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This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by questionoflustquestionoftrust on Monday, August 14, 2017 and has 32 replies.
Dxp.

I would like some perspective or perhaps I'm just venting.

I worry that if I stop seeing the Taurus, the world will eat him alive.

When we fought 2 months ago I asked him..

What hurt him more seeing me/not seeing me?


I asked because when I was seeing him he said I was treating him unfairly.

Yet he stuck around.

So I told him about free will.

He understood what I meant.

We stopped seeing each other.

Two weeks later he says to give him a chance.

He said not seeing me was more hurtful.


I worry he is getting too attached.

He came home from visiting his mom last week.

He was at my house five times (not the usual for us), and if I tell him not today he calls 3 times and texts me through out the day like if he's the only person I know lol


Seriously worried because last Taurus I was with was attached like white on rice.

He started stalking me and embarrassing me at my job.

So I had to let him go.

people were saying that he was sad without me.

he was becoming a heavy drinker.

and later tried to take his life.


I really dig him, but I notice as the years go by his love for me is deepening and so is his attachment. It increased these past two years.


I never initiated anything ever.

I was just there for Jake.

Like a true friend should be.


Dxp I worry, if I ever leave him from this point on, he'll be in trouble.

And I don't want for history to repeat itself.

THAT IS WHY I TRULY STAY♡

BUT he's becoming more emotionally dependent on me.

All advice is welcome

Thank you in advance.

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You don't want him coz he's getting emotionally dependent on you???? Isn't it really a good thing n something that happens eventually anyway? What does being there for each other mean? ? Is he being controlling along with being clingy? Bringing past hurt into current relationships.. mm...is it right?
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You don't want him coz he's getting emotionally dependent on you???? Isn't it really a good thing n something that happens eventually anyway? What does being there for each other mean? ? Is he being controlling along with being clingy? Bringing past hurt into current relationships.. mm...is it right?
Teena.

I see what your saying.

Yes he's heading that way.

It's a good thing but too much can be unhealthy.

we need balance.


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You don't want him coz he's getting emotionally dependent on you???? Isn't it really a good thing n something that happens eventually anyway? What does being there for each other mean? ? Is he being controlling along with being clingy? Bringing past hurt into current relationships.. mm...is it right?
Teena.

I see what your saying.

Yes he's heading that way.

It's a good thing but too much can be unhealthy.

we need balance.


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I mean I definitely don't want him to base his happiness entirely on you...but you being his main reason to be happy sounds good ya know. All the time we see people complaining about not getting enough attention n stuff. Explain him you're busy n how you like your alone time sometimes. Tell him when you'll be free n when you guys can talk. You can't expect him to understand you without actually telling him.Did he demand you to answer his texts or ask you reasons for not replying? Does he constantly ask you about your whereabouts and reasons for that? He only wants to seem to talk..n all you need to do is ask him to chill a bit n see if that works maybe.

Umm..but before all that, do you even like him n want this to go somewhere?

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You don't want him coz he's getting emotionally dependent on you???? Isn't it really a good thing n something that happens eventually anyway? What does being there for each other mean? ? Is he being controlling along with being clingy? Bringing past hurt into current relationships.. mm...is it right?
Teena.

I see what your saying.

Yes he's heading that way.

It's a good thing but too much can be unhealthy.

we need balance.




I mean I definitely don't want him to base his happiness entirely on you...but you being his main reason to be happy sounds good ya know. All the time we see people complaining about not getting enough attention n stuff. Explain him you're busy n how you like your alone time sometimes. Tell him when you'll be free n when you guys can talk. You can't expect him to understand you without actually telling him.Did he demand you to answer his texts or ask you reasons for not replying? Does he constantly ask you about your whereabouts and reasons for that? He only wants to seem to talk..n all you need to do is ask him to chill a bit n see if that works maybe.

Umm..but before all that, do you even like him n want this to go somewhere?

