Holding grudges
This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by Leobaby89 on Tuesday, September 19, 2017 and has 30 replies.
Which sign stays mad the longest and during that time should you give them their space or reach out to them and why?
Leo
Sag
Cancer
Libra
Gemini
Aries
Virgo
Leo
Sag
Cancer
Libra
Gemini
Aries
Virgo
Posted by Cookieo
Virgo and cancer stay mad the longest.
Aries, Libra and sag don't stay mad long.
The signs that stay mad the longest generally speaking do they want the person to give them space or "fight" for their love?
Posted by Leobaby89Good question.Posted by Cookieo
Virgo and cancer stay mad the longest.
Aries, Libra and sag don't stay mad long.
The signs that stay mad the longest generally speaking do they want the person to give them space or "fight" for their love?click to expand
Posted by Rozaeon
I beg to differ once again, i'm a Libra and i'll never forget anything nor forgive anything so i hold grudges for years
And, on the opposite, the Virgos that i know don't stay mad long, they don't care after a while
So to make things right with a Libra does the person need to apologize and give them space or fight for their love?
In your opinion do Virgos just forgive and forget or an apology is absolutely needed for them to do so?
Posted by Cookieo? that's funny. For the ones you said move on quickly do you think thosd individuals need an apology to move on or they eventual move on with some space and time?Posted by Leobaby89I say "fight" for their love. But virgo and cancer can be a bit too petty so I just avoid them if they are in that mood lol.Posted by Cookieo
Virgo and cancer stay mad the longest.
Aries, Libra and sag don't stay mad long.
The signs that stay mad the longest generally speaking do they want the person to give them space or "fight" for their love?
I remember having an argument with my virgo boss. He wouldn't drop it. He was insane. He just followed me when I tried to get away from his crazy ass trying to convince me he was right. Just go away I'm not going to agree regardless what you say.click to expand
Posted by CookieoSo if one does you wrong do you take an apology into consideration or just erase them? If you believe the apology is genuine would you still consider that person a "bad" person? Do you like your space or for people to "fight" for you?Posted by RozaeonI forgive but I don't forget. Also a libra. If you're a bad person I just erase you from my life. I don't hold grudges.
I beg to differ once again, i'm a Libra and i'll never forget anything nor forgive anything so i hold grudges for years
And, on the opposite, the Virgos that i know don't stay mad long, they don't care after a whileclick to expand
lol I used to not easily forgive but I guess it all depends on what the other party has done.
Posted by Leobaby89Leo's: depends on what the other person did.
Which sign stays mad the longest and during that time should you give them their space or reach out to them and why?
Leo
Sag
Cancer
Libra
Gemini
Aries
Virgo
Sag: They are way to busy riding the clouds to care.
Cancer: Never talk to you again type.
Libra: They really don't like confrontation, so they will be mad in their heads for awhile.
Gemini: Depends which personality you pissed off.
Aries: We blow up and breath fire, 20 minutes later we are so over that.
Virgos: The King/Queens of Ice.
Posted by RozaeonPosted by Leobaby89Space, an apology and wanting to discuss things out calmlyPosted by Rozaeon
I beg to differ once again, i'm a Libra and i'll never forget anything nor forgive anything so i hold grudges for years
And, on the opposite, the Virgos that i know don't stay mad long, they don't care after a while
So to make things right with a Libra does the person need to apologize and give them space or fight for their love?
In your opinion do Virgos just forgive and forget or an apology is absolutely needed for them to do so?
From my perspective ( and maybe some other Libras may relate who knows ? ), even after an apology i will not forget, i'll let things pass if i care about you but if there is another big big drama i'm done forever
But to come to this point you reaaaally have to push since i'm patient
And from my experiences when i argued with Virgos they gave me the silent treatment, so i apologized and then they forgive
Some forget some won't, it depends on what you did, if you hurt them badly or it's just a stupid argumentclick to expand
How long after getting space do you want to discuss things?
