Well my dob is 10/21/1987 his dob is September,6,1982 im male Libra hes a Virgo male. what been happening is well on our very first date we had instent connection,felt like we knew each other tho its our first meet,we could be our self right aeay vs being shy,we have lots in comon etc and our heart felt it was meant to be.Also he made few cute pet names for me. then after we went on lots of dates i had him met my parents and i eventually met his friends i spent night over at his place we did had sex but not all time we both want ltr.. well when i was over at his place he said he felt secured we said we love eachother and he even played his gitar for me and we had fun cuddling holding each other and watching tv,,having order out etc and right b4 my vacation aug 14-28th he said hes falling in love with me. when i left his place he was lil quite then he tried to called me i missed his call then he text me saying he was in the hospital then went quite till i landed.. he text me saying"Have a safe trip and hopefully when you get back im felling normal" then he was quite till i returned. Then he text me and called me and told me why he was quite.. witch is because work stress and he want him time so he went off grid. Then i seen him on labor day night.. he seem lil distant i gave him his gift and he liked it then we had few drinks b4 we went to bar b4 we went he told me when he had hisalone time he had time t think and wanted to concentrate on work tho its what making him very stressed and also wanna move to a diff state witch i wanna too and he said he wont have have time for relation ship. later that night he did not wanna cuddle etc and felt like he wanna be left alone and said he wanna talk but i aks about what he said not now. Then on his birthday he acted like how he was b4 i left on vacation we had fun time cuddle a lot and he even shown me how he made his music and even let me hear some of his demo no one ever heard. then day after his birthday we cuddle a lot and had nice chill day watch netflix etc then he made us dinner i said i love you few times and he said "more love". then on Thursday when i left his place he said hell be free not this week but next week to see eachother and then i said i love you and he said "love ya". Hes been quite since then tho i know hes busy cuz of work he does work a lot and i can understand h probbly passes out when he get home at night. Oh also he did call me by my first pet name he gave me when i was with him last vs his new one he gave me lol. So yeah im confused and i wanna know what all you think and suggest? I know my heart and his wants me and my gut saying to stay but im lost and onfused. Also i know theres a mercury retro grad happing during my vacation and still going on. I read it does messes with virgos a lot. But yeah ty in advance all for suggestion etc. Hes the only Virgo i know and i love him so much and i want this to work! I do text him once in awhile to check up on him so he knows i care.
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Apr 14, 2013Comments: 76 · Posts: 810 · Topics: 82
How long have you known each other?
Been almost 4 months but yeah i know some virgos do this at times so they can think about stuff for relationship etc. I love fact we have strong connection etc. Plus my heart and gut has a good feel about this. Im lil confused and im being patient cuz i do want this to work. Plus something tells me this is right. Jus i never met virgo b4. Idk if this is twin flame/ soul mate feels like it. Plus i am reading up on mercury retrograde.
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Oct 29, 2014Comments: 1 · Posts: 16583 · Topics: 222
Have you ever ask to see his phone and if not why not? Is it a red flag if you ask to see it and he doesn't give it to you? Not for snooping purposes though just because if they have nothing to hide then you can trust them if they do give the phone up??
He gotten a hold of me. he called me from his work phone at work... his cell phone does not work at all no texts calls etc hence hes quiet,All hes able to do is email people and or call em at his work phone till he gets a new one,He also said sorry for not being able to get a hold of me,Sadly he lost his grandmother,Hes been busy with work and he will be moving soon on the 1st of October. Very nice of him to reach out to me. Maybe lil till i see him but im happy he reach out to me shows he loves me and cares.
What do you all think? Good sign?