im confused about this soon to be relationship

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by rikku1987 on Thursday, September 15, 2016 and has 11 replies.
Well my dob is 10/21/1987 his dob is September,6,1982 im male Libra hes a Virgo male. what been happening is well on our very first date we had instent connection,felt like we knew each other tho its our first meet,we could be our self right aeay vs being shy,we have lots in comon etc and our heart felt it was meant to be.Also he made few cute pet names for me. then after we went on lots of dates i had him met my parents and i eventually met his friends i spent night over at his place we did had sex but not all time we both want ltr.. well when i was over at his place he said he felt secured we said we love eachother and he even played his gitar for me and we had fun cuddling holding each other and watching tv,,having order out etc and right b4 my vacation aug 14-28th he said hes falling in love with me. when i left his place he was lil quite then he tried to called me i missed his call then he text me saying he was in the hospital then went quite till i landed.. he text me saying"Have a safe trip and hopefully when you get back im felling normal" then he was quite till i returned. Then he text me and called me and told me why he was quite.. witch is because work stress and he want him time so he went off grid. Then i seen him on labor day night.. he seem lil distant i gave him his gift and he liked it then we had few drinks b4 we went to bar b4 we went he told me when he had hisalone time he had time t think and wanted to concentrate on work tho its what making him very stressed and also wanna move to a diff state witch i wanna too and he said he wont have have time for relation ship. later that night he did not wanna cuddle etc and felt like he wanna be left alone and said he wanna talk but i aks about what he said not now. Then on his birthday he acted like how he was b4 i left on vacation we had fun time cuddle a lot and he even shown me how he made his music and even let me hear some of his demo no one ever heard. then day after his birthday we cuddle a lot and had nice chill day watch netflix etc then he made us dinner i said i love you few times and he said "more love". then on Thursday when i left his place he said hell be free not this week but next week to see eachother and then i said i love you and he said "love ya". Hes been quite since then tho i know hes busy cuz of work he does work a lot and i can understand h probbly passes out when he get home at night. Oh also he did call me by my first pet name he gave me when i was with him last vs his new one he gave me lol. So yeah im confused and i wanna know what all you think and suggest? I know my heart and his wants me and my gut saying to stay but im lost and onfused. Also i know theres a mercury retro grad happing during my vacation and still going on. I read it does messes with virgos a lot. But yeah ty in advance all for suggestion etc. Hes the only Virgo i know and i love him so much and i want this to work! I do text him once in awhile to check up on him so he knows i care.
I also meant to add he also stared into my eyes when he said he falling in love with me etc and he said he wants me in his life and also he will be a pain in my butt non stop(meaning he wanna be with me etc in cute way i think lol) and he said god wanted us to to be together and part of each other I keep editing this cuz i keep on remembering more stuff well another thing he did b4 my vacation was... he was helping me get rid of black head and he said "hold still this is what boyfriends do" witch was cute tho seem gross i actually was happy especially since what he said to me smile!I read up about Virgos so some sings looking good but idk. ty in advance again for all the help! Last time i edit lol we also listen to music video together amd we sang to it as well last time i was with him.
How long have you known each other?
Been almost 4 months but yeah i know some virgos do this at times so they can think about stuff for relationship etc. I love fact we have strong connection etc. Plus my heart and gut has a good feel about this. Im lil confused and im being patient cuz i do want this to work. Plus something tells me this is right. Jus i never met virgo b4. Idk if this is twin flame/ soul mate feels like it. Plus i am reading up on mercury retrograde.
Posted by rikku1987
I also meant to add he also stared into my eyes when he said he falling in love with me etc and he said he wants me in his life and also he will be a pain in my butt non stop(meaning he wanna be with me etc in cute way i think lol) and he said god wanted us to to be together and part of each other I keep editing this cuz i keep on remembering more stuff well another thing he did b4 my vacation was... he was helping me get rid of black head and he said "hold still this is what boyfriends do" witch was cute tho seem gross i actually was happy especially since what he said to me smile!I read up about Virgos so some sings looking good but idk. ty in advance again for all the help! Last time i edit lol we also listen to music video together amd we sang to it as well last time i was with him.