In your experience do Virgos give the silent treatment for days, weeks, or months before considering forgiving you?
I don't hold a grudge if you apologize / clear the air
I vote Scorp moons
They can hold a grudge from the womb
I vote Scorp moons
They can hold a grudge from the womb
Posted by EmotionalAriesPosted by Leobaby89Leo's: depends on what the other person did.
Which sign stays mad the longest and during that time should you give them their space or reach out to them and why?
Leo
Sag
Cancer
Libra
Gemini
Aries
Virgo
Sag: They are way to busy riding the clouds to care.
Cancer: Never talk to you again type.
Libra: They really don't like confrontation, so they will be mad in their heads for awhile.
Gemini: Depends which personality you pissed off.
Aries: We blow up and breath fire, 20 minutes later we are so over that.
Virgos: The King/Queens of Ice.click to expand
You hit it on the head with Leos, Sag, Geminis and Aries.
I never made a cancer mad and I don't know many Virgos. As for Libras one of my best friends is a Libra and I think it all depends on who it is she is mad at. She was upset with her dad and didnt speak to him for a month and then when she decided to talk to him she acted like nothing happened. She does need space and during that time she likes to be left alone until she is ready to talk about it. It doesn't take her long to forgive but they do not forget.
Posted by brianafayLol, not from the womb though!
I don't hold a grudge if you apologize / clear the air
I vote Scorp moons
They can hold a grudge from the womb
What's your sign again?
Posted by Leobaby89My mom is a Libra, she has a poker face and most would never know she is mad. But to get her to talk about it, forget it. She would rather brew and work it out in her own head.Posted by EmotionalAriesPosted by Leobaby89Leo's: depends on what the other person did.
Which sign stays mad the longest and during that time should you give them their space or reach out to them and why?
Leo
Sag
Cancer
Libra
Gemini
Aries
Virgo
Sag: They are way to busy riding the clouds to care.
Cancer: Never talk to you again type.
Libra: They really don't like confrontation, so they will be mad in their heads for awhile.
Gemini: Depends which personality you pissed off.
Aries: We blow up and breath fire, 20 minutes later we are so over that.
Virgos: The King/Queens of Ice.
You hit it on the head with Leos, Sag, Geminis and Aries.
I never made a cancer mad and I don't know many Virgos. As for Libras one of my best friends is a Libra and I think it all depends on who it is she is mad at. She was upset with her dad and didnt speak to him for a month and then when she decided to talk to him she acted like nothing happened. She does need space and during that time she likes to be left alone until she is ready to talk about it. It doesn't take her long to forgive but they do not forget.click to expand
Posted by Leobaby89Posted by brianafayLol, not from the womb though!
I don't hold a grudge if you apologize / clear the air
I vote Scorp moons
They can hold a grudge from the womb
What's your sign again?click to expand
Sagi
Posted by CookieoMakes sense. When given your space would you reach out to the individual after getting your thoughts together and receiving that apology? I'm asking because I've heard if you don't give Libra their needed space it could push the away.Posted by Leobaby89Ofc we are all humans. Everyone makes mistakes. A mistake doesn't automatically make someone a bad person. If the apology is genuine I always forgive. But if someone keeps saying sorry and do it over and over again then the apology can't have been genuine so then its better to just erase that person from my life.Posted by CookieoSo if one does you wrong do you take an apology into consideration or just erase them? If you believe the apology is genuine would you still consider that person a "bad" person? Do you like your space or for people to "fight" for you?Posted by RozaeonI forgive but I don't forget. Also a libra. If you're a bad person I just erase you from my life. I don't hold grudges.
I beg to differ once again, i'm a Libra and i'll never forget anything nor forgive anything so i hold grudges for years
And, on the opposite, the Virgos that i know don't stay mad long, they don't care after a while
Depends on what they did ofc. I'm good at seeing people for who they are. They don't necessarily have to be bad people. Maybe just someone that doesn't value you. In that case is the same. It's better to just not interact with them.
I won't stay mad at them though. It's not in my nature if they are decent people.
