AND "I REMEMBER I ASK HIM...WOULD U HURT ME ONE DAY...HE ANSWERED I DON'T KNOW WHEN HE USR TO SAY NO".. I WAS SHOCK AS HELL...HE ALSO TEXT ME I'M TO DISREPECTFUL DON'T TEXT HIM DON'T CALL HIM OR ANYTHING...I THOUGHT IT BCUZ HE WAS MAD THAT'S WHY HE WAS SAYING THAT...I KEPT CALLING TRYING TO APPOLOGIZED EVERY SINGLE MINUTES BUT HE KEPT ON TELLING ME TO LIEAVE HIM ALONE....BUT I NEVER GIVE U...U KNOW HOW SCORPIO IS WE NEVER STOP TILL WE GET WHAT WE WANT...FINALLY AFTER TWO DAYS CRYING AND TEXTING AND CALLING HE TEXT ME THAT.." IM SORRY TO TELL U THIS. IM LEAVING WITH MY BABYMAMA CAUSE SHE GOT KICKED OUT AND IM TRYING TO GIVE HER ANOTHER CHANCE, YOU ALREADY BLEW YOURS BY COMING TO MY CRIB AND DISRESPECT ME" I WAS LIKE WHAT HEK IS THAT AND COULDNT HELP MY FEELING I START GOING CRAZY ..HE WAS LIKE " IM SORRY I SWEAR I AM IM NOT WITH HER YET BUT I THINK I WILL" OMG I'VE NEVER BEEN TO A SITUATION LIKE THAT BEFORE..I NEVER GIVE UP CALLING OR TEXTING CAUSE I WANT MY MAN BACK...BUT HE ALSO SAID I CAN'T CAUSE I DONT LIKE TO CHEAT WHEN IM IN A RELATIONSHIP SO PLZ STOP CALLING... I WAS OK IMMA STOP..LAST MONDAY I WAS COMING FROM WORK HE SENT ME A PIC BLOWING A KISS TO ME I WAS LIKE WHAT KINDA GAME IS THAT I TEXT HIM WHATS THAT ABOUT ARE U SURE ITS FOR ME HE WAS LIKE YES..AND I SAID THNX SO NOW I STARTED THINKING BOUT HIM HE SAID I FORGIVE U ONLY BECAUSE U SHOW ME THAT U CARE BUT I DONT KNO WAT TO DO I REALLY DONT KNO...I THOUGHT EVERYTHING IS GONE BE OKAY... SO I TEXT HIM LAST NIGHT AND SEND HIM A KISS HE DIDNT SEND IT BACK I TOLD HIM THAT I WANNA C HIM HE WAS LIKE IM SORRY I CANT CUZ ME AND MY BABYMAMA ARE TOGETHER.. I WAS STILL TRYING BECAUSE I LOVE HIM SO MUCH.. HE TOLD ME WITH A MEAN WAY WAY THAT I TEXT HIM TO MUCH AND STOP TEXTING HIM AND LEAVE HIM THE F** ALONE...SO HE ALSO GOT ON MY LAST NERVES AND TELL HIM f** u AND KISS MY A** I CURSE HIM OUT.. I DONT HATE HIM IT JUST BECAUSE HOW HE DO ME..NOW IM THINKING BOUT HIM DAY AND NIGHT I WANNA CALL I WANNA C HIM BUT I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO I DONT KNOW IF HE'S GONE TALK TO ME OR ANYTHING PLEASE TELL ME IF HE STILL LOVES ME OR BECAUSE OF HIS BABYMAMA HE CANT BE WITH OR WHAT...PLZZZZ HELP ME CAUSE IM GOING CRAZY!
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Mar 11, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 967 · Topics: 41
He's garbage.
You are still young. You will find a great man one day. He's not it.
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Trust me when you are 26 you will look back and laugh.
thank you for your answer i appreciate it
The Fact of the Matter is this--he feels obligated to his Baby Momma(Bm)and you know how chicks try to play that kid shi* on dumb guys but if he was HOH for you like your head over heels for him he would be with you. Eventually I'm pretty sure he will start to miss the time that you two spent together. Just don't call him plan and simple.........send one final text to let him know that your deleting his number out of your phone and that you won't have any further contact with him. He sent the text probaly becaused he missed you AT THAT POINT... I'm a pisces woman and sometimes we are bad at keeping people hanging on for just in case purposes or becausde we really don't want to break peoples heart.
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Apr 13, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 44084 · Topics: 685
You're obssessed ..... Scorpio, eh?
The general consensus would appear to be that Piscean men are not the best and that you are better off without him. There seem to be a number of horror stories and posts on the Pisces board. It may be worth a read to see if you recognise any of his behaviours. There is nothing like the recognition of someone's traits to take the edge away from the hurt (it can leave you feeling vindicated too).
Perhaps you should chalk this one up to experience and find someone a bit higher up the food chain?