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Yes lately he wants to know what i do especially on the weekends. Oh and holidays he wants to be the one to occupy them.

He is such a sweet person.

He takes everything to heart though.

I do like him, I don't know what will happen tommorow.

I'm just making the most of today.

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You don't want him coz he's getting emotionally dependent on you???? Isn't it really a good thing n something that happens eventually anyway? What does being there for each other mean? ? Is he being controlling along with being clingy? Bringing past hurt into current relationships.. mm...is it right?
Teena.

I see what your saying.

Yes he's heading that way.

It's a good thing but too much can be unhealthy.

we need balance.




I mean I definitely don't want him to base his happiness entirely on you...but you being his main reason to be happy sounds good ya know. All the time we see people complaining about not getting enough attention n stuff. Explain him you're busy n how you like your alone time sometimes. Tell him when you'll be free n when you guys can talk. You can't expect him to understand you without actually telling him.Did he demand you to answer his texts or ask you reasons for not replying? Does he constantly ask you about your whereabouts and reasons for that? He only wants to seem to talk..n all you need to do is ask him to chill a bit n see if that works maybe.

Umm..but before all that, do you even like him n want this to go somewhere?

Yes lately he wants to know what i do especially on the weekends. Oh and holidays he wants to be the one to occupy them.

He is such a sweet person.

He takes everything to heart though.

I do like him, I don't know what will happen tommorow.

I'm just making the most of today.

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He wants to be the part of them probably... Umm..why not? Maybe he thinks you're not giving him attention.


I dunno..it feels like you feel like you're tolerating him?


"I worry that if I stop seeing the Taurus, the world will eat him alive"


"So I told him about free will"


"like if he's the only person I know lol "


"I never initiated anything ever.

I was just there for Jake"


"Dxp I worry, if I ever leave him from this point on, he'll be in trouble"


All this seem like you feel you're just doing him favor or something like that n not coz you actually love him?


Why did he think he's being treated unfairly before?

What's it you exactly want? Him not being clingy?
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I want continue seeing him.

but I am a gem, and we need space every now and then.


I messaged, and told him it be nice to plan things to do on the weekends, when we both have free time and are more relaxed.


Me:hey how are you?

Taur: hey bby!

how was your day?

Me: You know same old same old.

My day was neutral.

And yours?

Taur: Same shit like always. Rude people everywhere.

Me: haha.

I want to tell you something.

I like being with you.

I like you coming over.

But I think weekends are better for us to get together.

Taur: OK do you not want to see me during the week, or you don't want to see me as much??

Me: Jake, it's just that during the week I'm super busy/stressed/tired.

I don't have much energy.

Taur: hmm... I see.

Is it because I left at midnight the other night?

My bad.

I figured since your stomach was upset I'd come over make you a tea and cuddle with you.

Me: No its not that.

I figured it be best to see each other on the weekends when we're both off. And thank you for being so caring. I was feeling shitty.

Taur: Well I thought since we've established a relationship I'd go over more often since you don't come over often.

Me: That is why I think weekends are best.

Taur: I'd really like that.

Me: Me too.

It's getting late I'll talk to you tomorrow.

Taur: yeah.

Sweet dreams♡

Me: sweet dreams ♡



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I want continue seeing him.

but I am a gem, and we need space every now and then.


I messaged, and told him it be nice to plan things to do on the weekends, when we both have free time and are more relaxed.


Me:hey how are you?

Taur: hey bby!

how was your day?

Me: You know same old same old.

My day was neutral.

And yours?

Taur: Same shit like always. Rude people everywhere.

Me: haha.

I want to tell you something.

I like being with you.

I like you coming over.

But I think weekends are better for us to get together.

Taur: OK do you not want to see me during the week, or you don't want to see me as much??

Me: Jake, it's just that during the week I'm super busy/stressed/tired.

I don't have much energy.

Taur: hmm... I see.

Is it because I left at midnight the other night?

My bad.

I figured since your stomach was upset I'd come over make you a tea and cuddle with you.

