How do you resist temptation?

So, the sag guy I was dating I cut him off, we haven't spoke in a week, and he sends me a picture of his private goodies, no caption with it, just a picture. I didn't respond to it, god knows I wanted too! But I didn't respond. I still want him to be in my life. I cut him off because I wanted him to think about me and re-evaluate how much I mean to him and come at me with a different approach. I told him how I feel and what I want already. The sex is amazing! Its a high that we both are fiens too, that's not lacking. He sent me the picture as bait obviously, but I don't know what to do? I haven't responded back and i want to see him, but I don't know what move I should make next? I'm a Libra btw, Sag men make me weak lol ughh! what to do, what to do?

The guy basically thinks so highly of himself that he believes sending you a pic of his junk will make you come back right away.......... It'd be a complete turn off for me haha! But I'd say if you don't expect a long-lasting relationship (from what I understand, and I might be wrong), then why resist something you want?

Posted by Galyn
But I'd say if you don't expect a long-lasting relationship (from what I understand, and I might be wrong), then why resist something you want?

And this turns me on, the way how Aqua's brain works.

Fight fire with fire, take a nude self and label it "See this You ain't getting any until you answer me buddy"

Posted by Galyn
The guy basically thinks so highly of himself that he believes sending you a pic of his junk will make you come back right away.......... It'd be a complete turn off for me haha! But I'd say if you don't expect a long-lasting relationship (from what I understand, and I might be wrong), then why resist something you want?

He's extremely confident! That's the annoying part that he knows that he makes me weak. I want it, but I'm not trying to reward the stuff he does that I don't like.

Posted by aquasnoz
Fight fire with fire, take a nude self and label it "See this You ain't getting any until you answer me buddy"

See I wouldn't do that because, he's confident enough to not let that form of manipulation affect him. So I would be putting myself out there for nothing

Go on google and look up "BIG DICKS".

You will quickly forget about that puny thing.

Posted by GiftfromVenus

Posted by Galyn
The guy basically thinks so highly of himself that he believes sending you a pic of his junk will make you come back right away.......... It'd be a complete turn off for me haha! But I'd say if you don't expect a long-lasting relationship (from what I understand, and I might be wrong), then why resist something you want?

He's extremely confident! That's the annoying part that he knows that he makes me weak. I want it, but I'm not trying to reward the stuff he does that I don't like.

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1) if you're just horny because of him but don't really want him, there's always porn.
2) I don't see how being attracted by a guy is being weak...? Remember he's the one desperate enough/cocky enough (pun intended) to send you this to try to get you back, so if you think like that, he's just as weak as you are.
3) Why don't you just tell him "you're way too confident and I don't like it. Now let's get naked." But again, this only works if you don't expect too much out of this relationship. If the sex is great and that's all you want from him, go for it! If you want his heart, too, you might first ask him to send you a pic of it...

If you figure it out, let me know. I just got invited over to a married woman's house for lunch. Seems innocent enough, but then she's saying ... don't park in front of the house ... god, she's not even offering her body, but that's all I really want to eat for lunch. She's just teasing me, for years now, and I like it and I can't stay away.

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Posted by Galyn
But I'd say if you don't expect a long-lasting relationship (from what I understand, and I might be wrong), then why resist something you want?

And this turns me on, the way how Aqua's brain works.

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😄 It's a very simple way of thinking: you want it? Go for it.

I've known a few saggies over the years and I can tell you whatever outer confidence they have they are just as fragile as anyone else. This isn't bashing Sags at all but hoping you can see that to overcome this powerhold he's got you under.

Out of curiosity, what's your sun and mars?

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Posted by Galyn
But I'd say if you don't expect a long-lasting relationship (from what I understand, and I might be wrong), then why resist something you want?

And this turns me on, the way how Aqua's brain works.

😄 It's a very simple way of thinking: you want it? Go for it.

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But I guarantee if it was that you thinking then I bet you will change your mind when you reach his doorstep and walks back home.

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Posted by GiftfromVenus

Posted by Galyn
The guy basically thinks so highly of himself that he believes sending you a pic of his junk will make you come back right away.......... It'd be a complete turn off for me haha! But I'd say if you don't expect a long-lasting relationship (from what I understand, and I might be wrong), then why resist something you want?

He's extremely confident! That's the annoying part that he knows that he makes me weak. I want it, but I'm not trying to reward the stuff he does that I don't like.

1) if you're just horny because of him but don't really want him, there's always porn.
2) I don't see how being attracted by a guy is being weak...? Remember he's the one desperate enough/cocky enough (pun intended) to send you this to try to get you back, so if you think like that, he's just as weak as you are.
3) Why don't you just tell him "you're way too confident and I don't like it. Now let's get naked." But again, this only works if you don't expect too much out of this relationship. If the sex is great and that's all you want from him, go for it! If you want his heart, too, you might first ask him to send you a pic of it...

