I don't know what to do. Please help

I'm a scorpio, my man is a cancer. We had a fight yesterday which stemmed from my jealousy, and he broke up with me because he said he couldn't take it anymore. I apologized and accepted that I know I have a problem and I will be willing to work on it. He said he's run out of patience and has quit trying.

He seems very serious but I really want him back. Usually when something like this happens (twice before), he says it's over then he tells me to leave him alone, but no more than 2 days later he always comes back. This time it seems different. His bestfriend told me it's no different than the other times, give it time and he'll come around, but I just don't know.

I spent all day yesterday apologizing. I asked him if we can meet and talk it out, and he said no, his mind is made up. I then I saw messages from him from about 2am this morning checking up on me and asking if I was still willing to meet.

I just cried my eyes out and haven't eaten since it happened yesterday. I do not want this to be the end. Advice please?

Take a deep breath and try to regain your composure.i don't know why Scorp women get so jealous ,your sign is among the strongest, sexiest people in the world. If you get another chance just be strong and confident, a Cancer is a watery sign and needs someone with a backbone , he probably needs someone to lean on who will not break. You probably know by now that Cancer/Scorp is a good match , just take it easy on eachother !good luck

"I spent all day yesterday apologizing. I asked him if we can meet and talk it out, and he said no, his mind is made up. I then I saw messages from him from about 2am this morning checking up on me and asking if I was still willing to meet.

I just cried my eyes out and haven't eaten since it happened yesterday. I do not want this to be the end. Advice please?"


Figure out why you lack trust in men and change it. Apologizing is lip service. Back up those words with actions.

Was it over jealousy? or because you are a bitch?

Posted by tiki33
I sense a dumping coming your way soon. He's not your husband, he's free to cancel because he has his own life to tend. I was surprised he didn't dump you after that verbal ass whooping you gave him all day.

Making a man feel guilty is the easiest way to get dumped. You owe him an apology for being a mean manipulative Bitch. The only thing he owe you is a relationship dump.

someone saw this coming... I'm surprised you didn't

I'm a Scorpio and I was getting to know a cancer man. He had the history of being with a women and then dropping them ASAP. We began to get along so great, told me I was quite different compared to other females. Made such effort to form a bond with both my brother and mom. At one time my mom heard very bad things about him so I had approached him About it. He freaked out and that specific night he appeared at the house to speak with my mom. Awhile after rumors continued I had told him and with no hesitation he said I think we should just be friends. I was so upset but I left it alone. The next day he called said sorry for thinking impulsively, but that he does want to be with me and give it another chance. Then this past Friday we had gone out for a walk. I remember when he got back home he called me to say good night. I had asked him a question if he felt pressured by me in any which way. He said yes about the age difference since he is older and the fact of what was said about him. I left it alone that night. The next morning he had text me good morning my luv and all I said good morning. When he called me he took the good morning as something horrible. He had asked if I had slept the night before and I said no and he said neither did he. He said he was thinking a lot about the question I had asked him. That's when I told him he is afraid of commitment hence why he keeps cutting women off. I also told him he sees that Im a good woman that he sees and fears that treatment and doesn't know how to cope with it. He said I was right. Then he told me what was I thinking. I said that why should I open up to him if eventually I feel he is going to walk away. He told me that I had strong thinking. From there all was good even said say hello to your friends and good by my luv. This was sat. At 3pm. Since that conversation I hadn't heard from him. The rest of the day. Then Sunday came and nothing as well. I finally got in touch with him at 5pm. Had sent him two text messages. One message on fb. Ad one phone call. He didn't respond to. Anything. Finally on Monday he text me saying he had been thinking a lot, and that he thinks he is not ready for a relationship at the moment, I told hi. Can you at least call me, he said I will, and never did. Today is Wednesday and he disappeared like nothing. I don't know what to do. I mean he made such effort with me, even made effort to be exposed with my friends and family, told me so much and then he just walked away. What

Posted by Sunflower3

We had a fight yesterday which stemmed from my jealousy, and he broke up with me because he said he couldn't take it anymore.

I apologized and accepted that I know I have a problem and I will be willing to work on it. He said he's run out of patience and has quit trying.

I spent all day yesterday apologizing. I asked him if we can meet and talk it out, and he said no, his mind is made up.

I just cried my eyes out and haven't eaten since it happened yesterday. I do not want this to be the end. Advice please?

Jesus-Fucking-Christ ...... I get so tired of stupid women. Makes me embarrassed to share my gender with women who are proud to be small.


Lady, why don't you try having some dignity

Excuse me? It's a post not to judge!

I say give him his space. Don't bombard him with phone calls, texts, etc. We cancers sometimes need our space just to take it all in. Give him time to miss you. If his feelings were very strong for you, he will come back like he did before. But you need to let him be for the moment. He also did message you checking up on you. That seems like a good sign that he still cares. Meanwhile, you need to take care of yourself. Do something that makes you happy and gets you thinking about other things than him.

Well, if people would use some fucking brain cells, then they might be able to have their own sound judgement, and make good decisions ... but, so long as they refuse to and then share their bullshit with people who do actually think .. then they lay themselves at risk for judgement.


so, you can take your bullshit, Cdiaz1988 and shove it up your fucking ass.

You're obviously not gonna make it here .. you're too weak, probably due to having some kind of entitlement Princess-wanna-be issues.

and again to OP ........

Posted by P-Angel


Jesus-Fucking-Christ ...... I get so tired of stupid women. Makes me embarrassed to share my gender with women who are proud to be small.


Lady, why don't you try having some dignity

Wow. I came on here to ask opinions and I receive negative feedback!

Thanks so much. I'm new to all of this!

my cancer boy friend also broke up with me yesterday!!

Watch out, somebody's having a rough menopause..

Speaking as a Cancer, if I'm still responding/replying/entertaining you I'm not completely finished. Calm down, and compose yourself. Start showing some action and some proof evidence that you are different now.