Help plz :( Aries-Libra break up....

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by libran_girly on Sunday, October 1, 2006 and has 5 replies.
Well, I just broke up with my bf who is an Aries on Saturday before i due to fly to visit him in 5 days. We were having a long distance relationship for the past few months. Things were really great between us, we argued and fought sometimes but always tried to compromise and maintained our relationship as much as possible. The distance and insecurity were big troubles in our relationship tho.
Last Saturday, He happened to know that i got a msg from a guy friends inviting to a birthday party and he easily got pissed off after that (he is a very jealous guy) and led us to a big fight about the distance and trust issues which he came up with the conclusion for us to break up... I was really hurt and trying to ask him to give us one more chance as i was going to be there with him in 5 days but he insisted that we would rather be over and became very nasty and aggressive to me to end our relationship. I somehow still believe that this is not the real him who I always love, The guy who was totally sweet and thoughtful in many respects of life would do such a thing. I understand that the issue that got on his nerve at the moment about his new job in the new airline (he is a pilot) that he is going to be grounded for training for 6 months and thats gonna be tough for our relationship but im willing to wait as we plan to get engaged next year on September. I believe that he thinks its the best that we ended up before this training will take place and we both would be in more pain.... I think that was the actual reason for him to do this to me but i still dont understand why he has to end us up in a nasty way? I have never hurt him ever and our relationship was based on love and respect before.
Anyway, Today morning, I came online and saw him on MSN but i didnt start any conversation as i always did after we broke up then about 10 mins later, He sent me a msg on MSN asking if i cancel the ticket that i booked to see him yet. I didnt response to his msg. He then sent me another msg if im ignoring him? I still didnt response and he just said that he guess so and he is going to bed coz he is just back from flying to India and see ya. he sounded more calm and less aggressive than 2 days ago after we broke up that he was just being totally cold and distant to me. Im very confused now what he is trying to do? If he wants me back again or something? I would be happy to go back coz i really do love him but i dont want it to be too easy for him. Help me plz? Sad
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Me:
Sun = Libra
Moon = Aries
Rising = Leo
Mar = Leo
Venus = Leo
Him:
Sun = Aries
Moon = Saggittarius
Rising = Leo
Mar = Leo
Venus = Gemini
appreciate any input. Im totally lost here and sad. Havent had any sleep or food for 3 days now Crying
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Too be perfectly honet,the only one who has those answers are him.Good qestions to be asking yourself and us but yeah,they should be directed at him.
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Hi Libra Girly,
I'm a Aries boy and i never had any experience with libra girls. But i do believe that the yealous thingis typical Aries.
And for that MSN example. I would react cold as ice too, if my gf would ignore me when i ask her something. He's making a decision to break up, but that is just a eperiment. to let him see how much you love him.
Just ask him what he want. and say you love him.
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Get a taurus, we understand libras emotional needs.
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