How do I get my Taurus male back? Libra girl
This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by Isabella50 on Tuesday, April 2, 2013 and has 1 replies.
Hi everyone,
I know this topic has come up before but my situation is very specific and really need advice from other taurus
males and any girls who've gone through this.
We had been together for just over a year, moved in together. Our love to begin with was very passionate and he
always told me I was the only girl for him and that he had never felt like this about anyone. Anyway, we fought a lot, a lot of which was my fault.
I found it hard to trust him because of his past cheating ways and he also came out of a very long term relationship straight to me.
We discussed this many times and reassured me that he was ready. On many occasions I was very hard on him and questioned him and had high expectations
of him to show more affection and be more open emotionally. He would try but the same thing would happen again and we
would fight about it. On many occasions he told me I was pushing him away and to calm down.
The situation finally came to a head when he bumped into his ex. He suddenly changed and said he couldn't continue
with me, fighting all the time and being stressed. He assured me it wasn't bout his ex but he did miss their friendship. I do believe him here.
Now he is being hot and cold. One minute he says that he only loves me as a friend and not romantically. Then he is all nice and says he
wants us to rebuild our relationship by us separating and starting as friends again and seeing what happens. He is moving out and is staying elsewhere
now. He then is soo cold towards me and rude and says that we will never work and I should have no expectations. Now he has contacted me to have dinner a couple of days later.
He said he really wants space and needs to sort himself out. I notice that when I don't contact him for a couple of days he is all nice and wants
to see me. What is going on?? I said I still have feelings for him and can't just be his best buddy instantly. I have tried telling him how I feel and
that I'm happy to give him space and then for us to try, but that I just can't be his friend.
What is your advice? Should I leave him and meet him when he wants to? Of should I just cut him out? I really think there's potential but
I don't know how I can convince him or prove to him. I'm ready to make change...
I know this topic has come up before but my situation is very specific and really need advice from other taurus
males and any girls who've gone through this.
We had been together for just over a year, moved in together. Our love to begin with was very passionate and he
always told me I was the only girl for him and that he had never felt like this about anyone. Anyway, we fought a lot, a lot of which was my fault.
I found it hard to trust him because of his past cheating ways and he also came out of a very long term relationship straight to me.
We discussed this many times and reassured me that he was ready. On many occasions I was very hard on him and questioned him and had high expectations
of him to show more affection and be more open emotionally. He would try but the same thing would happen again and we
would fight about it. On many occasions he told me I was pushing him away and to calm down.
The situation finally came to a head when he bumped into his ex. He suddenly changed and said he couldn't continue
with me, fighting all the time and being stressed. He assured me it wasn't bout his ex but he did miss their friendship. I do believe him here.
Now he is being hot and cold. One minute he says that he only loves me as a friend and not romantically. Then he is all nice and says he
wants us to rebuild our relationship by us separating and starting as friends again and seeing what happens. He is moving out and is staying elsewhere
now. He then is soo cold towards me and rude and says that we will never work and I should have no expectations. Now he has contacted me to have dinner a couple of days later.
He said he really wants space and needs to sort himself out. I notice that when I don't contact him for a couple of days he is all nice and wants
to see me. What is going on?? I said I still have feelings for him and can't just be his best buddy instantly. I have tried telling him how I feel and
that I'm happy to give him space and then for us to try, but that I just can't be his friend.
What is your advice? Should I leave him and meet him when he wants to? Of should I just cut him out? I really think there's potential but
I don't know how I can convince him or prove to him. I'm ready to make change...
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