Me: No its not that.

I figured it be best to see each other on the weekends when we're both off. And thank you for being so caring. I was feeling shitty.

Taur: Well I thought since we've established a relationship I'd go over more often since you don't come over often.

Me: That is why I think weekends are best.

Taur: I'd really like that.

Me: Me too.

It's getting late I'll talk to you tomorrow.

Taur: yeah.

Sweet dreams♡

Me: sweet dreams ♡





Sounds good??

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Teena I saw you assisting others on dxp with birth chart and synastry.

Can you assist me please?


I am sun gem, moon virgo. Libra/scorpio asc.

He is sun taurus, moon scorpio. Leo asc.


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Teena I saw you assisting others on dxp with birth chart and synastry.

Can you assist me please?


I am sun gem, moon virgo. Libra/scorpio asc.

He is sun taurus, moon scorpio. Leo asc.


Me?? I think you're mistaken qolqot. I don't read any charts or synastry?

@Blue_froggie is the one who does that.

Also you need to post your charts here. Sun moon n asc info won't help much.
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Doesn't sound good for him at all. You obviously don't care much about him. If you did, you'd want him around MORE, not less. Him being needy or clingy or emotionally dependent should make you feel good because it shows he wants to be with you. And if you truly love the guy, fulfilling his emotional needs at least for the time being should be the easiest thing in the world, because nothing is supposed to feel like too much work when you love someone. Unless you don't truly love him, which I don't think you do.
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Teena I saw you assisting others on dxp with birth chart and synastry.

Can you assist me please?


I am sun gem, moon virgo. Libra/scorpio asc.

He is sun taurus, moon scorpio. Leo asc.


Me?? I think you're mistaken qolqot. I don't read any charts or synastry?

@Blue_froggie is the one who does that.

Also you need to post your charts here. Sun moon n asc info won't help much.
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I know she does.

but I'm sure you've done it though.

hm...


Thanks for the advice smile


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Jake is a fuc boi name. You dodged a bullet.
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Doesn't sound good for him at all. You obviously don't care much about him. If you did, you'd want him around MORE, not less. Him being needy or clingy or emotionally dependent should make you feel good because it shows he wants to be with you. And if you truly love the guy, fulfilling his emotional needs at least for the time being should be the easiest thing in the world, because nothing is supposed to feel like too much work when you love someone. Unless you don't truly love him, which I don't think you do.
I see what your saying heavy.

But wait how do you know I don't love him?

you can't feel what is in my heart.

The reason why as said above I'd like to see him on the weekends is because I'm busy/tired/cranky during the week.

I don't want to be half asleep while he talks about recipes he wants to try at 10:00pm.

I rather we both get home to our beauty sleep.

So he can be fully energized in the morning.

He gets off work at 9:00.

So he was able to come over 9:50/10:00.

He lives an hour away.


Words dont matter in the long run.

Because it is his arms that hold me every time we see each other.

We help clean each others houses.

I mean I don't know people who do that for each other

Gems hate routine, unless we feel passion

Then we continue.
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Jake is a fuc boi name. You dodged a bullet.
It's actually Jacob.

but he likes Jake/Jakey/bbycakes haha

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Doesn't sound good for him at all. You obviously don't care much about him. If you did, you'd want him around MORE, not less. Him being needy or clingy or emotionally dependent should make you feel good because it shows he wants to be with you. And if you truly love the guy, fulfilling his emotional needs at least for the time being should be the easiest thing in the world, because nothing is supposed to feel like too much work when you love someone. Unless you don't truly love him, which I don't think you do.
I see what your saying heavy.

But wait how do you know I don't love him?

you can't feel what is in my heart.

The reason why as said above I'd like to see him on the weekends is because I'm busy/tired/cranky during the week.

I don't want to be half asleep while he talks about recipes he wants to try at 10:00pm.

I rather we both get home to our beauty sleep.

So he can be fully energized in the morning.

He gets off work at 9:00.

