aries moon coupled with the Cancer inability to let go of sentimentality.



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