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May 25, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 4843 · Topics: 30
you know....it may not even be his "baby mamma".... my ex pisces did EXACTLY this to me.... he kept telling me he was depressed and needed to be alone, but would call me everyday to tell me he loved me and things would get better soon... one day I find out he's no longer at his job.... I was confused and upset and worried about him [he has a habit of getting fired from jobs...] so I went over to his place to talk to him and he came to the door and said he had company coming over and couldn't talk but would call later...he never did. So a few days later I went to his place again and told him I wanted to take him out to lunch so we could talk about what's going on, and he said he couldn't because his mom was coming over, so I said okay and was about to leave then stopped and asked if I could use his bathroom before I left [I lived about 35 miles away] and he got nervous all of a sudden and told me someone was there.... then some girl came out and started folding her clothes in the living room.... he told me she was a friend staying with him...okay - I trusted him.... then he said we could have lunch in a couple days and he would come by my work to pick me up....the day he was supposed to he never called for directions to my office so I called him, and he told me he was getting back together with his ex fiance....that he had wasted almost 9 years of her life and owed it to her to give it another chance [sound familiar yet?] I was heart broken and left work to go to his apartment and talk. He didn't even want to talk to me about it and I kept telling him over and over that she has broken up with him several times before and he doesnb't owe her anything, she'll just do it again....then I find out he's moving in a week... that was what he was doing the whole time he didn't invite me over - packing up and moving his stuff to another place. He told me he needed time but he would call me in a few days and explain everything better - he never did, so I tried calling him and he changed his phone number.
six months later he started contacting me and I thought they broke up, I didn't press for anything just texted and emailed each other and he started sending me pictures of...use your imagination... then one day I looked up his sister on myspace to ask if she had a copy of a picture she took of me at his parent's anniversary and I see the same girl that was staying with him leaving comments. So I'm curious and look at her page...
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May 25, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 4843 · Topics: 30
and she has pictures of them together talking about what a cute couple they are [he was NOT back with his ex] I was furious about the whole thing... he lied to me and he was cheating on me for the last two months when he was telling me everything was okay and he loved me. So his sister tells the new girlfriend [the one he was cheating on me with] that he and I still talk.... next thing I know I get an email from HIM telling me that he's getting a restraining order against me and to leave him and his girlfriend alone..... can you guess the story he gave HER when she found out he still talked to me?.....
So my suggestion to you. if you haven't already, is CUT HIM LOSE. This guy sounds EXACTLY like my pisces ex.
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May 25, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 4843 · Topics: 30
yes...well.... some people still have a heart and are willing to give their trust to someone they love....love is not a business transaction...you don't call off the deal if the terms look uncertain....you have to have a little faith if you EVER expect a relationship to work.
How many women have never been accused of doing something in a relationship that they weren't doing?.....
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Apr 13, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 44084 · Topics: 685
"I KEPT CALLING TRYING TO APPOLOGIZED EVERY SINGLE MINUTES BUT HE KEPT ON TELLING ME TO LIEAVE HIM ALONE"
"U KNOW HOW SCORPIO IS WE NEVER STOP TILL WE GET WHAT WE WANT"
"FINALLY AFTER TWO DAYS CRYING AND TEXTING AND CALLING HE TEXT ME THAT.." IM SORRY TO TELL U THIS. IM LEAVING WITH MY BABYMAMA .."
"I WAS LIKE WHAT HEK IS THAT AND COULDNT HELP MY FEELING I START GOING CRAZY .."
"HE WAS LIKE " IM SORRY I SWEAR I AM IM NOT WITH HER YET BUT I THINK I WILL"
"I NEVER GIVE UP CALLING OR TEXTING CAUSE I WANT MY MAN BACK"
"I WAS OK IMMA STOP.."
"HE SENT ME A PIC BLOWING A KISS TO ME"
"SO NOW I STARTED THINKING BOUT HIM HE SAID I FORGIVE U ONLY BECAUSE U SHOW ME THAT U CARE"
"SO I TEXT HIM LAST NIGHT AND SEND HIM A KISS HE DIDNT SEND IT BACK I TOLD HIM THAT I WANNA C HIM HE WAS LIKE IM SORRY I CANT CUZ ME AND MY BABYMAMA ARE TOGETHER"
"HE TOLD ME WITH A MEAN WAY WAY THAT I TEXT HIM TO MUCH AND STOP TEXTING HIM AND LEAVE HIM THE F** ALONE"
"TELL HIM f** u AND KISS MY A** I CURSE HIM OUT.. I DONT HATE HIM IT JUST BECAUSE HOW HE DO ME"
"..NOW IM THINKING BOUT HIM DAY AND NIGHT I WANNA CALL I WANNA C HIM"
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He's only fucking with you because you present yourself to him as being desperate for him, which has created an obssession.
He only has to blow you a kiss after telling you to he doesn't want you, for you to believe he has interest in you for sincere reasons.
Most certainly, this man is dangling you on a string .. however, you place your mouth on the hook every time.
The Scorpio obssession is something I might never understand ... for even if the other person is a complete loser, if the Scorpio is stuck within the obssession, they BELIEVE they have a winner their trying to capture ... mind-blindness.
Though, the Piscean side of me wants to sympathize because I comprehend that this obssession likely lies within the umcomprehensible part of your brain, and so can't be helped .. the rational side of me wants to throttle you for allowing yourself to be a fool at the hands of a man who is blatantly fucking you.