I'm so confused, can someone help?

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by July94Leo on Sunday, August 17, 2014 and has 5 replies.
I'm a Leo woman (20 years old) and I've been texting a Sagittarius guy (24 years old) for about two weeks now. We've both expressed interest in each other, our conversations have been flawless and there's never been a dull moment.
Then about five days ago, he became aloof with me. I thought I'd just give him a few days before texting and asking if he was alright. He said he was and he apologized for not texting back. But now since then he's barely texted or replied to me, when he does he seems cold. I'm really confused and hurt, I keep going through our texts to see if I did something wrong and I can't find anything.
Is that a Sagittarius thing? Should I just take that as a sign and not bother him anymore?
Don't waste your energy. It doesn't matter why.
Please do yourself a huge favor and move on, close the door and do not invest anymore of your time and energy because when someone runs hot and then turns cold most likely a fake, an emotional fraud and a bullshitter.
Posted by tiki33
Don't waste your energy. It doesn't matter why.
Please do yourself a huge favor and move on, close the door and do not invest anymore of your time and energy because when someone runs hot and then turns cold most likely a fake, an emotional fraud and a bullshitter.


100% agree. Perfect response. Plus Tiziani is also right. Texting really and truly means nothing. Don't invest anything at all based on texts. Any man whose truly interested in you wants to speak with you on the phone and in person.
Posted by July94Leo
.... and I've been texting a Sagittarius guy (24 years old) for about two weeks now. We've both expressed interest in each other, our conversations have been flawless and there's never been a dull moment.




You said "we" to describe feelings for both of you .... you said, "I" when describing the action of texting.
This means that you've been chasing him, and then when he responded you dumped your insecure feelings onto the idea of what he might be = yours
Yes, most women really are that weak and deluded ... and you are a perfect example.
And secondly, you're not confused .... you are intolerant that he decided not to choose you
In other words, you are rejected, much like you've probably done to countless men.
Get the fuck over yourself .... because if it walks and talks like a duck, then it's fucking duck, so quit clinging on to the idea of a man
Posted by July94Leo
I'm a Leo woman (20 years old) and I've been texting a Sagittarius guy (24 years old) for about two weeks now. We've both expressed interest in each other, our conversations have been flawless and there's never been a dull moment.
Then about five days ago, he became aloof with me. I thought I'd just give him a few days before texting and asking if he was alright. He said he was and he apologized for not texting back. But now since then he's barely texted or replied to me, when he does he seems cold. I'm really confused and hurt, I keep going through our texts to see if I did something wrong and I can't find anything.
Is that a Sagittarius thing? Should I just take that as a sign and not bother him anymore?


let him come to you. I know as a Sag, i can be oblivious to communication when i got my own shit going on.

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