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LOl I think his confidence is one of the reasons I'm so attracted to him, I love a secure man, who knows his worth. I'm not saying I'm weak because I'm attracted to him so much, I'm weak because I give in to him, I gave him everything he asks for, which isnt good. Its not good to be an enabler to bad behavior. I'm trying to break that spell.

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Posted by Galyn
But I'd say if you don't expect a long-lasting relationship (from what I understand, and I might be wrong), then why resist something you want?

And this turns me on, the way how Aqua's brain works.

😄 It's a very simple way of thinking: you want it? Go for it.

But I guarantee if it was that you thinking then I bet you will change your mind when you reach his doorstep and walks back home.

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What do you mean exactly? If I was in her situation?
To be honest if a guy is trying to get me back, he's the one moving his ass over to my place, not the other way around. Yes I'm pretty lazy.

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The guy basically thinks so highly of himself that he believes sending you a pic of his junk will make you come back right away.......... It'd be a complete turn off for me haha! But I'd say if you don't expect a long-lasting relationship (from what I understand, and I might be wrong), then why resist something you want?

He's extremely confident! That's the annoying part that he knows that he makes me weak. I want it, but I'm not trying to reward the stuff he does that I don't like.

1) if you're just horny because of him but don't really want him, there's always porn.
2) I don't see how being attracted by a guy is being weak...? Remember he's the one desperate enough/cocky enough (pun intended) to send you this to try to get you back, so if you think like that, he's just as weak as you are.
3) Why don't you just tell him "you're way too confident and I don't like it. Now let's get naked." But again, this only works if you don't expect too much out of this relationship. If the sex is great and that's all you want from him, go for it! If you want his heart, too, you might first ask him to send you a pic of it...

LOl I think his confidence is one of the reasons I'm so attracted to him, I love a secure man, who knows his worth. I'm not saying I'm weak because I'm attracted to him so much, I'm weak because I give in to him, I gave him everything he asks for, which isnt good. Its not good to be an enabler to bad behavior. I'm trying to break that spell.

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But I still don't understand if you want a real relationship with this guy or not! And I think it would change a lot about how you should react...

Posted by aquasnoz
I've known a few saggies over the years and I can tell you whatever outer confidence they have they are just as fragile as anyone else. This isn't bashing Sags at all but hoping you can see that to overcome this powerhold he's got you under.

Out of curiosity, what's your sun and mars?

I know he's a fragile boy under all that bravado, I wish I could beat up his ego and hug and kiss that fragile little boy underneath. But unfortunately there's 24 hour lockdown security around him lol My sun sign is Libra and my mars is Virgo

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The guy basically thinks so highly of himself that he believes sending you a pic of his junk will make you come back right away.......... It'd be a complete turn off for me haha! But I'd say if you don't expect a long-lasting relationship (from what I understand, and I might be wrong), then why resist something you want?

He's extremely confident! That's the annoying part that he knows that he makes me weak. I want it, but I'm not trying to reward the stuff he does that I don't like.

1) if you're just horny because of him but don't really want him, there's always porn.
2) I don't see how being attracted by a guy is being weak...? Remember he's the one desperate enough/cocky enough (pun intended) to send you this to try to get you back, so if you think like that, he's just as weak as you are.
3) Why don't you just tell him "you're way too confident and I don't like it. Now let's get naked." But again, this only works if you don't expect too much out of this relationship. If the sex is great and that's all you want from him, go for it! If you want his heart, too, you might first ask him to send you a pic of it...

LOl I think his confidence is one of the reasons I'm so attracted to him, I love a secure man, who knows his worth. I'm not saying I'm weak because I'm attracted to him so much, I'm weak because I give in to him, I gave him everything he asks for, which isnt good. Its not good to be an enabler to bad behavior. I'm trying to break that spell.

But I still don't understand if you want a real relationship with this guy or not! And I think it would change a lot about how you should react...

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I want him to be my companion, I'm not ready for a relationship with him, but I definitely want the exclusivity of a relationship without the scary committment

relationship = committment!!

Posted by feb16aqua
If you want those goodies, write back! He's looking to bait you and open the line of communication but beware...sounds like he just wants ass.

He treats our sex life with more respect than just "ass", he always has, after the sex part is over we hang out, go out to eat and etc. But he knows I can't resist the sex. It's amazing! I just want to be exclusive with him thats why I'm trying to hold out, cuz I'm not sure if it's just going to lead back to the same thing as always or he's going to have something new to tell me.

Posted by BlueSandCacoon
Go on google and look up "BIG DICKS".

Then copy one of the images and send it to your Sag with the captation: That's what I've got now! My dick is bigger than yours! They loooove competition!