I would like some help.......PLEASE!!

Hey Everyone!!

I'm gonna try make this short and simple! Okay, me and this Scorpio guy were involved for about 2 1/2 months. He seemed to really like me (he's told me before) and I really liked him!! (I'm a Gemini). Well as time went on, things started to change and become inconsistent. We has a casual little connection and he just seemed to lose interest. Well I brought up the issues and within a month, nothing seemed to have changed. Well I got fed up with my unhappiness with out relationship, so I broke things off. I called him and he wasn't answering....so I texted him. Well at first, he tried to play things cool and then he got inquisitive. After discussing things, he gave me the cold shoulder for about 3 weeks.

Well for NYE, I went to a party he had out in Kankakee. Well I had some car troubles and ended up being stranded. He was there, but I didn't bother to ask him for help because we wasn't talking to one another. The next day, I told him what had happened and he kept asking me why didn't I call him. I was shocked by it and was happy to know that he would've helped. Well for the rest of the day, he called and checked up on me. Later that day, he invited me to a party he had near my house. When I arrived, he paid for me to get in and offered to buy me drinks.

I'm just wondering what all does this mean? Is this typical after a break-up with a Scorpio? Was he just being nice? What should I expect? All advice & opinions are welcomed!!

He may just be being nice. He also could feel bad because he knows he's the reason for the break up...but I do know from experience that men who start off inconsistant are always going to be inconsistant. If I knew then what I know now...smh...I wouldn't have wasted a minute on trying to read into his actions, or why he said this, etc. It'll give you a heartache. Just try to take it for what it is and don't read too much into it

Posted by Starboy
For starters...If you're gonna write on this board, you need to start off by telling your sign and the sign you're asking about. Lastly, I think you could do better. Drop this fool and hold your head high!

Also...Google Rob Brenzny, he can help and for a laugh check out "Moviescopes" on disasterdat enight.com

Thanks for the heads up! I am a beginner....sorry!!! I will remember this the next time I post!! Thank you all for your comments!!

I am in living with my ex-Scorpio, not by choice LOL and they are oh so nice.

"I made some dinner, would you like some?"

"Are you comfortable in the spare bedroom? Do you want another blanket?"

"I am going to do some laundry, want me to wash anything of yours?"

I am seeing currently that this scorpio ex is wanting to be nice and being nice.

Thank you all for your comments! Man, I was super stumped on what was going on, but you all gave me some helpful insight! =)Things seem to be improving (for now), but I hope that this is an on going progression. I really liked the guy, but just hated how we were on bad terms. Seemed like there was sooo much tension between us.

I'm a Gemini and had the same thing happen with a Scorpio. Things seemed really great, and then he cut it off unexpectedly. He claimed he could foresee that the relationsip was not going to end up being a long one, so it was better to just go ahead and end it. After that, we took a short break and then began seeing each other again. At least that's what I thought. Actually, we were just sleeping together. Even though it felt the same as before, he had never changed what he had told me and expected that I understood precisely what our new relationship was and wasn't. Be very careful that you always know precisely where you stand with him. If he let you know it's over, then that stands until he verbalizes that it has changed. A Gemini's mental gymnastics and wishful thinking can get us into all sorts of trouble.

P.S. I am now very happily married to another Scorpio, so this combo CAN work!

Posted by theekolorful1

Well I got fed up with my unhappiness with out relationship, so I broke things off. I called him and he wasn't answering....so I texted him. Well at first, he tried to play things cool and then he got inquisitive. After discussing things, he gave me the cold shoulder for about 3 weeks.

This addresses what you did, generally speaking, and nothing to do with being Gemini, or Scorpio ....


1. you say you were fed up and broke things off
2. then you presented this to him for response

Equals ... telling him something you think will devastate him for purposes of getting him to live up to your expectations of what you want of him.

In conclusions .. you didn't want to break things off, and you didn't break it off ... you tried to manipulate his feelings into changing his character to suit you.


fyi: to break up means to leave the relationship

The only help you need is to hear words like ..


be real and stop game playing for attention

It does look like he doesn't want the same kind/level of relationship that you want, theeKolorful1. Just be friends, if you can.