How could Pisces woman Cancer man not work?!?
This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by Sterfien on Wednesday, September 19, 2012 and has 11 replies.
Hello all! Here is my dilemma:
I was dating a Cancer male for a month and I really fell for him. Our connection was magical. He was VERY sensitive, almost hyper-senstive, but I was willing to empathize and I was very understanding. However, he said some mean things to me and became very critical; he told me I was too deep, I got under his skin, I reminded him of things his ex did which bothered him, etc. When I told him I was hurt and it seemed that he didn't like me the way he once did, he responded that I was being dramatic. He said he didn't want to discuss the situation because it was too much drama for us having only dated for a month. Thus, I suggested we be friends. I was hoping he'd put up some sort of fight. Instead he replied with, "I guess I don't understand how things escalated so quickly and abruptly, but I don't have the emotional stamina to work through it right now. You are the most genuine and good-hearted person I have met and so I'm sad and disappointed it's going in this direction." I told him the things he said had caused me to feel insecure and all I was seeking was a little reassurance, but he never responded. In fact, he hasn't communicated with me at all since this txt conversation last Wednesday. He's completely cut me off and it's really painful. I don't understand.
Insight?
Me: Pisces Sun, Gemini Moon, Taurus Rising, Venus Aries
Him: Cancer Sun, Cancer Moon, Scorpio Rising, Venus Gemini
I was dating a Cancer male for a month and I really fell for him. Our connection was magical. He was VERY sensitive, almost hyper-senstive, but I was willing to empathize and I was very understanding. However, he said some mean things to me and became very critical; he told me I was too deep, I got under his skin, I reminded him of things his ex did which bothered him, etc. When I told him I was hurt and it seemed that he didn't like me the way he once did, he responded that I was being dramatic. He said he didn't want to discuss the situation because it was too much drama for us having only dated for a month. Thus, I suggested we be friends. I was hoping he'd put up some sort of fight. Instead he replied with, "I guess I don't understand how things escalated so quickly and abruptly, but I don't have the emotional stamina to work through it right now. You are the most genuine and good-hearted person I have met and so I'm sad and disappointed it's going in this direction." I told him the things he said had caused me to feel insecure and all I was seeking was a little reassurance, but he never responded. In fact, he hasn't communicated with me at all since this txt conversation last Wednesday. He's completely cut me off and it's really painful. I don't understand.
Insight?
Me: Pisces Sun, Gemini Moon, Taurus Rising, Venus Aries
Him: Cancer Sun, Cancer Moon, Scorpio Rising, Venus Gemini
What? Is everyone in here like .... 12
You win some, you lose some .... grow some fucking dignity and step away, instead of clinging to bad feelings.
I know, I know .. that's just blowing words out of my ass .. because surely you would wish to continue prodding him for more pain rather than realize that while life happens, often two people aren't meant to be a couple
You win some, you lose some .... grow some fucking dignity and step away, instead of clinging to bad feelings.
I know, I know .. that's just blowing words out of my ass .. because surely you would wish to continue prodding him for more pain rather than realize that while life happens, often two people aren't meant to be a couple
You're right P-Angel, but I understood we weren't meant to be together in a romantic sense and so I ended our relationship. The part I didn't understand is why he wouldn't want to be friends and why he cut off all communication. I just wanted to know if this was a typical Cancer w/ Venus in Gemini trait. I've dated other Cancer men and we've remained friends...
don't PM me .. here is a PM from you
So THAT helps explain your blunt and rather cut throat responses...
I will expose it every time. If you have somethign to say to me, say it in public view.
So THAT helps explain your blunt and rather cut throat responses...
I will expose it every time. If you have somethign to say to me, say it in public view.
Wow P-Angel. And you didn't show my whole message. You obviously have a bad attitude and now I'm seeing your Cancer moon! I sent you a personal message because I appreciated your response and I was trying to connect with you. You need to work on some humility. I would expect more maturity from a 53 year old woman...
LOL......Sounds like P-Angel needs to get laid...
Haha! I like you, LiquidAir. Same page.
He sounds like a boring loser lol...sad but I as a Pisces wouldn't want to be with someone who didn't like deep thinking...
He's not over his ex clearly by his expressive distaste of habits you portrayed similar to his ex...
Run when a man starts putting you down or criticising before you even got started...pfft...come on Pisces he's no fun to begin with...
I feel Cancer men cannot handle a Pisces deep emotions very much ...really I think they see it as too thick and run at the slightest heavy stuff...
A Pisces on the other hand fits right in...will embrace the deepness of someone it is how they connect spiritually with someone...
He's not over his ex clearly by his expressive distaste of habits you portrayed similar to his ex...
Run when a man starts putting you down or criticising before you even got started...pfft...come on Pisces he's no fun to begin with...
I feel Cancer men cannot handle a Pisces deep emotions very much ...really I think they see it as too thick and run at the slightest heavy stuff...
A Pisces on the other hand fits right in...will embrace the deepness of someone it is how they connect spiritually with someone...
Haha, thanks piranha. I'm starting to see that he is/was just a dick. I'm so over it now! ...well, almost 
I allowed fantasy to get in the way of reality. *learning lessons*
I allowed fantasy to get in the way of reality. *learning lessons*hi guys im a gemini/cancer sun and cancer moon .. dont worry guys, we feel the same to u.. the question is which came first?
if u fall first, you will be lonely.. but if we fall and u has BF we are sad also
Its a Tie
its really hard to believe u can find another...or there is better ... i know that
its the worst thing is the world............
we are the same just like other zodiac....
if u fall first, you will be lonely.. but if we fall and u has BF we are sad also
Its a Tie
its really hard to believe u can find another...or there is better ... i know that
its the worst thing is the world............
we are the same just like other zodiac....
i belong to cancer because my sensitive part is my boobies LOL
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\you know what, i have experienced that. there is a pisces girl i met 2 years ago. but i didnt really love her that time... i was so relaxed when arround her. but u know what??? i regret it .. now she has a bf \and i have to wait for our time and we cancer dont feel afraid to show how we feel if we are really interested....
LOL\
\you know what, i have experienced that. there is a pisces girl i met 2 years ago. but i didnt really love her that time... i was so relaxed when arround her. but u know what??? i regret it .. now she has a bf \and i have to wait for our time and we cancer dont feel afraid to show how we feel if we are really interested....
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