This must be a Virgo thing yuck. My bf likes to try to help me with blemishes and asks for my help sometimes. I will usually help him but I dont go about messing with all my blemishes like he does his :- P
I see cool lol i find it cute but yeah you think he still intersted? I got feeling he is just busy. I do love him.smile
Have you ever ask to see his phone and if not why not? Is it a red flag if you ask to see it and he doesn't give it to you? Not for snooping purposes though just because if they have nothing to hide then you can trust them if they do give the phone up??
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Have you ever ask to see his phone and if not why not? Is it a red flag if you ask to see it and he doesn't give it to you? Not for snooping purposes though just because if they have nothing to hide then you can trust them if they do give the phone up??
No i haven't and its because i trust him and he trust me. I never will even ask this cuz we both trust each other. im just more worried about him himself since last time he went lil quite he was very sick from work and stress and now hes quite again. I know some traits are to tee from his zoidac sing etc. but yeah im manly made this post to see if ppl had similar experience etc and advise. Ive been very patent so far lol.
Posted by rikku1987
I also meant to add he also stared into my eyes when he said he falling in love with me etc and he said he wants me in his life and also he will be a pain in my butt non stop(meaning he wanna be with me etc in cute way i think lol) and he said god wanted us to to be together and part of each other I keep editing this cuz i keep on remembering more stuff well another thing he did b4 my vacation was... he was helping me get rid of black head and he said "hold still this is what boyfriends do" witch was cute tho seem gross i actually was happy especially since what he said to me smile!I read up about Virgos so some sings looking good but idk. ty in advance again for all the help! Last time i edit lol we also listen to music video together amd we sang to it as well last time i was with him.
from what it sounds like he's definitely into you. Virgos will pester the ones they love lol lovingly... you re doing well to go with the flow but you may need to take more initiative with a Virgo. most likely he is super busy and has his mind on a thousand things but that doesn't mean he doesn't care. You might just drop a nice or encouraging word his way every now and then to remind him you are also thinking of him. in my experience, Virgos enjoy private displays of affection. when sick, oy talk about needy lol but it's ok I enjoy taking care of those I love when they are down and I know he'd do the same. what your describing sounds like normal courting so just go with it til he tells you he isn't interested I guess lol
I was hopping for delete option on my 2 post so i just hide it. cuz well i was lil too over worried... but how ever his IG was private and now its public... and idk if he did that so i can see his posts? I notice at times he can do settle stuff like this.. idk if its a trait of virgos... or just him lol. He seems blunt so im sure ill know for sure if interested. just still shocked me how he acted like he did not wanna be with me and even said how he just wanna concentrate on work... then after that acted like how he has been b4.. like a couple and did stufff with me like he shown me how he make his music and i heared his demo witch he said its rare. Im assuming no one heard it but for us... so seem like theres hope lol.. but im still trying to be patent just wish he communicate more lol. I think something stressed him out and or heis sick... cuz he was this quite b4 for about same length. Just i am losing some patent but trying to remain strong. Once i start working ill be busy with that and not as impatient etc. again ty all for help i def need it since i do want this to work out. The whole instant connection adn fact i felt like i kne whim b4 i met him.. never happen at all to me and also strong connection. I had connection b4 with my exes just not as strong nor as good hence im willing to make this work smile! pls still have a good gut feeling just confused af lol! 0_0
He gotten a hold of me. he called me from his work phone at work... his cell phone does not work at all no texts calls etc hence hes quiet,All hes able to do is email people and or call em at his work phone till he gets a new one,He also said sorry for not being able to get a hold of me,Sadly he lost his grandmother,Hes been busy with work and he will be moving soon on the 1st of October. Very nice of him to reach out to me. Maybe lil till i see him but im happy he reach out to me shows he loves me and cares.

What do you all think? Good sign?