So he was able to come over 9:50/10:00.

He lives an hour away.


Words dont matter in the long run.

Because it is his arms that hold me every time we see each other.

We help clean each others houses.

I mean I don't know people who do that for each other

Gems hate routine, unless we feel passion

Then we continue.
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To me you just don't sound like someone who's in love. Or maybe I'm just old-fashioned.


I mean, I can't imagine anything more rejuvenating than having my beautiful boy in my arms after a long hard day/week. It's the best feeling in the world. Crankiness........what crankiness? The stress, the angst, the anxiety, poof. Likewise for him. Even if he's had the crappiest day possible, the difference in him between the moment he stepped through the door and after the hug ends is night & day.


Before I go any further, I want to make clear that I'm not having a go at you in any shape or form, I'm just trying to understand you better. On that note, allow me to present a scenario to you:


This time last year, just days before my boy's birthday, I was having the worst time of my life and I was experiencing suicidal tendencies. On his birthday I almost killed myself. We weren't together at the time and he didn't even know I was in love with him. He was straight, I was gay and I was terrified of losing him. To make a long story short, I put some much-needed distance between us for about a month because I couldn't handle seeing him without being able to tell him how much I love him.


But during that month, his family was dragged to hell and he was suffering big time. As soon as I found out, a switch inside me flipped. I completely forgot about the hell I'd just gone through myself and I just wanted to be there for him and help him any way I could. I was able to put him first in my mind & my heart because I love him more than any other person in the world, including my family.


If this was you and your Bull, how would you have handled it? Would you be able to completely forget the pain you felt that whole month and rush to his side with no strings attached?
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Teena I saw you assisting others on dxp with birth chart and synastry.

Can you assist me please?


I am sun gem, moon virgo. Libra/scorpio asc.

He is sun taurus, moon scorpio. Leo asc.


Me?? I think you're mistaken qolqot. I don't read any charts or synastry?

@Blue_froggie is the one who does that.

Also you need to post your charts here. Sun moon n asc info won't help much.
Lost interest in astrology lol


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Lol!! It shall pass.. the phase?


Interesting thing would be when I get into it n start reading charts..good god!! ?


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Baby cakes lol


Hm, it's not so bad to be codependent in my experience. I guess because I have to learn first hand the hard way in each relationship what boundaries work for me and for us. They don't write a manual for that and, even if they did, it wouldn't sink in.
Lol! I don't understand the boundaries tho?
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I mean the whole boundaries part
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Baby cakes lol


Hm, it's not so bad to be codependent in my experience. I guess because I have to learn first hand the hard way in each relationship what boundaries work for me and for us. They don't write a manual for that and, even if they did, it wouldn't sink in.
Lol! I don't understand the boundaries tho?


Me neither! So no one is driving this car.

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Ok... that's too much ambiguity.. I made a couple of interpretations but I'm still blinking?

What did you mean??
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Baby cakes lol


Hm, it's not so bad to be codependent in my experience. I guess because I have to learn first hand the hard way in each relationship what boundaries work for me and for us. They don't write a manual for that and, even if they did, it wouldn't sink in.
Lol! I don't understand the boundaries tho?


Me neither! So no one is driving this car.

Ok... that's too much ambiguity.. I made a couple of interpretations but I'm still blinking?

What did you mean??
About boundaries? In my experience it is just little things you both pick up along the way that make a big difference.


Like keeping certain conversations to in person, not resolving things by writing. Or at certain times of the day. Not trying to resolve things as the last thing to do in the day before bed. Both people being tired always leads to argument. Not using certain words you know are bound to trigger each other. Choosing your battles basically, in the sense of both building something better all the time not in the sense of walking on eggshells or being high maintenance. After a few fights about the same thing over and over, you both catch on.

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I actually asked about "driving this car"


But yeah , what you said makes a lotta sense.


