I am a cancer woman who has recently met a libra man, who would have to be one of the most guarded and one of the most unreadable man I have ever met (I am usually very good at reading people and have a very strong intuition). However, he is just so detached and unaffectionate that I just kept feeling like he wasn't into me and spent a lot of time feeling somewhat insecure. We always bantered and have a laugh and joke at each other. He did at one point say we do it too much and again said we were better as friends. I told him I respected his decision and he then would pull me back in again. I asked him why he was only affectionate with me when we were intimate, his reply was "What do you want someone clingy"? but get jealous when I got along with his friends. He has always initiated contact with me on a daily basis and would want to see me but always become extremely indecisive. He introduced me to his close circle of friends and recently his daughter (which his daughter took to me very quickly). The next day I receive a message saying; he only wants to be friends, it has been nice getting to know each other and I hope I find what I am looking for. I am confused as to where it went wrong?
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Mar 30, 2015Comments: 2650 · Posts: 6434 · Topics: 214
His venus is probably in sagg.
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Mar 30, 2015Comments: 2650 · Posts: 6434 · Topics: 214
Which means he's probably prone to playing games.
He probably did you a favor.
Is there a chance he will try to continue to play games? I am so confused by this Libra man!
Thank you for your insight. If a Libra man just claims all he wants is to be friends, is that all it will ever be out are they even indecisive about that?
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Mar 30, 2015Comments: 2650 · Posts: 6434 · Topics: 214
Libra men tend to be very different than libra women in my experience.
I've seen more succesful cancer libra connections when it was a libra woman and cancer man but not the other way around.
I do agree that there might be another woman in his sights.
and yes someone who is has a sagg venus will never make you feel
comfortable in the relationship. they value their freedom over your trust.
libras tend to be like that too regardless of their venus....
they just want to do what they want which isn't necessarily bad
i just think that those relationships should be with people who match their values
like gemini , aquarius saggs etc
I have just left him alone an doing my own thing. His actions make no sense to me so I will just leave it be. I don't know what I would do if he came back because I was hurt by his sudden departure.
Do Libra men usually come back?
I haven't heard from him so I'm guessing he may very well be done with me _???
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Mar 30, 2012Comments: 1243 · Posts: 16617 · Topics: 170
He didn't want to keep his fuck buddy around. You meeting his daughter and clicking so well with her was his wake up call. He doesn't want some casual chick around his daughter all the time. Would be too confusing for her.
"Daddy, is she your girlfriend?"
"No honey, she's just a friend I bang."
If he comes back, it won't be for genuine reasons.
What I want to know is why the hell you aren't listening to what he's saying? What the hell is wrong with women that they choose to ignore "I want to be just friends/don't want a relationship" or some other variation of "I'm not that into you?" This is not a challenge or a quest for you to change his mind. It's your signal to exit stage left and find a guy who will say "I want a relationship with you."
You seem to have ignored his words, continued to sleep with him, hoping for more, and now are confusing yourself because he took advantage and is giving you weirdo signals.
If actions and words do not match with guys, you cannot take them seriously.
Exit stage left, dear.