Posted by wagtailI don't know... I might still have a problem with the former scenario.
If he runs over her dog backing out of his driveway while she's jogging and takes her for an apologetic coffee and they hit it off, no problemz.
Joining a specified dating site to seek female friendship- probs not hey![]()
Posted by MilaniKissesLooking for new friends on a dating site? Absolutely not. Why go on a dating sight to look for a new friend? I'm too possessive to be comfortable with that, or to trust it. It's genuinely incomprehensible to me that any person would find that acceptable. I'm not judging them. I wish I could, but no.
So just wondering ladies..
(Saying that you're in a secured and loyal relationship) If your man wanted to go on POF or wherever to "make new friends" that just so happen to be girls, are you okay with that?
If so, why?
If not, why?
Posted by tooba"Rewind several years back, and there's no way in hell I'd be saying what I'm saying now. But fast forward all these years later, and I've realized that loving someone means giving them the utmost freedom to be his or her self, even if that means getting out of your own comfort zone for it." This is a perfect example of why I'm in awe of certain Scorpios. I know that I don't have the same capacity for that kind of change in me. I wish I did.
Incredibly mixed feelings about this...
My jealousy is definitely unmatched. But my need to be fair and give my partner the utmost freedom and sense of happiness outweighs my own desires.
If he (whoever I was with for a long time, there's been established a sense of understanding and a strong degree of loyalty) happens to feel closest to women friends than men, his choosing to be with women friends means that they fulfill a need he has which I probably cannot. Meaning, maybe one of his female friends is a physicist who can better understand and entertain questions he has about something like the quantum world, or maybe his woman friend is a philosopher and he's trying to figure out some rational explanation for some personal theory or perspective of life he has, etc... He wants growth, and having friends outside his love life allows him to have that personal growth. I, despite being excessively jealous, could not dare react on my jealousy and take away that sense of self-righteous growth that he has. It's unfair to him that, for my sake, in this life I prevent him from meeting people who allow him to grow... And honestly, I feel like this allows for there to be a stronger connection between us, because there's more trust, and through other people we could also teach each other new things and give each other valuable perspectives that we may otherwise not have...
Rewind several years back, and there's no way in hell I'd be saying what I'm saying now. But fast forward all these years later, and I've realized that loving someone means giving them the utmost freedom to be his or her self, even if that means getting out of your own comfort zone for it.
I completely understand anyone who said they wouldn't allow their men to do that though. It's natural...
Posted by fish_andchips_yeahSee this kinda scares me...
hey i recently wrote a article in the zirgo section tittled "pisces crshing on female virgo" but i have a gf
ithink you may find it interesting as we share similar views that others dont understand.. i try everyday to be intouch with my inner self.. and have got to know the 'exspression of love better
in your situatio have a good talk with him openup everything tell him you wont judge him differently
ask if hes feeling sexual towards other females etc
tell him its ok to communicate with females . but actiely lookig for them may not be the best way.. growth allways begins from with in
& yes we can disscuss more
Posted by WonderlesswaveExactly what I was thinking.. TF!?!!
The fuck... Firstly i would never believe that line and secondly if I'm not enough you gotta go.
Posted by poison_ivyLol! This is exactly what I thought. Why is this a question even? Making female friends by chance is ok. Going on a dating site to make female friends? On what planet is this not a joke??Posted by Wonderlesswave
The fuck... Firstly i would never believe that line and secondly if I'm not enough you gotta go.
Why is this question even relevant??click to expand
Posted by MilaniKissesHells NO.
So just wondering ladies..
(Saying that you're in a secured and loyal relationship) If your man wanted to go on POF or wherever to "make new friends" that just so happen to be girls, are you okay with that?
If so, why?
If not, why?