Imo, being fine with whatever be what might at the end(in the sense not bottling up things n kissing goodnight anyway n getting over things by the next day or within minutes), is the point one should reach I guess I dunno. At the end of the day, everything is forgotten n forgiven n you get back to being this two inseparable people.

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Baby cakes lol


Hm, it's not so bad to be codependent in my experience. I guess because I have to learn first hand the hard way in each relationship what boundaries work for me and for us. They don't write a manual for that and, even if they did, it wouldn't sink in.
Lol! I don't understand the boundaries tho?


Me neither! So no one is driving this car.

Ok... that's too much ambiguity.. I made a couple of interpretations but I'm still blinking?

What did you mean??
About boundaries? In my experience it is just little things you both pick up along the way that make a big difference.


Like keeping certain conversations to in person, not resolving things by writing. Or at certain times of the day. Not trying to resolve things as the last thing to do in the day before bed. Both people being tired always leads to argument. Not using certain words you know are bound to trigger each other. Choosing your battles basically, in the sense of both building something better all the time not in the sense of walking on eggshells or being high maintenance. After a few fights about the same thing over and over, you both catch on.



I actually asked about "driving this car"


But yeah , what you said makes a lotta sense.


Imo, being fine with whatever be what might at the end(in the sense not bottling up things n kissing goodnight anyway n getting over things by the next day or within minutes), is the point one should reach I guess I dunno. At the end of the day, everything is forgotten n forgiven n you get back to being this two inseparable people.



That's the ideal for sure.


Driving this car was just me kidding around. If we both don't know the boundaries.

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Ideal n so very possible. People give up too soon?


LOLLaughing

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Teena I saw you assisting others on dxp with birth chart and synastry.

Can you assist me please?


I am sun gem, moon virgo. Libra/scorpio asc.

He is sun taurus, moon scorpio. Leo asc.


Me?? I think you're mistaken qolqot. I don't read any charts or synastry?

@Blue_froggie is the one who does that.

Also you need to post your charts here. Sun moon n asc info won't help much.
Lost interest in astrology lol


Lol!! It shall pass.. the phase?


Interesting thing would be when I get into it n start reading charts..good god!! ?




I'm sure I will continue after a month or two ?



Oh that should be great... Eagerly waiting to receive a reading from you?

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Omg I can't!! The thought itself is hilarious ?
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Teena I saw you assisting others on dxp with birth chart and synastry.

Can you assist me please?


I am sun gem, moon virgo. Libra/scorpio asc.

He is sun taurus, moon scorpio. Leo asc.


Me?? I think you're mistaken qolqot. I don't read any charts or synastry?

@Blue_froggie is the one who does that.

Also you need to post your charts here. Sun moon n asc info won't help much.
Lost interest in astrology lol


Lol!! It shall pass.. the phase?


Interesting thing would be when I get into it n start reading charts..good god!! ?




I'm sure I will continue after a month or two ?



Oh that should be great... Eagerly waiting to receive a reading from you?

Omg I can't!! The thought itself is hilarious ?


Lol!

Pick a sign for me to date ?

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Haha..Okay.. let's try!!

How do you like Aquas/Aries/ or fellow Gems??
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Teena I saw you assisting others on dxp with birth chart and synastry.

Can you assist me please?


I am sun gem, moon virgo. Libra/scorpio asc.

He is sun taurus, moon scorpio. Leo asc.


Me?? I think you're mistaken qolqot. I don't read any charts or synastry?

@Blue_froggie is the one who does that.

Also you need to post your charts here. Sun moon n asc info won't help much.
Lost interest in astrology lol


Lol!! It shall pass.. the phase?


Interesting thing would be when I get into it n start reading charts..good god!! ?




I'm sure I will continue after a month or two ?



Oh that should be great... Eagerly waiting to receive a reading from you?

Omg I can't!! The thought itself is hilarious ?


Lol!

Pick a sign for me to date ?

Haha..Okay.. let's try!!

How do you like Aquas/Aries/ or fellow Gems??

