Eye contact during sex
This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by WateryGem on Tuesday, January 7, 2020 and has 47 replies.
So, I was talking to my bff this summer, I forget exactly what brought this up but she has never looked a man in the eyes when she's had sex. She thought it was weird sounding. Lolol
I was floored, like, what? I love to connect that way but I'm very careful about bc I feel like my soul is opened that way.
Do you do this? Is this weird for you? Do you love it?
If so, what's your Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars and Rising?
Hers is:
Virgo rising
Gemini Sun
Aquarius Moon
Cancer Venus
Virgo Mars
Mine is:
Capricorn rising
Gemini Sun
Scorpio Moon
Cancer Venus
Virgo Mars
I was floored, like, what? I love to connect that way but I'm very careful about bc I feel like my soul is opened that way.
Do you do this? Is this weird for you? Do you love it?
If so, what's your Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars and Rising?
Hers is:
Virgo rising
Gemini Sun
Aquarius Moon
Cancer Venus
Virgo Mars
Mine is:
Capricorn rising
Gemini Sun
Scorpio Moon
Cancer Venus
Virgo Mars
How do I gaze into his eyes when he’s pummeling me from behind. Please advise.
Depends on whether we are trying to have kids or not cause it's hard to pull out when someone is staring into your soul.
Otherwise, I wouldn't mind it wearing a condom. Its a really intimate connection though and not something I could do with a fling.
Ascendant ♓
Sun ♍
Moon ♍
Mars ♍
Venus ♎
Otherwise, I wouldn't mind it wearing a condom. Its a really intimate connection though and not something I could do with a fling.
Ascendant ♓
Sun ♍
Moon ♍
Mars ♍
Venus ♎
Posted by LadyNeptune
How do I gaze into his eyes when he’s pummeling me from behind. Please advise.
Yoga poses...
...😏
She can look wherever the f she wants. She's only lucky to be around into help reaching my goal.
Lib sun
Scorp moon
Blah blah blah.
Lib sun
Scorp moon
Blah blah blah.
Posted by LadyNeptuneHave him grab your hair so hard your head tilts back so you’re looking up at him upside down.
How do I gaze into his eyes when he’s pummeling me from behind. Please advise.
🥵 hot hot hot
one of my favorite things...I think eyes are the sexiest part of the body, and it just really signals confidence...during oral also/especially...
Posted by LadyNeptuneHave him grab your hair so hard your head tilts back so you’re looking up at him upside down.
How do I gaze into his eyes when he’s pummeling me from behind. Please advise.
🥵 hot hot hot
Posted by LalasReturnWhat am I... a yogi master? My neck doesn’t bend that way and I’m paying the chiro too much to attempt. Whelp looks like I’ll never experience this joy 😂😂Posted by LadyNeptune
How do I gaze into his eyes when he’s pummeling me from behind. Please advise.
Have him grab your hair so hard your head tilts back so you’re looking up at him upside down.
🥵 hot hot hotclick to expand
Posted by WateryGemIt’s automatic. I can’t NOT stare and gaze.
So, I was talking to my bff this summer, I forget exactly what brought this up but she has never looked a man in the eyes when she's had sex. She thought it was weird sounding. Lolol
I was floored, like, what? I love to connect that way but I'm very careful about bc I feel like my soul is opened that way.
Do you do this? Is this weird for you? Do you love it?
If so, what's your Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars and Rising?
Hers is:
Virgo rising
Gemini Sun
Aquarius Moon
Cancer Venus
Virgo Mars
Mine is:
Capricorn rising
Gemini Sun
Scorpio Moon
Cancer Venus
Virgo Mars
Scorp sun
Scorp Venus
Scorp moon
Sag mars
Cancer rising
Posted by WateryGemIt’s automatic. I can’t NOT stare and gaze.
So, I was talking to my bff this summer, I forget exactly what brought this up but she has never looked a man in the eyes when she's had sex. She thought it was weird sounding. Lolol
I was floored, like, what? I love to connect that way but I'm very careful about bc I feel like my soul is opened that way.
Do you do this? Is this weird for you? Do you love it?
If so, what's your Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars and Rising?
Hers is:
Virgo rising
Gemini Sun
Aquarius Moon
Cancer Venus
Virgo Mars
Mine is:
Capricorn rising
Gemini Sun
Scorpio Moon
Cancer Venus
Virgo Mars
Scorp sun
Scorp Venus
Scorp moon
Sag mars
Cancer rising
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by LalasReturnPosted by LadyNeptune
How do I gaze into his eyes when he’s pummeling me from behind. Please advise.
Have him grab your hair so hard your head tilts back so you’re looking up at him upside down.
🥵 hot hot hot
What am I... a yogi master? My neck doesn’t bend that way and I’m paying the chiro too much to attempt. Whelp looks like I’ll never experience this joy 😂😂click to expand
😂😂😂😂😂 you’re so funny.
