How often do you see/communicate with your lover?

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i asked this question because i went out with my girlfriends last night and, while we were talking relationships, i found that not all of us require or even expect daily contact while some of us think it is very important. some of us only need to see our boyfriends once a week as opposed to two of my girlfriends that are cool with the every other week for a weekend.
my cancer girlfriend doesn't require as much communication.
my virgo girlfriend does but won't tell him that she does and gets frustrated.
bottom line, there must be some astrological connection and i am curious to see if there is.
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We live really close & study in the same university.

Sometimes we see each other almost everyday of the week, but there are other times when I just see him once a week. The longest time we have spent apart is when one of us goes on a vacation trip.

We speak to each other daily, he's the first person I text in the morning & the last person I say goodbye to. We text each other constantly throughout the day & we both call each other often.

I am a pisces and he is a capricorn.
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Hi RainDancer88! I don't know if your question was directed to me but here is my answer:

We have been together for 2 years now, I'm 20 years old and he is 24... In some way what you said about text messaging ruining the romance might be true.
In my case, I'm very artistic and I love drawing, mostly abstract stuff & doodles, so I love to make him cool letters all the time and I spend hours, even days, making him those letters, I put a lot of effort in them & he keeps them all. Even now he still haves all the letters I wrote to him from the very beggining >.<
I also love writing and I express much better trough the written word than the spoken word. So letters are a nice way to express him how I feel about him.

He is not so artsy but he haves written some letters for me. Not as much as I do but he has. Although his letters are not very frequent, he haves other romantic details that make up for it.

🙂
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Posted by msX
i asked this question because i went out with my girlfriends last night and, while we were talking relationships, i found that not all of us require or even expect daily contact while some of us think it is very important. some of us only need to see our boyfriends once a week as opposed to two of my girlfriends that are cool with the every other week for a weekend.
my cancer girlfriend doesn't require as much communication.
my virgo girlfriend does but won't tell him that she does and gets frustrated.
bottom line, there must be some astrological connection and i am curious to see if there is.



Communication and compromise within the relationship. If you don't have that you have nothing.
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in moderation. i was with someone who wanted to text me and call me everyday. granted i could only see him on the weekends but it just got so suffocating... probably because in hindsight i wasn't into him as much. i was always slow to respond and he would get really insecure about it.. saying he starts to wonder if i'm talking or seeing other men when he doesn't hear from me. i hate talking on the phone and texting is just too much effort. i'm currently single (go figure) so can't tell you what i'd be like now with another partner.i'm a virgo.