Posted by VCastrillonI agree.. I'm a Scorpio and I'm too possessive over my mate to allow a NEW friendship to be established off of a PUBLIC dating site... A friendship established before me and him ever existed is a different story and I'm okay with that.. Now.. If a female he was already friends with seems sketchy to me, I will bring them up like , "Uh, check your friend, BEFORE I do.." I don't play bout mine..Posted by tooba"Rewind several years back, and there's no way in hell I'd be saying what I'm saying now. But fast forward all these years later, and I've realized that loving someone means giving them the utmost freedom to be his or her self, even if that means getting out of your own comfort zone for it." This is a perfect example of why I'm in awe of certain Scorpios. I know that I don't have the same capacity for that kind of change in me. I wish I did.
Incredibly mixed feelings about this...
My jealousy is definitely unmatched. But my need to be fair and give my partner the utmost freedom and sense of happiness outweighs my own desires.
If he (whoever I was with for a long time, there's been established a sense of understanding and a strong degree of loyalty) happens to feel closest to women friends than men, his choosing to be with women friends means that they fulfill a need he has which I probably cannot. Meaning, maybe one of his female friends is a physicist who can better understand and entertain questions he has about something like the quantum world, or maybe his woman friend is a philosopher and he's trying to figure out some rational explanation for some personal theory or perspective of life he has, etc... He wants growth, and having friends outside his love life allows him to have that personal growth. I, despite being excessively jealous, could not dare react on my jealousy and take away that sense of self-righteous growth that he has. It's unfair to him that, for my sake, in this life I prevent him from meeting people who allow him to grow... And honestly, I feel like this allows for there to be a stronger connection between us, because there's more trust, and through other people we could also teach each other new things and give each other valuable perspectives that we may otherwise not have...
Rewind several years back, and there's no way in hell I'd be saying what I'm saying now. But fast forward all these years later, and I've realized that loving someone means giving them the utmost freedom to be his or her self, even if that means getting out of your own comfort zone for it.
I completely understand anyone who said they wouldn't allow their men to do that though. It's natural...click to expand
Posted by TeenaRIGHT! lolPosted by poison_ivyLol! This is exactly what I thought. Why is this a question even? Making female friends by chance is ok. Going on a dating site to make female friends? On what planet is this not a joke??Posted by Wonderlesswave
The fuck... Firstly i would never believe that line and secondly if I'm not enough you gotta go.
Why is this question even relevant??click to expand
Posted by poison_ivy??
If my S/O even got up the nerve to even ask this, I would question my trust in him..
Posted by TeenaLOL! I'm serious..Posted by poison_ivy??
If my S/O even got up the nerve to even ask this, I would question my trust in him..click to expand
Posted by cheekyfaerieI agree.. I'm very outgoing and social.. I go out and meet new ppl all the time.. My bf (cap).. he's not AS social but he has female friends that he use to date and were his exes or simply platonic.. I don't mind that..
We're social animals. I don't get the hate over making new friends. The dating site part's a huge, red flag, however.
Posted by MilaniKissesNo.
So just wondering ladies..
(Saying that you're in a secured and loyal relationship) If your man wanted to go on POF or wherever to "make new friends" that just so happen to be girls, are you okay with that?
If so, why?
If not, why?
Posted by WonderlesswavePosted by poison_ivyRight ?! Completely disrespectfulPosted by WonderlesswaveExactly what I was thinking.. TF!?!!
The fuck... Firstly i would never believe that line and secondly if I'm not enough you gotta go.
Why is this question even relevant??
That's a NO!
She does well to pack her emotions and get the fuck away from this fool
Dudes like this are bad for your healthclick to expand
Posted by MilaniKissesNo new friends... he doesn't need any new friends that are girls ..I'm cool with a platonic friend or 2 before I came along cuz I have guy friends myself
So just wondering ladies..
(Saying that you're in a secured and loyal relationship) If your man wanted to go on POF or wherever to "make new friends" that just so happen to be girls, are you okay with that?
If so, why?
If not, why?
Posted by WonderlesswavePosted by poison_ivyOpen relationship bih!Posted by WonderlesswavePosted by poison_ivyRight ?! Completely disrespectfulPosted by WonderlesswaveExactly what I was thinking.. TF!?!!
The fuck... Firstly i would never believe that line and secondly if I'm not enough you gotta go.