Well what about you on your knees, him holding you up so you don’t fall back into doggy, one hand on your neck/face kinda forcing you to look sideways at him and the other on your 🍑/hips.
Basically half doggy
Posted by LadyNeptune
How do I gaze into his eyes when he’s pummeling me from behind. Please advise.
one of the best times for it IMO...fairly easy to do....google image search, "eye contact doggy style ", and a couple different variations come up....
unconventional route is if you're in front of a mirror....
standing/one leg up is probably the easiest:
It's super intimate to me, I can only do this if I love the person, otherwise I will quickly look away when they try it.
Posted by MetatronShe looks like shes bored
standing/one leg up is probably the easiest:
Posted by LadyNeptuneHere ya go!
How do I gaze into his eyes when he’s pummeling me from behind. Please advise.
Where are people doing these at!??
I did occasionally with my Lib ex husband but as the marriage turned sour I stopped
I hardly did with the Pisces... he even commented on it
I enjoyed watching the Leo... he wasnt as comfortable
The Sag and I basically look at one another the entire time. Even after he finishes he will stay in position and we’ll kiss and look at one another. I’ve never had such emotional and intimate sex.
Scorp Asc
Lib Sun
Gem Moon
Scorp Venus
I hardly did with the Pisces... he even commented on it
I enjoyed watching the Leo... he wasnt as comfortable
The Sag and I basically look at one another the entire time. Even after he finishes he will stay in position and we’ll kiss and look at one another. I’ve never had such emotional and intimate sex.
Scorp Asc
Lib Sun
Gem Moon
Scorp Venus
I love staring into their soul 🙃 Yes, yes, yes.
Sag sun
Aqua moon
Cap Venus
Cap Mars
Cap Rising
Maybe she’s scared what she’ll see? 😂
Sag sun
Aqua moon
Cap Venus
Cap Mars
Cap Rising
Maybe she’s scared what she’ll see? 😂
Posted by saggurl88she looks disapproving to me, like she's trying to signal that he needs to get busy with his left hand - pull her hair, choke her, something....
She looks like shes bored
Posted by WateryGemLike... not even once? yeah that's weird but you know what else is weird, excessive eye contact lmao or imagine the girl/boy stared you down with psychotic killer eyes as they came. That would creep me out.
So, I was talking to my bff this summer, I forget exactly what brought this up but she has never looked a man in the eyes when she's had sex. She thought it was weird sounding. Lolol
I was floored, like, what? I love to connect that way but I'm very careful about bc I feel like my soul is opened that way.
Do you do this? Is this weird for you? Do you love it?
If so, what's your Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars and Rising?
Hers is:
Virgo rising
Gemini Sun
Aquarius Moon
Cancer Venus
Virgo Mars
Mine is:
Capricorn rising
Gemini Sun
Scorpio Moon
Cancer Venus
Virgo Mars
I do love eye contact though but then again I also love looking at other things. Wager to bet more men like it than women.
Posted by saggurl88
Where are people doing these at!??
have seen this in porn, but the guy/girl were reversed...
Posted by LadyNeptuneWell, I'm pretty sure it's not meant for all moments or positions. It was a question of in general do you make eye contact?
How do I gaze into his eyes when he’s pummeling me from behind. Please advise.
My bff never has done this.
Posted by RaakacThis could be the difference, I was just surprised bc we have been friends for 25yrs and I never would have imagined her not doing this or needing it. I love it..
It's prob your Scorp Moon. Im Scorp Dominant, 3planets in Scorp so i love that shit 2. Watching eyes, lips, thats hot. Also body ofc.
So I'm trying to understand others perspective on it.
Posted by MetatronOoh, I love this position.
standing/one leg up is probably the easiest:
Posted by PuzzlePiecesLol I told her to try, I mean, she's married what will it hurt? 😂 I'll ask her about it and see if she did it.
I love staring into their soul 🙃 Yes, yes, yes.
Sag sun
Aqua moon
Cap Venus
Cap Mars
Cap Rising
Maybe she’s scared what she’ll see? 😂
Posted by saggurl88This for me too.
It's super intimate to me, I can only do this if I love the person, otherwise I will quickly look away when they try it.
Posted by saggurl88That second one...what kinda sorcery is that?
Where are people doing these at!??
Like I know he must be on something but in my head it looks exactly like this...like she's been doing her kegels damn 😂
Posted by LostinmyMind11And don't forget to walk on your toes while at itPosted by saggurl88
Where are people doing these at!??
That second one...what kinda sorcery is that?
Like I know he must be on something but in my head it looks exactly like this...like she's been doing her kegels damn 😂click to expand
I only do this when I’m in love with the person, and I feel comfortable enough with that person. If not I don’t even look at their face lol. I used to do it with my ex Scorp. It was amazing. Miss that shit...