Dating a fellow Gemini would be weird... Aqua's love to fight and Aries ?


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See??? I got it all wrong!! I know nothing ???
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Teena I saw you assisting others on dxp with birth chart and synastry.

Can you assist me please?


I am sun gem, moon virgo. Libra/scorpio asc.

He is sun taurus, moon scorpio. Leo asc.


Me?? I think you're mistaken qolqot. I don't read any charts or synastry?

@Blue_froggie is the one who does that.

Also you need to post your charts here. Sun moon n asc info won't help much.
Lost interest in astrology lol


Lol!! It shall pass.. the phase?


Interesting thing would be when I get into it n start reading charts..good god!! ?




I'm sure I will continue after a month or two ?



Oh that should be great... Eagerly waiting to receive a reading from you?

Omg I can't!! The thought itself is hilarious ?


Lol!

Pick a sign for me to date ?

Haha..Okay.. let's try!!

How do you like Aquas/Aries/ or fellow Gems??

Dating a fellow Gemini would be weird... Aqua's love to fight and Aries ?


See??? I got it all wrong!! I know nothing ???

lol

Not at all...


I love Aries energy ?


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Let's find us both Aries babe!! We both need 'em ??

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Teena I saw you assisting others on dxp with birth chart and synastry.

Can you assist me please?


I am sun gem, moon virgo. Libra/scorpio asc.

He is sun taurus, moon scorpio. Leo asc.


Me?? I think you're mistaken qolqot. I don't read any charts or synastry?

@Blue_froggie is the one who does that.

Also you need to post your charts here. Sun moon n asc info won't help much.
Lost interest in astrology lol


Lol!! It shall pass.. the phase?


Interesting thing would be when I get into it n start reading charts..good god!! ?




I'm sure I will continue after a month or two ?



Oh that should be great... Eagerly waiting to receive a reading from you?

Omg I can't!! The thought itself is hilarious ?


Lol!

Pick a sign for me to date ?

Haha..Okay.. let's try!!

How do you like Aquas/Aries/ or fellow Gems??

Dating a fellow Gemini would be weird... Aqua's love to fight and Aries ?


See??? I got it all wrong!! I know nothing ???

lol

Not at all...


I love Aries energy ?




Let's find us both Aries babe!! We both need 'em ??



For you it should work, I can see you with an Aries guy... My besties are Aries(guys) and i know all their tricks. But total sweethearts ?

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Who do you think you'd mesh well with?(Apart from Taurus of course?)


N what if I'm not finding an Aries?? I seriously dunno what I'm wishing for here ??

What other signs do you think would work for me?
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Teena I saw you assisting others on dxp with birth chart and synastry.

Can you assist me please?


I am sun gem, moon virgo. Libra/scorpio asc.

He is sun taurus, moon scorpio. Leo asc.


Me?? I think you're mistaken qolqot. I don't read any charts or synastry?

@Blue_froggie is the one who does that.

Also you need to post your charts here. Sun moon n asc info won't help much.
Lost interest in astrology lol


Lol!! It shall pass.. the phase?


Interesting thing would be when I get into it n start reading charts..good god!! ?




I'm sure I will continue after a month or two ?



Oh that should be great... Eagerly waiting to receive a reading from you?

Omg I can't!! The thought itself is hilarious ?


Lol!

Pick a sign for me to date ?

Haha..Okay.. let's try!!

How do you like Aquas/Aries/ or fellow Gems??

Dating a fellow Gemini would be weird... Aqua's love to fight and Aries ?


See??? I got it all wrong!! I know nothing ???

lol

Not at all...


I love Aries energy ?




Let's find us both Aries babe!! We both need 'em ??



For you it should work, I can see you with an Aries guy... My besties are Aries(guys) and i know all their tricks. But total sweethearts ?

Who do you think you'd mesh well with?(Apart from Taurus of course?)


N what if I'm not finding an Aries?? I seriously dunno what I'm wishing for here ??