Why is this question even relevant??
That's a NO!
She does well to pack her emotions and get the fuck away from this fool
Dudes like this are bad for your health
Utter disrespect .. lol
They really are bad for your health... what will he ask for next?? Just no.. ? Run away ??
So not worth the drama , I love his courage though . He definitely knows who to ask
Because he would have gotten a tax in the faceclick to expand
Posted by WonderlesswavePosted by poison_ivyPOF more like plenty of hoesPosted by WonderlesswavePosted by poison_ivyOpen relationship bih!Posted by WonderlesswavePosted by poison_ivyRight ?! Completely disrespectfulPosted by WonderlesswaveExactly what I was thinking.. TF!?!!
The fuck... Firstly i would never believe that line and secondly if I'm not enough you gotta go.
Why is this question even relevant??
That's a NO!
She does well to pack her emotions and get the fuck away from this fool
Dudes like this are bad for your health
Utter disrespect .. lol
They really are bad for your health... what will he ask for next?? Just no.. ? Run away ??
So not worth the drama , I love his courage though . He definitely knows who to ask
Because he would have gotten a tax in the faceUmm no.. No finding friends on POF, No open relationship..
RIGHT!.. asking for a curse out & slap in the face... Ain't no wayyyy.... LMAO!
You got me several shades of fucked up big fella.
Lol i wanna meet this dude, he's nervey. I wonder how he came up with this shit like what was your thought process ???
How did you come to this shit ass conclusion?click to expand
Posted by WonderlesswavePosted by poison_ivyYes honesty is always appreciated hell the way he sees it if he asked and you ssid yesPosted by WonderlesswavePosted by poison_ivyPOF more like plenty of hoesPosted by WonderlesswavePosted by poison_ivyOpen relationship bih!Posted by WonderlesswavePosted by poison_ivyRight ?! Completely disrespectfulPosted by WonderlesswaveExactly what I was thinking.. TF!?!!
The fuck... Firstly i would never believe that line and secondly if I'm not enough you gotta go.
Why is this question even relevant??
That's a NO!
She does well to pack her emotions and get the fuck away from this fool
Dudes like this are bad for your health
Utter disrespect .. lol
They really are bad for your health... what will he ask for next?? Just no.. ? Run away ??
So not worth the drama , I love his courage though . He definitely knows who to ask
Because he would have gotten a tax in the faceUmm no.. No finding friends on POF, No open relationship..
RIGHT!.. asking for a curse out & slap in the face... Ain't no wayyyy.... LMAO!
You got me several shades of fucked up big fella.
Lol i wanna meet this dude, he's nervey. I wonder how he came up with this shit like what was your thought process ???
How did you come to this shit ass conclusion?
LMAO @ "POF more like plenty of hoes"![]()
Like really... Some men (well, ppl in general) test the limit to see how far they can get.. But they know who they can get away with and who they can't.. I don't give off those vibes that that kinda question is okay to even open your mouth and say..
Now, I will say this.. He was honest and came straight out with it.. LMAO.. But still.. WTF!?!! He's got some elephant sized balls to ask that..
UNLESS, the basis of the relationship was "OPEN" then.. okay, fine.. But if not.. I'd be planning my exit from the relationship soon after that convo.
By golly you gave him the green light and you better not feel bad about that shit eitherclick to expand
Posted by Scorpico
Nope. I'm your girl friend.
If he meets her through me, thats fine, but he can't come home and say
him: hey babe, I met this really cool chick! we're gonna get drinks later.
me: *stab*
Posted by WonderlesswaveLOL! I agree..Posted by poison_ivyLol yes they teach you that shit in grade schoolPosted by WonderlesswavePosted by poison_ivyYes honesty is always appreciated hell the way he sees it if he asked and you ssid yesPosted by WonderlesswavePosted by poison_ivyPOF more like plenty of hoesPosted by WonderlesswavePosted by poison_ivyOpen relationship bih!Posted by WonderlesswavePosted by poison_ivyRight ?! Completely disrespectfulPosted by WonderlesswaveExactly what I was thinking.. TF!?!!
