For those of you who are married or in long term relationships how many Saturn aspects do you have?

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by LadyVenusxox on Wednesday, July 22, 2020 and has 11 replies.
And what are the aspects? I know you need Saturn in synastry for a relationship to be longterm. I'm talking to someone right now and I'm not sure if we really have enough Saturn aspects in our synastry. We have Mars opposition Saturn which is a 7-degree aspect. My Saturn falls is in his 1st house and he has Mars in the 7th house in his own chart. We also have Moon quincunx Saturn, Saturn square Midheaven, Saturn trine Midheaven, Saturn square Mercury.
We have Moon parallel Saturn, Moon contra-parallel Saturn but I don't even know if these are relevant. No on hardly ever talks about Declination aspects.
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Only one important Saturn aspect. Venus Conjunct Saturn. The rest for us is pretty easy. His Saturn is in 7th house, I have Venus in 7th.
Yeah, I think the Mars opposition Saturn aspect would be the most important for us. Because he has Mars in the 7th house and my Saturn being in his 1st house. But I don't know if the opposition would be enough to hold us together. My Mars is in his 7th house conjunct his Mars.
The longest relationship I was in

His Saturn opp my Venus and Sun 😬

His Mars conjunct my Saturn

Heavy heavy......
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Only one important Saturn aspect. Venus Conjunct Saturn. The rest for us is pretty easy. His Saturn is in 7th house, I have Venus in 7th.


Yeah, I think the Mars opposition Saturn aspect would be the most important for us. Because he has Mars in the 7th house and my Saturn being in his 1st house. But I don't know if the opposition would be enough to hold us together. My Mars is in his 7th house conjunct his Mars.


Hmmm I dunno about that because its an opposition and Mars represents sex and work. Normally, if Mars and Saturn is in the synastry, it's best for career than marriage. At least from what I remember. I could be wrong. But it's what I remember.
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I've read on astrology forums where people talk about hard aspects between Mars/Saturn is seen in marriages.

http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/000807.html

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Only one important Saturn aspect. Venus Conjunct Saturn. The rest for us is pretty easy. His Saturn is in 7th house, I have Venus in 7th.


Yeah, I think the Mars opposition Saturn aspect would be the most important for us. Because he has Mars in the 7th house and my Saturn being in his 1st house. But I don't know if the opposition would be enough to hold us together. My Mars is in his 7th house conjunct his Mars.


Hmmm I dunno about that because its an opposition and Mars represents sex and work. Normally, if Mars and Saturn is in the synastry, it's best for career than marriage. At least from what I remember. I could be wrong. But it's what I remember.


I've read on astrology forums where people talk about hard aspects between Mars/Saturn is seen in marriages.

http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/000807.html


It's not always a happy one tho. That's why it's a hard aspect. It depends if you want a hard marriage or an easy flowing one. I'm personally not inclined to such as I don't want a power struggle to take place all the time. And unless you have other factors in your synastry that ties you together, I personally would not rely on that one thing to be in a marriage.

As for my synastry with my husband, we have that one Saturn-- Venus aspect but we also have a double whammy Pluto-Venus (trine), Mars - Venus (Conjunct and Trine), Venus-Mercury (trine) etc. So we weren't just relying on the harmony of the Venus and Saturn synastry.
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We also have Pluto conjunct Sun and Venus I'm the Pluto person. Our Venus are trine by sign I'm Venus in Pisces he's Venus in Scorpio. His Moon is in the same sign as my Sun, My Moon trine his Mars, my Mercury sextile Jupiter, his Mercury trine Jupiter, my Venus trine his Asc. His Pluto squares my Moon and conjuncts my IC his Mercury also conjuncts my IC. As for house overlays my Sun is in his 5th house, Moon in his 2nd house, Mars in 7th. And Venus and Mercury in his 4th.
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Only one important Saturn aspect. Venus Conjunct Saturn. The rest for us is pretty easy. His Saturn is in 7th house, I have Venus in 7th.


Yeah, I think the Mars opposition Saturn aspect would be the most important for us. Because he has Mars in the 7th house and my Saturn being in his 1st house. But I don't know if the opposition would be enough to hold us together. My Mars is in his 7th house conjunct his Mars.


Hmmm I dunno about that because its an opposition and Mars represents sex and work. Normally, if Mars and Saturn is in the synastry, it's best for career than marriage. At least from what I remember. I could be wrong. But it's what I remember.


I've read on astrology forums where people talk about hard aspects between Mars/Saturn is seen in marriages.

http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/000807.html


It's not always a happy one tho. That's why it's a hard aspect. It depends if you want a hard marriage or an easy flowing one. I'm personally not inclined to such as I don't want a power struggle to take place all the time. And unless you have other factors in your synastry that ties you together, I personally would not rely on that one thing to be in a marriage.

As for my synastry with my husband, we have that one Saturn-- Venus aspect but we also have a double whammy Pluto-Venus (trine), Mars - Venus (Conjunct and Trine), Venus-Mercury (trine) etc. So we weren't just relying on the harmony of the Venus and Saturn synastry.


We also have Pluto conjunct Sun and Venus I'm the Pluto person. Our Venus are trine by sign I'm Venus in Pisces he's Venus in Scorpio. His Moon is in the same sign as my Sun, My Moon trine his Mars, my Mercury sextile Jupiter, his Mercury trine Jupiter, my Venus trine his Asc. His Pluto squares my Moon and conjuncts my IC his Mercury also conjuncts my IC. As for house overlays my Sun is in his 5th house, Moon in his 2nd house, Mars in 7th. And Venus and Mercury in his 4th.


The sun-moon thing is a good one. I have that with my husband. I'm aqua sun, he's aqua moon. So basically, he saw me as wife material. The moon represents the man's mother. Which normally, men do marry someone like their mom lol

If you are the Pluto person then you have more obsession towards him that he has to you. Not always a bad thing as you do have the upper hand. But you might do some things that question his affection and it can hurt him. So it's something to thread lightly on.
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So is that what Sun/Moon means? When the woman's Sun is in the same sign as the man's Moon he sees her as wife material? Well, I wonder if that's why he says I'm perfect for him? Ok, now it makes sense lol. He has Venus conjunct Pluto and Sun conjunct Pluto in his own chart. You are right I really feel strongly about him I've never felt this strongly about anyone. Having Moon in Aquarius It's really hard for me to feel a connection and I usually try to avoid connecting on an emotionally level. But I actually feel something with him I think it also has something to do with his Mercury and Pluto being conjunct my IC.
Sun conjunct Saturn

Saturn square Mars

Saturn conjunct Uranus

All 1 degree or less

Been together half our lives, married for 2.5 years, 2 gorgeous babies 😇
Me to him:

Saturn Trine Sun

Saturn Conjunction Moon

Saturn Square Venus

Saturn Sextile Jupiter

Saturn Sextile Neptune

Saturn Conjunction Pluto

Saturn Quincunx Chiron

Him to me:

Saturn Sextile Sun

Saturn Square Mars

Saturn Square Lilith

We were together 10 yrs.



me to him

moon trine saturn

venus square saturn

mars square saturn

saturn square venus

saturn square jupiter

saturn trine neptune

saturn square n node

is that bad?
Good lord is this why the Virgo and I cant let eachother go??

My Sat Conj his Sun, Venus, and his Sat

His Sat Conj my Mid Haven

His Sat opposite my moon

There are more but those are the main ones. 😬