House overlays vs. Aspects, which win out in synastry in the end?

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by deckedandecker on Sunday, January 31, 2021 and has 16 replies.
Is it better to have nice aspects between mars-venus, mars-pluto, pluto-venus etc or 5th and 8th house overlays for hot sex in synastry?
I have Venus trine Pluto and Pluto sextile Mars along with Mars in 8th house synastry on both sides with the Leo I’m dating 🥵

I can’t tell what is what, but whatever it is, it’s good and I hope it stays like this.


5th house I think is for fun times with a person, or more family oriented. I don’t think it’s about sexiness.
Posted by saggurl88

I have Venus trine Pluto and Pluto sextile Mars along with Mars in 8th house synastry on both sides with the Leo I’m dating 🥵

I can’t tell what is what, but whatever it is, it’s good and I hope it stays like this.


5th house I think is for fun times with a person, or more family oriented. I don’t think it’s about sexiness.
Then add to that him being a Leo and you a Sag, pornstars are going to be jealous of the sex you two are having.
Posted by deckedandecker
Posted by saggurl88

I have Venus trine Pluto and Pluto sextile Mars along with Mars in 8th house synastry on both sides with the Leo I’m dating 🥵

I can’t tell what is what, but whatever it is, it’s good and I hope it stays like this.


5th house I think is for fun times with a person, or more family oriented. I don’t think it’s about sexiness.


Then add to that him being a Leo and you a Sag, pornstars are going to be jealous of the sex you two are having.
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It’s nice to be in each other’s company and enjoy ourselves. I have no complaints 🥰
Posted by PowerLunch

Dammit who told deckanddecker DXP was fixed already?!
Lmfao probably checked every hour of every day and didn't need anybody to let them know
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Posted by PowerLunch

Dammit who told deckanddecker DXP was fixed already?!


Lmfao probably checked every hour of every day and didn't need anybody to let them know
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Like we didn't all do that 😆
I don't know I have Pluto conjunct Venus, his sun and moon are in my 8th house and my mars and Pluto are in his 8th house, my Neptune conjuncts his Pluto and his Pluto trines my Neptune. I have this with someone and my temperature rises every time I'm around him.
Posted by DonnaLibra

I don't know I have Pluto conjunct Venus, his sun and moon are in my 8th house and my mars and Pluto are in his 8th house, my Neptune conjuncts his Pluto and his Pluto trines my Neptune. I have this with someone and my temperature rises every time I'm around him.
Lawd have mercy 😳

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Posted by DonnaLibra

I don't know I have Pluto conjunct Venus, his sun and moon are in my 8th house and my mars and Pluto are in his 8th house, my Neptune conjuncts his Pluto and his Pluto trines my Neptune. I have this with someone and my temperature rises every time I'm around him.


Lawd have mercy 😳

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Posted by saggurl88
Posted by deckedandecker
Posted by saggurl88

I have Venus trine Pluto and Pluto sextile Mars along with Mars in 8th house synastry on both sides with the Leo I’m dating 🥵

I can’t tell what is what, but whatever it is, it’s good and I hope it stays like this.


5th house I think is for fun times with a person, or more family oriented. I don’t think it’s about sexiness.


Then add to that him being a Leo and you a Sag, pornstars are going to be jealous of the sex you two are having.


It’s nice to be in each other’s company and enjoy ourselves. I have no complaints 🥰
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You might be one of the very few good Sag women out there. Most have it out for Leo men and want them dead. Kudos to you for being one of the good ones, maybe give your sisters a lesson.


You can start with that trashy ho3 Kelly Loeffler and then save your worst for Ann Coulter.
Posted by DonnaLibra

I don't know I have Pluto conjunct Venus, his sun and moon are in my 8th house and my mars and Pluto are in his 8th house, my Neptune conjuncts his Pluto and his Pluto trines my Neptune. I have this with someone and my temperature rises every time I'm around him.
So both have to matter


Damn Sad


Friggin 3rd and 4th house Mayne
Depends. If the planets make numerous aspects ID say that wins. If its a huge stellium then that would win also. To me that is
Posted by deckedandecker
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by deckedandecker
Posted by saggurl88

I have Venus trine Pluto and Pluto sextile Mars along with Mars in 8th house synastry on both sides with the Leo I’m dating 🥵

I can’t tell what is what, but whatever it is, it’s good and I hope it stays like this.


5th house I think is for fun times with a person, or more family oriented. I don’t think it’s about sexiness.


Then add to that him being a Leo and you a Sag, pornstars are going to be jealous of the sex you two are having.


It’s nice to be in each other’s company and enjoy ourselves. I have no complaints 🥰


You might be one of the very few good Sag women out there. Most have it out for Leo men and want them dead. Kudos to you for being one of the good ones, maybe give your sisters a lesson.


You can start with that trashy ho3 Kelly Loeffler and then save your worst for Ann Coulter.
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Dammit Kelly l is a sag lmao


Shoulda known, she lucked her way into the position
I never know the birth time of the people I met in the past to determine house overlays.


Aspects do it for me



Natal, it’s a toss up.
Posted by deckedandecker
Posted by DonnaLibra

I don't know I have Pluto conjunct Venus, his sun and moon are in my 8th house and my mars and Pluto are in his 8th house, my Neptune conjuncts his Pluto and his Pluto trines my Neptune. I have this with someone and my temperature rises every time I'm around him.


So both have to matter


Damn Sad


Friggin 3rd and 4th house Mayne
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HELP! I have to get over this shit. What does all of this mean? What do you mean both have to matter? Both of what? Would he feel it too?
Posted by DMV

I never know the birth time of the people I met in the past to determine house overlays.


Aspects do it for me



Natal, it’s a toss up.
best aspects to have?

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