Gemini Girl & Fear of commitment

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by Fallen-for-her on Saturday, June 10, 2017 and has 5 replies.
As the topic suggest, I badly need advice specially if there are any Gemini girls who can shed some light.

I met a girl in Mexico and instantly fell in love. We have a big age difference apart from culture/background. She is a single mother and is fighting a battle for her son custody.

Since i met her, i have visited her few times and I am just so much in love with her. I can't go into much details but we had some serious issues in regards to her ex /past but we kindda survived. I have been supporting her financially and spent a fortune to keep her away from her her previous job ,(ex bar girl)

I proposed her on Valentine's Day and we are now planning to tie the knot but all of a sudden she backed out and said that she is not ready. This happened once before. Her mother is assuring me that everything will be ok and she will marry but next month is the big day and she blocked me from every where like before. Once she said to me that I am a Gemini and I am scared of relationships. She even doesn't like to talk about marriage preparation and ask her mother to do everything as she gets stressed.. Is this normal behaviour ? She always comes back to me when she is in any kind of need. I love her to death but her attitude really stresss me out.she once blamed the long distance relationship and said that it will be ok once we are together. Any advice PLEASE
And please, there is no way in hell, I can leave her! I can't see myself living without her
Hi there. Give her the time she needs. If you really love her then let her know you don't have to get married right now and do it when SHE is ready. She may have some hidden doubts about the relationship and that is why she is so afraid to tie the knot. I have experienced this recently. Ive been with my boyfriend for 3 1/2 years. In the first 2 years or so I had no problem with the thought of marriage/engagement. But now that I am unsure if he is right for me, I don't want him to propose at all. Geminis think A LOT, our minds are constantly going. Since she blocked you from everything, she definitely needs her space to think things through. And leave her alone, don't try talking to her about it all of the time. I can tell you that anytime I felt like I was being hounded all of the time or that the person was being too pushy, I would run away.


I know this can't be easy for you to deal with so stay strong and good luck!!!
Are you sure she is a Gemini? ?


Ok. Go to YouTube and look for IVANA Tarot and listen to July 2017 for Gemini!

For free.


Also look at her chart moon and crap.

It's weird really. When we love - we can die for you. When we don't - sorry.

Nothing you can do.

Hopefully it's not the case.
Posted by Fallen-for-her
And please, there is no way in hell, I can leave her! I can't see myself living without her
You seemed too possessed. It's not attractive to us. Show some indifference.

Idk. We like to be possessive ourselves. You are in the way...

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