how do Cancer feel with No Closure ?

If you got no closure from a relationship how would you feel? Would it always be in the back of your head?

It certainly is difficult to move forward without it, but sometimes you simply have no choice, ya know?

My bestfriend is a cancer and she's been thru this several times. To put it plainly, she never truly gets over the person without getting closure. She becomes extremely depressed and withdrawn. Then she will suck it up and go on living life…but still hurts and wonders deep down about her role in the break up.

Cancer's don't get closure, regardless of how communicative and respectful the other person has been ... once their claws have dug in, they can never let go to look forward, so they have no recourse except to twist sideways

It must suck to be them

I need closure.

But sometimes... You just don't get that.

I had a Leo dump me once, long distance... The week before he was talking about proposing to me. Sucked so bad never getting closure.

I used to be the one to literally beg after a relationship. Send novels of why you should reconsider lol

Now, I'll fight like hell when it's ending (need to work on that) but once I hear the words "it's over" I'm ghost.

I just tell myself that if they want you, they'll come get you .
But I recently was dumped by someone who I work with daily, who still talks to me daily... A *Capricorn* mind you, lol But you know, I can't talk about us or get emotional, so that the most awesome version of not getting closure lol (sarcasm) to have what you want in your face every day BUT not able to say... Why did you break up with me if you're gonna seek me out every day?! You obviously need/desire me in some way. Lol

But we had some rekindling last week, oddly gave me a lot of closure. Lol but.... He's still talking to me a bit .. Idk!

Caps/cancers what the hell is up with us? Lol

Posted by Smilebhappy0715
I need closure.

But sometimes... You just don't get that.

I had a Leo dump me once, long distance... The week before he was talking about proposing to me. Sucked so bad never getting closure.

I used to be the one to literally beg after a relationship. Send novels of why you should reconsider lol

Now, I'll fight like hell when it's ending (need to work on that) but once I hear the words "it's over" I'm ghost.

I just tell myself that if they want you, they'll come get you .
But I recently was dumped by someone who I work with daily, who still talks to me daily... A *Capricorn* mind you, lol But you know, I can't talk about us or get emotional, so that the most awesome version of not getting closure lol (sarcasm) to have what you want in your face every day BUT not able to say... Why did you break up with me if you're gonna seek me out every day?! You obviously need/desire me in some way. Lol

But we had some rekindling last week, oddly gave me a lot of closure. Lol but.... He's still talking to me a bit .. Idk!

Caps/cancers what the hell is up with us? Lol

Crazy because im a capricorn my ex is a cancer and we got into a huge fight and had a bad ending no closure. He has tried to contact me multiple times and for the last three months I have given him the silent treatment just completely disappeared. He called me a few days ago and I picked up lol... what is the draw to us caps for you cancers ?? Lol

With mine it was just like an instant connection. And all of them that I know are hilarious and I love a funny guy. Haha and they're intelligent, mind simulating.. But above all, he gave me a sense of security like no other. I truly had no doubt in us or him for 90% of our relationship... (I posted our whole story on the Capricorn board if you're interested) he was so sweet and romantic... Talked about our future so much BUT

Apparently I didn't read up on Caps very well.
You know us Cancers are emotional beings.
The first time him and I met... I was crying lol
I made the mistake of criticizing his sense of humor as it can be a bit politically incorrect and let me tell you.... The second the criticism came out of my mouth, I could see a whole shift in him. He kept making it about everything else.. But... I know. Lol

Then our the last month leading into our break-up was a lot of silence from him or minimum effort to keep me around while he's deciding to dump me and a lot of confrontational, emotional episodes from me.

But... I mean he talked to me daily at work... But Oddly.... Him and I started talking outside of work.. Doing a but of rekindling within the last few days as well.... Lol WEIRD.

He had a lot of other stuff happening in his life too... (going through a nasty divorce with kids)

Bit not but lol

Posted by GC01
When it's done it's done, I don't need to hear someone's excuse for why they suck because I know I can't be the problem. That is the kind of stuff I tell myself to get over those situations.

Very humble ...... lmao

Posted by GC01

Posted by TxOgal

Posted by GC01
When it's done it's done, I don't need to hear someone's excuse for why they suck because I know I can't be the problem. That is the kind of stuff I tell myself to get over those situations.

Very humble ...... lmao

Probably my Leo Venus fault.
And my gem merc help me think mind over matter.

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Yeah leo venus .... Thats why probably ... Im surrounded with cancerians with leo venus