How to make virgo man want me

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by gendut on Wednesday, December 9, 2020 and has 9 replies.
I'm pisces (28) sun and venus, his (30) chart is full of Virgo.

We online dating and know he is just playing. I tried to be sincere,then he tried to open up. It's only 2-3 months, and he's been always rejecting me . But last 3weeks,he said he considering our future etc. Is just due corona and other things we can't meet, and I'm as pisces always overwhelmed with my feelings missing him.

And one day (last week), he just closed his heart again, and suddenly said it's not working. I didn't accepted that and we arguing a lot for couple days, but his mind is fixed. On weekend I went to him uninvited, and we talked and argued again. Finally I said I accept his decision, but I need time. So on my way to home and that day and also next, he texting me a lot again as usual.


I still like him so so much.

Will a virgo changes his mind? Because he is still friendly with me. I mean Ofcourse I'll not talking about feelings for couple months, but is there a chance?

Or if he fixed that we have no future together, it is what it is?
Posted by dOpehEad

He has a real life girlfriend, otherwise, what's the point of ending an online relationship? If you want him to like you, you have to be physically present in his life.
No he don't have any girlfriend. In this last 3mos we have intense communication. I'd spend days at his and can reach him anytime I want. But yeah he keeps flirting online.
Listen Virgo men are pretty dumb when it comes to women...they are not devoted to the act of love in the same way a woman understands as well.


And I’m going to hurt you with this next bit


The mans astrology sign doesn’t matter. It all boils down to one thing only, if he wanted to...he would.


If he wanted to, he would. If he wanted you, he would. If he wants to, he would have.


It’s got nothing to do with you. It’s not destiny. It’s not going to change if you change yourself entirely. It’s not going to magically change because you’ve figured out how to please them or manipulate them.


If you don’t learn this right here and now, you’ll spend years obsessing over someone that will not love you in return.


If you have to change every aspect of yourself to figure out a way for that person to love you, you’re basically losing yourself for the sake of them possibly caring for you enough to be with you. Is it worth the price?


You can't make a virgo man nor any [insert sign] man do anything they don't wanna do... Point blank. Virgos don't jump all in like Pisces do...we think in logic not feelings despite having them...this is our process. If he's having doubts it's probably due to your emotional outbursts...we don't handle that well especially if we hardly know you...same with the arguments. You're way too into him and need to take some steps back...it's freaking him out to the point where he's like long term with you is going to be disruptive to his life.

Especially at y'alls ages ...too damn old.


Chill.... seriously.
Posted by Sailor_Mars

Heeey fellow Venus Pisces. I never saw another one here. It is a very retarded position, and don't mind the ones telling You not to be a doormat...it is in our stars. Hahahaha but seriously You have to protect Your Venus Pisces from You. Control it.
Thank you venus fellow. I really hate this placements of mine . I hope I can be meanier, not so sensitive, and be someone who leave first.

Everyone just so overwhelmed with my kind of love and cares, doesn't mean I deadly in love, it's just how I show I care, but it's always too much too early and scared them away ,but I just don't know any other way .
Posted by LostinmyMind11

You can't make a virgo man nor any [insert sign] man do anything they don't wanna do... Point blank. Virgos don't jump all in like Pisces do...we think in logic not feelings despite having them...this is our process. If he's having doubts it's probably due to your emotional outbursts...we don't handle that well especially if we hardly know you...same with the arguments. You're way too into him and need to take some steps back...it's freaking him out to the point where he's like long term with you is going to be disruptive to his life.

Especially at y'alls ages ...too damn old.


Chill.... seriously.
Thank you.

I know. I just want to know,if now really really over, or if we just be friends for long it might be a way?

Because he do keeps changing his mind last time, but this time is kinda fix.
Posted by Romzz

Listen Virgo men are pretty dumb when it comes to women...they are not devoted to the act of love in the same way a woman understands as well.


And I’m going to hurt you with this next bit


The mans astrology sign doesn’t matter. It all boils down to one thing only, if he wanted to...he would.


If he wanted to, he would. If he wanted you, he would. If he wants to, he would have.


It’s got nothing to do with you. It’s not destiny. It’s not going to change if you change yourself entirely. It’s not going to magically change because you’ve figured out how to please them or manipulate them.


If you don’t learn this right here and now, you’ll spend years obsessing over someone that will not love you in return.


If you have to change every aspect of yourself to figure out a way for that person to love you, you’re basically losing yourself for the sake of them possibly caring for you enough to be with you. Is it worth the price?
I know, I understand it.

But for once I met someone that really cares about my feelings. That always see me in the eyes and try to cheer me up.

How can I want to let go such a man. That is why I want him.

And me as pisces is very flexible, is not I lose myself, is being suitable for someone I really like.
Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll

Be someone he can fix. They love that shit. It’s that Pisces/Virgo axis. They can’t help themselves.
I tried tho 😅 He want me to get healthier. And I tell him I need him in some aspects in my life . 😬😬😬
Posted by blackphvse

Too much drama for someone you've never met. Look at your first sentence...

"We online dating and know he is just playing." If you know he is just playing, why you trying so hard to win him over and putting all this stress and heartache on yourself. Don't do that to yourself.


We met. I mean about online dating is we met online and directly hookup.(I know when we hookup at first meet, guy only want sex, bo more) I've been in his place like every 2 weeks (because is 3hours driving) and stays for couple days. But last month he is very sick,that is why we didn't met for a month.

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