does this taurus like me?
This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by lottie19 on Sunday, September 8, 2019 and has 9 replies.
Hi everyone! Two weeks ago I met a taurus guy (27th April) @ med school. I am a taurus too (19th May). We started teasing each other on the class group chat until one day he texted me privately. We texted for 5/6 days. He was v flirty and made me understand multiple times that he was into me. Also, he opened up very early and started telling me about his ex girlfriend (Aries) and that she cheated on him for a whole year after being together for almost 4 years. They broke up two months ago. I discovered that he texted another girl too (but only once). I didn’t give it much thought, because we’ve talked for only 6 days and I don’t care THAT much (yet). He hasn’t texted me for three days now, but yesterday we met at a party. I didn’t want to speak to him first so I waited for him to do it while pretending I didn’t see him lol I guess he’s quite shy because his flatmate started waving and smiling to me in order to make me approach him (eventually, my friends had to literally push me over him - and that’s weird, because usually I’m really outgoing). Long story short, we sat on a bench and talked for hours. He asked me about my family and my hobbies and looked genuinely interested! His eyes were locked on me. He started playing with my hair, hugging me and helding my hand playfully. I made him laugh and he said “I love the way you talk!” and hugged me tightly. At some point we were talking about common friends and after I told him that X was texting me he said (playfully) “Next time he texts you, tell me so I can say to him that you have a boyfriend” “I am single!” “Well, then I’ll say to him that I’m already coming onto you”. His straightforwardness left me speechless! We had such a great time but he didn’t kiss me, nor texted me today. What do I do? Does he see me as a friend or does he like me? I texted him but he replied with a super short message 
He wasn't straight forward with you.
Straight forward would look like this:
Hey, I like you, I've really liked chatting to you and getting to know you a bit better. Would you like to grab a drink or a bite to eat on Thursday night or whoever you're free?
He made some lewd comment about scaring off some other bloke and then informed you that he was coming on to you.
And you were flattered by this crap!
If he's not asking you out then he's not interested enough in you.
It sounds like he was testing the water and your boundaries without having to actually put himself out there. You creamed your pants at that so he now knows you get easily flattered do he can string you along for his ego if he wishes to do do.
My advice is to not look too much into his words. Don't fall over yourself for him. Just get on with what you're doing. When he finds his balls and asks you out then you can take it from there. Until then, it's just hot air.
Straight forward would look like this:
Hey, I like you, I've really liked chatting to you and getting to know you a bit better. Would you like to grab a drink or a bite to eat on Thursday night or whoever you're free?
He made some lewd comment about scaring off some other bloke and then informed you that he was coming on to you.
And you were flattered by this crap!
If he's not asking you out then he's not interested enough in you.
It sounds like he was testing the water and your boundaries without having to actually put himself out there. You creamed your pants at that so he now knows you get easily flattered do he can string you along for his ego if he wishes to do do.
My advice is to not look too much into his words. Don't fall over yourself for him. Just get on with what you're doing. When he finds his balls and asks you out then you can take it from there. Until then, it's just hot air.
All this happened at a party right.
Was he drunk, high, rollin? Touching your hair sounds like e
Was he drunk, high, rollin? Touching your hair sounds like e
He was flirting with you and that's about it.
Medical school is dope tho
Medical school is dope tho
Posted by AgentP911Are you saying that being asked in a date screams ‘SUCCESS’?
He wasn't straight forward with you.
Straight forward would look like this:
Hey, I like you, I've really liked chatting to you and getting to know you a bit better. Would you like to grab a drink or a bite to eat on Thursday night or whoever you're free?
He made some lewd comment about scaring off some other bloke and then informed you that he was coming on to you.
And you were flattered by this crap!
If he's not asking you out then he's not interested enough in you.
It sounds like he was testing the water and your boundaries without having to actually put himself out there. You creamed your pants at that so he now knows you get easily flattered do he can string you along for his ego if he wishes to do do.
My advice is to not look too much into his words. Don't fall over yourself for him. Just get on with what you're doing. When he finds his balls and asks you out then you can take it from there. Until then, it's just hot air.
I disagree. Too many failures after dates. You aren’t here enough.🤦♀️
Posted by LadyNeptuneSame. Playing with hair irked me...
All this happened at a party right.
Was he drunk, high, rollin? Touching your hair sounds like e
His style IS dope. BF my ass...
Posted by GemitatiShe wants to know if he's interested and thought he was straightforward. If he asks her out then he's interested and straightforward. He didn't ask her out so he's not yet currently interested enough. I think him asking her out would indicate his interest. Not success. Success or whatever happens after is up to them.Posted by AgentP911
He wasn't straight forward with you.
Straight forward would look like this:
Hey, I like you, I've really liked chatting to you and getting to know you a bit better. Would you like to grab a drink or a bite to eat on Thursday night or whoever you're free?
He made some lewd comment about scaring off some other bloke and then informed you that he was coming on to you.
And you were flattered by this crap!
If he's not asking you out then he's not interested enough in you.
It sounds like he was testing the water and your boundaries without having to actually put himself out there. You creamed your pants at that so he now knows you get easily flattered do he can string you along for his ego if he wishes to do do.
My advice is to not look too much into his words. Don't fall over yourself for him. Just get on with what you're doing. When he finds his balls and asks you out then you can take it from there. Until then, it's just hot air.
Are you saying that being asked in a date screams ‘SUCCESS’?
I disagree. Too many failures after dates. You aren’t here enough.🤦♀️click to expand
i think this is too early to say. he may be interested but not enough to take the next step.
take things easy, don't get ahead of yourself and keep doing what you are doing. you don't have to change your behaviour or start getting worried about what he thinks.
you do you and let the pieces fall where they may.
take things easy, don't get ahead of yourself and keep doing what you are doing. you don't have to change your behaviour or start getting worried about what he thinks.
you do you and let the pieces fall where they may.
This is cute and I think there is potential here .
Please let it develop slowly though, the best things in life form slowly. Building a solid friendship first will give you the best chances of it working out in the long run.
You are both in med school ? That's a lot of work and a lot of schooling...I'd focus on that over the relationship at the moment
If its meant to be, it will happen.
I wish I had a chance to do it over and focus on school and not boys.
I also wish I let my mate do a little more chasing before I gave into him.
We have a great relationship but looking back I was too fresh out of a relationship. As is this guy you have your interests on.
So give it time.
BTW I'm a Taurus female dating a taurus man.
Please let it develop slowly though, the best things in life form slowly. Building a solid friendship first will give you the best chances of it working out in the long run.
You are both in med school ? That's a lot of work and a lot of schooling...I'd focus on that over the relationship at the moment
If its meant to be, it will happen.
I wish I had a chance to do it over and focus on school and not boys.
I also wish I let my mate do a little more chasing before I gave into him.
We have a great relationship but looking back I was too fresh out of a relationship. As is this guy you have your interests on.
So give it time.
BTW I'm a Taurus female dating a taurus man.
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