What other signs do you think would work for me?


I don't think I do well with Taurus energy,esp if it is an ldr babe... I really don't know lol


I'm sure the Aries will find you?


Other than Aries, I think you would do well with Libra/Virgo mix ?

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Ldrs are always hard babe? I think it's the ldr n communication more than you not doing well with Taurus ?


LOL!!!?? Let's see about Aries finding me. But I won't wait for him for too long. I wanna get married before 28 ?


"Other than Aries, I think you would do well with Libra/Virgo mix " Aahh I like the sound of that ???


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Teena I saw you assisting others on dxp with birth chart and synastry.

Can you assist me please?


I am sun gem, moon virgo. Libra/scorpio asc.

He is sun taurus, moon scorpio. Leo asc.


Me?? I think you're mistaken qolqot. I don't read any charts or synastry?

@Blue_froggie is the one who does that.

Also you need to post your charts here. Sun moon n asc info won't help much.
Lost interest in astrology lol


Lol!! It shall pass.. the phase?


Interesting thing would be when I get into it n start reading charts..good god!! ?




I'm sure I will continue after a month or two ?



Oh that should be great... Eagerly waiting to receive a reading from you?

Omg I can't!! The thought itself is hilarious ?


Lol!

Pick a sign for me to date ?

Haha..Okay.. let's try!!

How do you like Aquas/Aries/ or fellow Gems??

Dating a fellow Gemini would be weird... Aqua's love to fight and Aries ?


See??? I got it all wrong!! I know nothing ???

lol

Not at all...


I love Aries energy ?




Let's find us both Aries babe!! We both need 'em ??



For you it should work, I can see you with an Aries guy... My besties are Aries(guys) and i know all their tricks. But total sweethearts ?

Who do you think you'd mesh well with?(Apart from Taurus of course?)


N what if I'm not finding an Aries?? I seriously dunno what I'm wishing for here ??

What other signs do you think would work for me?


I don't think I do well with Taurus energy,esp if it is an ldr babe... I really don't know lol


I'm sure the Aries will find you?


Other than Aries, I think you would do well with Libra/Virgo mix ?



Ldrs are always hard babe? I think it's the ldr n communication more than you not doing well with Taurus ?


LOL!!!?? Let's see about Aries finding me. But I won't wait for him for too long. I wanna get married before 28 ?


"Other than Aries, I think you would do well with Libra/Virgo mix " Aahh I like the sound of that ???



I was too insecure and lost control, add to that lack of sleep trying to stay awake to catch up with him, angry and all the negative energy is what screwed it up. It's all my fault. He will come back in two months, it seems...


It will happen, bub... I love Scorp+ Aries. It is one of my fave inconjunct energies. Definitely better than Gem+Scorp or Aries +Virgo, imo

Libra/Virgo should be great for you ?


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I totally get it.

Come back for good or to visit?? If it's for good, I'm sure it'll all be fine again between you both Hug


Libra/Virgo is totally my comfort zone .. sounds exciting too??

Aries sounds dangerous..but I feel like playing with it...maybe sheer curiosity...but I also constantly remind myself "Be careful what you wish for" n then I be like "No no no"
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Teena I saw you assisting others on dxp with birth chart and synastry.

Can you assist me please?


I am sun gem, moon virgo. Libra/scorpio asc.

He is sun taurus, moon scorpio. Leo asc.


Me?? I think you're mistaken qolqot. I don't read any charts or synastry?

@Blue_froggie is the one who does that.

Also you need to post your charts here. Sun moon n asc info won't help much.
Lost interest in astrology lol


Lol!! It shall pass.. the phase?


Interesting thing would be when I get into it n start reading charts..good god!! ?




I'm sure I will continue after a month or two ?



Oh that should be great... Eagerly waiting to receive a reading from you?

Omg I can't!! The thought itself is hilarious ?


Lol!

Pick a sign for me to date ?

Haha..Okay.. let's try!!