When I'm upset I like my space but a sincere apology is never wrong.click to expand
Posted by brianafayMy mom is a sag and she doesn't hold grudges.Posted by Leobaby89Posted by brianafayLol, not from the womb though!
I don't hold a grudge if you apologize / clear the air
I vote Scorp moons
They can hold a grudge from the womb
What's your sign again?
Sagiclick to expand
Posted by RozaeonThat is great...the argument didn't happen in vain.Posted by Leobaby89It depends, i can't tell how many days it will take me to process things, but if you apologized and let me know that you want to discuss, even if i don't reply the same day or the week after i'll come to you no matter what if i carePosted by RozaeonPosted by Leobaby89Space, an apology and wanting to discuss things out calmlyPosted by Rozaeon
I beg to differ once again, i'm a Libra and i'll never forget anything nor forgive anything so i hold grudges for years
And, on the opposite, the Virgos that i know don't stay mad long, they don't care after a while
So to make things right with a Libra does the person need to apologize and give them space or fight for their love?
In your opinion do Virgos just forgive and forget or an apology is absolutely needed for them to do so?
From my perspective ( and maybe some other Libras may relate who knows ? ), even after an apology i will not forget, i'll let things pass if i care about you but if there is another big big drama i'm done forever
But to come to this point you reaaaally have to push since i'm patient
And from my experiences when i argued with Virgos they gave me the silent treatment, so i apologized and then they forgive
Some forget some won't, it depends on what you did, if you hurt them badly or it's just a stupid argument
How long after getting space do you want to discuss things?
In your experience do Virgos give the silent treatment for days, weeks, or months before considering forgiving you?
They waited until i apologize, so it can be days or months and when i did, they forgive right after
The only time that i've been in a really big argument with a Virgo, it took us years to finally rebuild our friendship like it was ( and it's stronger now than before )click to expand
Mm, my stepmom is a Virgo. She's crazy passive agressive and holds on to anger until she is physically ill or can't sleep. Two of my sisters are cancers, yes they hold grudges but usually they want to tell me to my face that they're pissed off and have been. They want long drawn out apologies. They will bring up fights later on.
My gemini friend can't hold grudges, even when she wants to. She goes petty for a while and then just drops it. Leo, I agree, it depends. I feel like they can hold onto grudges longer than aries and sag. Aries just let their anger explode and then it's done. A sag will forgive you a million times.
My gemini friend can't hold grudges, even when she wants to. She goes petty for a while and then just drops it. Leo, I agree, it depends. I feel like they can hold onto grudges longer than aries and sag. Aries just let their anger explode and then it's done. A sag will forgive you a million times.
Scorpios
Capricorns
Capricorns
Oh, Libra, this was my grandma's sign. She only held one grudge ever. It was years and years long though.
Cancer and cappie.
Posted by Leobaby89Where are you from then?Posted by brianafayLol, not from the womb though!
I don't hold a grudge if you apologize / clear the air
I vote Scorp moons
They can hold a grudge from the womb
What's your sign again?click to expand
Pisces, I have 3 close Pisces in my life and those ppl can hold grudges for decades, all different moons, so Im blaming the sun here. My sample size is small but I gotta say, these fish are impressive - holiday dinners are never boring with them around.
I'm a Cancer and if someone doesn't mean that much to me to begin with I don't hold a grudge. I just remove them from my world and move on. If I love you and you hurt me I will forgive you if you apologize or if you change the behavior, but I'll be careful about how much of myself I share with you. I wouldn't call it a grudge so much as just being more protective with my feelings so you don't have the opportunity to do it again.
In my experience:
Libra's want to talk it out and then they can be forgiving if they care for you, they just want peace.
Capricorn's will bring up the same argument for years. Everything you say goes on record for all of eternity. They can cut people off without looking back if they feel like they have to.
Virgo's don't seem to like confrontation. If you hurt them they may stay in your life but you can never go back to the way things were before. I don't know if it's necessarily a grudge but they will protect themselves.