Virgo rising
Taurus sun
Cancer moon
Gemini venus
Cancer mars
Virgo rising
Taurus sun
Cancer moon
Gemini venus
Cancer mars
Fuck yes
Posted by MetatronOh my!!! I agree! 😍😍😍Posted by saggurl88
She looks like shes bored
she looks disapproving to me, like she's trying to signal that he needs to get busy with his left hand - pull her hair, choke her, something....click to expand
I close my eyes during sex just like when I kiss I close my eyes. I think it’s weird to look at the other person in the eyes. It’s not like we are playing The Who laughs first game. It’s freaking weird to look into anyone’s eyes for a long period of time—not my thing.
Scorpio sun
Libra Venus
Libra moon
Sag mars
Cancer rising
Scorpio sun
Libra Venus
Libra moon
Sag mars
Cancer rising
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My husband is way bigger than me. I mostly see the bottom of his chin or chest when looking up, lol. Most times, he has his head thrown back, lol. We look at each other's bodies the most.
I like face to face, laying on our sides which is perfect for eye contact considering our size difference but he doesnt like that position anymore... cause he can't pound me as hard.
When in the seated position, we definitely make eye alot of contact. That's all you got in the seated position - can't even see each other's bodies.
I don't care one way or the other about eye contact. Not on my list of great sex at all.
The most eye contact I got was from a Sag.
His eyes were intimidating to me... icy penetrating blue crystals (Capricorn Moon).
My husbands will go from dark to warm caramel with gold flecks... so sweet on my moody Cancer Moon.
I like face to face, laying on our sides which is perfect for eye contact considering our size difference but he doesnt like that position anymore... cause he can't pound me as hard.
When in the seated position, we definitely make eye alot of contact. That's all you got in the seated position - can't even see each other's bodies.
I don't care one way or the other about eye contact. Not on my list of great sex at all.
The most eye contact I got was from a Sag.
His eyes were intimidating to me... icy penetrating blue crystals (Capricorn Moon).
My husbands will go from dark to warm caramel with gold flecks... so sweet on my moody Cancer Moon.
I'm not into eye contact in general but every once in a while I'll lock eyes with a guy while I'm riding him but not for very long. Last time I did it was with the Virgo and he started laughing so I stopped 🤷♀️
Posted by nevesLololPosted by LadyNeptune
How do I gaze into his eyes when he’s pummeling me from behind. Please advise.
Yoga poses...
...😏click to expand
Posted by HippeeGemMakin you feel like watching your own porn while being at it as well. Hot!!Posted by LadyNeptune
How do I gaze into his eyes when he’s pummeling me from behind. Please advise.
Mirrors? Seems so 1989 though, lolclick to expand
Posted by WateryGem
So, I was talking to my bff this summer, I forget exactly what brought this up but she has never looked a man in the eyes when she's had sex. She thought it was weird sounding. Lolol
I was floored, like, what? I love to connect that way but I'm very careful about bc I feel like my soul is opened that way.
Do you do this? Is this weird for you? Do you love it?
If so, what's your Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars and Rising?
Hers is:
Virgo rising
Gemini Sun
Aquarius Moon
Cancer Venus
Virgo Mars
Mine is:
Capricorn rising
Gemini Sun
Scorpio Moon
Cancer Venus
Virgo Mars
"open" is a good way to put it. It's on the highest forms of itamacy. I do it. When my partner doesn't, it's a downer for me.
I love doing eye contact....leo sun cap moon sag rising
Posted by TimonIt's like a damn merry-go-round with some of these!Posted by saggurl88
Where are people doing these at!??
Yoga goals.click to expand
I about died at this one!
FREEZE!!! PUT YOUR HANDS UP!!!!!
My favorite for looking them in their eyes!
Posted by MetatronI was being a jokester dick head. But I like all these position illustrations.Posted by LadyNeptune
How do I gaze into his eyes when he’s pummeling me from behind. Please advise.
one of the best times for it IMO...fairly easy to do....google image search, "eye contact doggy style ", and a couple different variations come up....
unconventional route is if you're in front of a mirror....click to expand
Posted by HippeeGemMy lazy ass likes thisPosted by LadyNeptune
How do I gaze into his eyes when he’s pummeling me from behind. Please advise.
Mirrors? Seems so 1989 though, lolclick to expand
Real talk tho... I can never keep my eyes open during sex. I end up squeezing them shut cause the ride is too intense.
Posted by akituShe's never done that with anyone.
This is just the weirdest thing I’ve ever heard, she’s married to a guy she can’t make eye contact with? Like whaaat??
Posted by LadyNeptuneEven during missionary?
Real talk tho... I can never keep my eyes open during sex. I end up squeezing them shut cause the ride is too intense.
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