How do you like Aquas/Aries/ or fellow Gems??

Dating a fellow Gemini would be weird... Aqua's love to fight and Aries ?


See??? I got it all wrong!! I know nothing ???

lol

Not at all...


I love Aries energy ?




Let's find us both Aries babe!! We both need 'em ??



For you it should work, I can see you with an Aries guy... My besties are Aries(guys) and i know all their tricks. But total sweethearts ?

Who do you think you'd mesh well with?(Apart from Taurus of course?)


N what if I'm not finding an Aries?? I seriously dunno what I'm wishing for here ??

What other signs do you think would work for me?


I don't think I do well with Taurus energy,esp if it is an ldr babe... I really don't know lol


I'm sure the Aries will find you?


Other than Aries, I think you would do well with Libra/Virgo mix ?



Ldrs are always hard babe? I think it's the ldr n communication more than you not doing well with Taurus ?


LOL!!!?? Let's see about Aries finding me. But I won't wait for him for too long. I wanna get married before 28 ?


"Other than Aries, I think you would do well with Libra/Virgo mix " Aahh I like the sound of that ???



I was too insecure and lost control, add to that lack of sleep trying to stay awake to catch up with him, angry and all the negative energy is what screwed it up. It's all my fault. He will come back in two months, it seems...


It will happen, bub... I love Scorp+ Aries. It is one of my fave inconjunct energies. Definitely better than Gem+Scorp or Aries +Virgo, imo

Libra/Virgo should be great for you ?




I totally get it.

Come back for good or to visit?? If it's for good, I'm sure it'll all be fine again between you both Hug


Libra/Virgo is totally my comfort zone .. sounds exciting too??

Aries sounds dangerous..but I feel like playing with it...maybe sheer curiosity...but I also constantly remind myself "Be careful what you wish for" n then I be like "No no no"


Come back for good, that's what I heard. No, it's over. I crossed the line few times and it's over for me. As it should.


*Hugs*


Oh that's great! Yeah I can see how Aries can be tempting for you lol Give it a shot? I feel you will do great with an Aries guy?


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No, don't give up already. I understand it's messed up n stuff..but he might still want you. Or if you do not want this anymore, I wish you'd move on soon n make some lovely connection n start it all afresh ??


Lol! Yeah if I find one that is. Rn I'm only tempted by the idea ??
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Teena I saw you assisting others on dxp with birth chart and synastry.

Can you assist me please?


I am sun gem, moon virgo. Libra/scorpio asc.

He is sun taurus, moon scorpio. Leo asc.




From what I know Gemini sun and Taurus sun people is very hard to make it work. You express love differently. It's gonna be a lot of miscommunication and most likely a lot of hurt toward the Taurus side in the end. I think you two are clicking on some levels because of your Virgo Moon that meshes with his Taurus Sun. Also, if he's having a Moon in Scorpio as you're telling, then expect even more passion and desire to merge completely than coming from a Taurus Sun - and yeah, Taurus people being ruled by Venus are really affectionate people that want to spend all day together smile


But all in all as other have correctly pointed out, you don't really strike me as really interested. I read the conversation that you had with him that you copy/pasted for us, but personally I didn't really see any clingy behavior. I think you're reading it out as clingy because you actually don't like him that much and so unconsciously you want your space. I mean, think about it. Think about the last time YOU liked a guy. Did you not want to spend time with him more, communicate etc?

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Thank you everyone for your input/comments.

I have reflected and I admit I haven't been there for him lately.

I have no excuses for acting like that.

He is an awesome guy.

He really cares about me, sincerely.

I do too.

These days being busy with work, real estate programs, spiritual group. I get busy. I don't care much about having "friends" or having people close. And to be honest I like it that way.

I focus better on my dreams/projects.

He is a part of the madness I call life.

you bet he is worth being with.


I'm leaving a lot out like a letter I wrote him a year ago and the love letter a few weeks ago.


Any who,

Thank you everyone who commented.

Have a great day!

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