Input on cancer male.

I'm an aquarius female and have been "seeing" a cancer male for about 4 months now. When we're together things are great. But, we go to different schools, so only see eachother once a week, if that. We dont talk everyday, and i jsut thought that had to do with the fact that i told him i get bored of guys easily so he keeps his distance. So, this last week we hadnt talked for 4 days which isnt unusual. When we did finally talk i texted him first on thursday, we talked for a bit and he said he missed me and that we should hang out the next day i agreed he said that we should go the movies. The next day he texts me saying that he's throwing a party at his house and asks if i want to come. I tell him that im just gonna stay in tonight and says hopefully we can hang out tomorrow i just said yea and the next day which is saturday he never texted me and today he still hasnt contacted me. I just want to know if thats a typical cancer? Are they flakey? Why is does he do that? Is he interested, unintersted, just playing games? He tells me he is interested and acts like it when we're together, but i think that if he really liked me he'd want to hang out more since we dont see eachother all the time. I feel like he says one thing and does another. Please give me your input.

"i told him i get bored of guys easily"

^^Big Mistake, you should have kept that to yourself, because most cancer sign men are sensitive, clingy, moody, & insecure, he probably feels that if he gets close to you and show you his true self you would just get bored of him. It seems like he is interested in you, he's probably just not sure how interested you are in him. Its not easy winning a Cancer Sign Person Trust So if you really care for him your in for a emotional rollercoaster, there'll be days when he'll seem so into you and then they'll be days when he'll retreat into his shell and you'll be left confused. I am a Aquarius Female and I find myself always dating Cancer Sign Men, idk why, but I love them, even though according to astrology Aquarius & Cancer are incompatible =)

i agree with the others. you told him you get bored of guys easily so he is staying clear and letting you call the shots when you want. we cancers and good listeners so i am sure he picked up on that straight away..sometimes you have to be careful with what you wish for..

aquarius22, i think that unusualcancer is right, cancers are very very intuitive and they can sense your emotions and read you very well, they only react to whatever tone we give to the situation, he wants you but he understood straight away what you like/want for this to work and he is going it, they are very good with their strategy!!!cancers love to please....

Thank you all so much for responding. :]

AQUALUV4YA: i dont know how you do it. haha tell me your secret. ;]

ATLANTIC MYST: youre right i should mature a little but i am too young to think about marrige and children. :/

CANSIR: i know youre sooo right. but i, being an aquarius, was scared that we were "committing" to things to fast.

UNUSUALCANCER: you are also right! haha i would be bored if he was TOO clingy but now im thinking that he's TOO dettached. theres gotta be a balance somewhere... but he is keepeing me wondering me and confusing ME which makes me want to keep coming back to him. but its bothering me because i think he doesnt care or that he's playing me.

SCORPIO98: yea but in the beginning he would talk to me a lot more and i never complained.

UPDATE: he texted me monday and told me he would try coming to my track meet which is on thursday. he didnt text me at all for the rest of the week. the day of the meet arrives and no sign of him what so ever. the meet starts at 3:15, im the 3rd race and its 5 already so i figure he isnt coming. then he comes behind me and says hi, i tell him hi and that he missed my race he said he had been there the whole time. i asked him why he hadnt come down to the field or why he didnt text me and he said that he didnt know he could come down or that i had my phone. i dont know if i believe him because why wuld he be by himself for 2 hours? and there was other people going down on the field. i only saw him for about 5 minutes becasue he was about to leace when he came up to me. when he left i told him to text me later and he never did.

and i was suppose to go to his show today but he was suppose to give me a ride there but he couldnt so i couldnt make it and his friend texted me asking me why i wasnt going and telling me that i should text the cancer guy because he thinks that the cancer guy wants me to go and that i should b the "bigger" person and text him first.

i went out with a cancer male - I had to tell him I was only going to the shop, and no I wasn't dumping him. way too sensitive - zero sense of humour.....

I think the cancerian boy is too young @ mind and is lost in his own world........wht are your ages kiddos—??

i sorta almost dated a cancer guy - we were getting to know each other but i find that this cancer man was a little too moody - he gave me mixed signals too - i think cancer men have less control of their emotions and it confuses them.

one minute he'd make me think he was crazy about me (i think they're really good at flattery!) then the next he'd seem to want to be friends - i think this one was manipulative - however everyone is right about "i told him i get bored of guys easily" because we cancers zone in on comments like that - he probably is staying away because he's scared his clingy, emtional nature will really and truely "bore" you.

here's my advice - just come out and ask him exactly what you asked us - see what he says

if you told this cancer guy that you get bored easily, than chances are nothing will come of this, except maybe sex. Aqua and Cancer are not an ideal match. cancer being extremely sensitive and clingy, and aqua being detached and non-committal. stay in the air or play with some fire. those are your best chances at love.