In my experience:
Libra's want to talk it out and then they can be forgiving if they care for you, they just want peace.
Capricorn's will bring up the same argument for years. Everything you say goes on record for all of eternity. They can cut people off without looking back if they feel like they have to.
Virgo's don't seem to like confrontation. If you hurt them they may stay in your life but you can never go back to the way things were before. I don't know if it's necessarily a grudge but they will protect themselves.
Posted by TaurusinTexas
Pisces, I have 3 close Pisces in my life and those ppl can hold grudges for decades, all different moons, so Im blaming the sun here. My sample size is small but I gotta say, these fish are impressive - holiday dinners are never boring with them around.
I don't know many Pisces but the one I took the chance to get to know I didn't like her. She was very sneaky, vindictive and held a grudge.
Posted by Leobaby89a leo guy that I like very very very much did something really inconsiderate to me publicly (at our workplace) now for the second time. I have no idea why, but I forgave him the first time, and I am not mad at him now but I changed my workplace. yes, I want him to reach out and just be nice. and perhaps say he will try not to be so stupid againPosted by RozaeonThat is great...the argument didn't happen in vain.Posted by Leobaby89It depends, i can't tell how many days it will take me to process things, but if you apologized and let me know that you want to discuss, even if i don't reply the same day or the week after i'll come to you no matter what if i carePosted by RozaeonPosted by Leobaby89Space, an apology and wanting to discuss things out calmlyPosted by Rozaeon
I beg to differ once again, i'm a Libra and i'll never forget anything nor forgive anything so i hold grudges for years
And, on the opposite, the Virgos that i know don't stay mad long, they don't care after a while
So to make things right with a Libra does the person need to apologize and give them space or fight for their love?
In your opinion do Virgos just forgive and forget or an apology is absolutely needed for them to do so?
From my perspective ( and maybe some other Libras may relate who knows ? ), even after an apology i will not forget, i'll let things pass if i care about you but if there is another big big drama i'm done forever
But to come to this point you reaaaally have to push since i'm patient
And from my experiences when i argued with Virgos they gave me the silent treatment, so i apologized and then they forgive
Some forget some won't, it depends on what you did, if you hurt them badly or it's just a stupid argument
How long after getting space do you want to discuss things?
In your experience do Virgos give the silent treatment for days, weeks, or months before considering forgiving you?
They waited until i apologize, so it can be days or months and when i did, they forgive right after
The only time that i've been in a really big argument with a Virgo, it took us years to finally rebuild our friendship like it was ( and it's stronger now than before )click to expand
and then if he got me some nice food or made me laugh we would be OK again. bad people with bad intentions I erase from my life too, boundaries, simple as that. but if I like or love someone it is OK to make mistakes and make up for them later on. 
Virgo sun w/stellium and a Leo mars
Cancer - beware of the silent treatment!
Fire signs generally don't hold grudges, but if you wound a Leos pride, they will hold a grudge and label you an enemy.
Librans don't like holding grudges and even if they do, you can't tell!
The Mercuries Gemini and Virgo, they don't like holding grudges but they always fail to meet their holy expectations. They fake it but can't make it.
Fire signs generally don't hold grudges, but if you wound a Leos pride, they will hold a grudge and label you an enemy.
Librans don't like holding grudges and even if they do, you can't tell!
The Mercuries Gemini and Virgo, they don't like holding grudges but they always fail to meet their holy expectations. They fake it but can't make it.
Gemini’s never hold grudges. We are a forgiving lot.
P.S. I won’t forget this thread
P.P.S Just kidding I really won’t remember
P.S. I won’t forget this thread
P.P.S Just kidding I really won’t remember
Definitely Virgo's and Cancer's
Sag, Leo, Gem, Aries not so much
I find water and earth signs hold grudges for longer than fire signs and air signs
Just personal observations
Sag, Leo, Gem, Aries not so much
I find water and earth signs hold grudges for longer than fire signs and air signs
Just personal observations
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