how to know if a virgo man is inlove

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by libradimple on Saturday, March 13, 2010 and has 12 replies.
virgo guys out there!! and other woman who had discovered that your virgo man is inlove with you...... please let me know if this virgo man is inlove with me...this virgo man of mine is very practical... he is not demonstrative... he is not expressive with his feelings... im dying because of this...but there are times that i feel that he shows me support with my endeavor... he even give advices to me on how to things... he criticizes me though i know its for my own good...i never had a mushy experience with except that we tease each other a lot and we tickle each other... sort of that thing...i really dont know how to figure out... i dont want to be left hanging.... its been a year... and we are still close to each other but never did he open up to me about our feelings for each other.
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I've had a relationship with a virgo man for almost 2 years and all I wanna tell you from my experience is that they are the most loyal creatures when they're committed. Also they don't make the first move mostly. My ex never let me know about his feelings. I had to really take a chance and go forward and tell him the truth. And when I did, I got a one liner reply - I love you too. That's it. And I was jumping with joy. This guy stuck to me through thick and thin and was very passionate too, something that Virgo's don't show off in public. They don;t like public displays of affection.
I woud only wanna tell you the best way to find out and proceed is to let your virgo man know how you feel. Trust me. that way you'd know what he feels for you and you'll be in a better position to make further decisions.
Best of luck
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hello sonya....
Thank you for sharing your experience... well i am really confuse whether should i confess to him my feelings or not...im just afraid that it might scare him away... we are really close... he supports me with all my endeavors,, whether be it in work or family.... im just not sure if he feels the same way too for me.... im not being affectionate or very mushy with him but i see to it that i show i care for him.... i trust him... and that i always see to it that im helping him with his stuff whenever he needs me.... my friends and the people around me says that he likes me... but im not sure though.... oh im so inlove with him sonya.... what things is your boyfriend doing with you when u have not confessed to him yet?? can u share with me more of your experiences with him??
THanks a lot!
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DyTrin
Elo..... he havent slept with me... but base on his personality....he is not the type of guy who sleeps with other girls..... he is a man of chastity and very conservative......... are we really friends only?
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dy!!
i really do like the guy........ whoa...... its just that im afraid upto when will i be patient for him..... what are the things that makes u feel attracted to someone? or what does the do to you to make you fall for her as well?? ooooooh.....hard
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Good question, but is there really "just a simple answer" I say no, not just for a astrological sign, but for the individual as well..........

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yah right...... ur really right......... i'll just to wait till i can.......
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thanks for the advise... though i think i just cant do it now... tell how i feel...just have to earn courage first before i could speak up what im feeling for him.... but why wont virgos tell immediately if dey like someone?? do dey really have to analyze everything first??? ooooooooh dat sucks
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dy! thanks for that... but you were married to ur libra for almost 20years what happend? well.... 20 years is quite a long time to be of waste... i hope it would not happen to me... i want to love this virgo man of mine for the rest of my life..... but all i really want to know is dat.... will all of these be worth it or not.... and what will i do to make him love me eternally.......????
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I am going thru the same kind of. But except i was talking to my virgo since march & we started talking & day by day he told me that he is liking me a lot because i am different. & i told him i felt the same. So things got stronger from there. He told me i was important to him & that if i couldnt see him he would see me. We live in dofferent states. Well in april i went to go see him. & things were great in the beginning he seemed so shy around me. But we found that we had a lot in common in food,music,clothes,music,etc. So he would seem to get close to me then pull away.? He cooked for me. Opened doors,perfect gentlemen. His parents liked me. Well after a week went by he started working a lot. His boss gave him more hours. This was like his second week of work. & he started to get more detached. He said for me to go home because of bad timing. He said that he does like me,but he wants to get to know me better before making a decision. I completly understand that i told him that i wasnt rushing him because it never works out if things are rushed. So the day before i left we sat down to talk. I told him that i'd wait for him no matter how long because i wanted him in my life. He said that he would like for us to get to know eachother better & that he wants me to be apart of his near future. That him & his parents wants me to come back. He told me when the time is right i may return with him working & his parents & all. That he is a man of his word. He was always blunt no matter of it was good or bad. Thats what i like because he is honest & its hard to find that now a days. Well it's been 3 months going on 4 next month since we last saw eachother. But when i had left in May i texted a few times letting him that i was worried because he wasnt replying....so finally the day before my birthday he finally responded & i said sry for calling him while he was closing at his job. He said its ok. Then i told him i dont wanna bother you,may you text me when you get home? He said ok. So 2 hours later no text,then he said he was wasted if he can talk to me the next day. & i told him so much for getting in touch with you. He said ever since i left he works 6 days a week & that he was sry for not answering but he's been really busy. That was the last time i spoken to him & this was on May 22nd. After i texted him again..but not everyday ..maybe every other week because i dont wanna annoy him. & i called & left voicemails & he hasnt contacted me til this day.
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& i told him if he doesnt wanna talk to me anymore to tell me,but i also told him i missed him. Thing is i'm so inlove with him. I learned alot from him. & i need him. I'm scared i will never get the chance to tell him how i feel if he hasnt answered me. I know he has never lied to me so,should i doubt his words? It's not rare that i do this for any guy. But for him everything fits my puzzle. I was in alot of bad relationships,abuse,rapes,cheat,etc. Since i was 15 . I am 20 now. & i told him i never had a guy like you before ,so its weird. When i know i deserve it. I'm afraid to speak up because i let ppl. Control me & if i say something about how i feel ,idk if it's a bad thing. When he always told me to tell him whats going on. Im scared to lose him & not having that chance. Im not a patient but i learned how to be with him. He tought me alot. Which i am greatful for. We are two very different personalities but i learn to except him for who he is. I wish i knew what he is thinking. I want him to except me for who i am. Cause i suffer from manufactured fear. I make stuff in my head thats not true & not gonna happen. & makes me worried. He balances me. & i am a Gemini. Any advice? They say the one who waits patiently comes most successful. I've waited for many ppl. Guys that werent worth it,but i know he is. I just dont know what to do Crying
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P.S. we did sleep in the same bed but that is it. i mean i wasn't looking to have sex with him anyways. i'm not that kind of girl. but he hadn't kissed me either when i was there. funny thing is he said he was going to make the first move. now i wish that i have Sad
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