The fuck... Firstly i would never believe that line and secondly if I'm not enough you gotta go.
Why is this question even relevant??
That's a NO!
She does well to pack her emotions and get the fuck away from this fool
Dudes like this are bad for your health
Utter disrespect .. lol
They really are bad for your health... what will he ask for next?? Just no.. ? Run away ??
So not worth the drama , I love his courage though . He definitely knows who to ask
Because he would have gotten a tax in the faceUmm no.. No finding friends on POF, No open relationship..
RIGHT!.. asking for a curse out & slap in the face... Ain't no wayyyy.... LMAO!
You got me several shades of fucked up big fella.
Lol i wanna meet this dude, he's nervey. I wonder how he came up with this shit like what was your thought process ???
How did you come to this shit ass conclusion?
LMAO @ "POF more like plenty of hoes"![]()
Like really... Some men (well, ppl in general) test the limit to see how far they can get.. But they know who they can get away with and who they can't.. I don't give off those vibes that that kinda question is okay to even open your mouth and say..
Now, I will say this.. He was honest and came straight out with it.. LMAO.. But still.. WTF!?!! He's got some elephant sized balls to ask that..
UNLESS, the basis of the relationship was "OPEN" then.. okay, fine.. But if not.. I'd be planning my exit from the relationship soon after that convo.
By golly you gave him the green light and you better not feel bad about that shit either
LOL! Right!!
His thoughts-
No such thing as a stupid question.. I'll either get a yes or no. worth the try.."
Is this even Real Life tho OP?? @MilaniKisses
Excuse me but here is a prime example
Of a stupid fucking question!!click to expand
Posted by poison_ivy
LOL! Right!!
His thoughts-
No such thing as a stupid question.. I'll either get a yes or no. worth the try.."
Is this even Real Life tho OP?? @MilaniKisses
Posted by MilaniKissesyes i am still with the aqua ill be seeing her in 2weeks.. we are gonna need to have a talk and if all goes well the communication lines will be completely open.. setting new boundaries or even disregard all boundaries and having total love for each other no matter what.. its gonna be upto her what the next move is.. ill have to take a long hard think & meditate about what i really want out of life only for myself. because if you dont love yourself 100% u are not capable of expressing it fully to another nor are u fully able to receiving it.. no matter what u do or trie there will always be a void in the relationship (missing self love) are u acting from a place of fear, doubt, low self esteem, or is this in alignment of your true nature of love take time to think get away from each other for a few days and meditate. you seem very intelligent & mature in nature to be able to transcend stupid society's beliefs of a relationship.Posted by fish_andchips_yeahSee this kinda scares me...
hey i recently wrote a article in the zirgo section tittled "pisces crshing on female virgo" but i have a gf
ithink you may find it interesting as we share similar views that others dont understand.. i try everyday to be intouch with my inner self.. and have got to know the 'exspression of love better
in your situatio have a good talk with him openup everything tell him you wont judge him differently
ask if hes feeling sexual towards other females etc
tell him its ok to communicate with females . but actiely lookig for them may not be the best way.. growth allways begins from with in
& yes we can disscuss more
Are you still with the aqua girl? When the virgo friend came to visit, I'm sure she could sense the pheromones you were putting out... anyways were you not as affectionate to your aqua girl because your mind was more focus on virgo girl? Do you still get the same feelings every time you see the Virgo girl?
I'm a Virgo girl - We are the most loyal and honest people. Since we're ruled by Mercury, we have really great communication skills too - I noticed you mentioned about having good communication with Aqua girl... But also read how rocky you guys have been.click to expand
Posted by MilaniKissesOh good! I was gonna say,Posted by poison_ivy
LOL! Right!!
His thoughts-
No such thing as a stupid question.. I'll either get a yes or no. worth the try.."
Is this even Real Life tho OP?? @MilaniKisses
Nope - The guy I'm talking to deleted his POF app.click to expand
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