help!

Okay. My Pisces and I really hit it off when me met over a year ago, so much that we sorta moved in together prematurely. I am his first real relationship that has been in close proximity. He has spent most relationships in long distant type deals. We get a long great but he is not super sexual. He compensates by being ultra cuddly and sweet. He said that his last relationships were the same. He is not aggressive and awfully rigid. You have to make a plan to have sex. I feel this is because he is super stressed out all the time where he lets his worries get the best of him. He most often only has sex when he is relaxed. Anyway, the past month or two, He's been going through what seems a quarterlife crisis. He's going back to school and blowing money on things like a motorcycle and vacations. He hasn't said I love you yet, and I dropped the bomb first. I think it freaked him out and he's backed off a bit. But I feel that he does ACT like a guy that loves me.. until i recently said it to him. I just don't understand how you can live with somebody, go to bed with them every night and not feel love or express that? He didn't really contact me during his week vacation and I respected that. He's home now, and just found news he got laid off at his job. My question is - this Pisces is under muchomucho stress and is about to POP. I'm unsure how to handle him, or if I should at all. Our lease is up in May and he's up in there air what's going to happen next. What can I expect in a pisces? How do i best treat a stressed out pisces who is confused in love, got laid off and is going through a quarterlife crisis— Will he eventually meet my needs through sex, love, commitment and all that jazz? I feel as though I've been accomodating him more then he has to me. He won't express or assure he loves me and it's been over a year, but he doesn't want to end it when I tell him I really don't want to waste my time with someone that can't 100% love me in the moment. Commitment phobe at it's finest. He seems ultra confused.

Okay so this is scattered. There's a lot of butter to take in. WHAT DO I DO IF MY BOYFRIEN😱

* Doesn't save I love you
* Gets laid off
*Doesn't have sex a lot
* Is Afraid of commitment

And how do you give someone the space they need living with them?!?


Help,

Super Confused.

Move out. Either he'll get his thumb out, or he won't. I say if after a year he still doesn't know where he stands then it's DOA. His drive isn't there, his emotions aren't fully there, who is clinging to whom? You aren't a life raft, you're a human being. He needs to sink or swim. How do you expect him to be there for you when he can't be there for himself?