It's late, and I 'm tired...just want some clari

Hi,

I've never done this before.
I've been reading alot of posts here and
you guys seem to know what you're on about, and give out good advice.

so here goes..it's not a major drama..but this has been
an INTENSE week with the whole lunar eclipse thing..
Being a cancerian an all..nothing bad had happened,
but I'd just been feeling odd..
anyway that aside..of course it's a guy! libran 12 oct 84.
he's just so indecisive.we're not going out,
but we did for a week,( last nov) before he said
" i like u but not enough"..
Then he'll distance
himself for a month or so..then out of the blue
call/txt me and as though nothing happened..
I dont contact him,but he keeps coming
back..this is annoying and frustrating.

last week, he calls me.. after a month..sligh
tly intoxicated..but not slurring speech...going
on about how, he quite likes me..etc..
I happened to be having a party the next
week, so I invite him..
we have a great time...he missed the last
train so had to stay..
I didn't sleep with him,( as much as I wanted to).
I just want him to find out what he wants.

we dont have any classes together, so if I see
him, its only by chance..
I would just like to have some regular time,
even as friends.
I dont feel confident chasing him ,since
he has rejected me before..
but my intuition says he really does like me..
but is for some reason afraid to take it further..

I 'm thinking of giving him space until after the next
new moon eclipse, which will be in his love zone, and then
try and suggest we have coffee or something casual...
and in the meantime focus on my studies...

is he a lost cause?

kc 6 july 84

Shall I give you some hope..fear not..My friend (cancer) and her boyfriend (Libra) met last June and its their wedding in June this year!...they both compliment each other brilliant..however on the downside, my pisces friend (another water sign) and her boyfriend libra have run into some complications..great to start with but now he is a bit distant..undecided..but it is early days and she does keep badgering on about marriage..I mean, give the poor guy a chance..enjoy, let your hair down..but she gets all kinda serious on him..All I have advised her to do is give him space and time...

Good luck

Peace

marriage!!thats the LAST thing on my mind..
just getting straight answer is hard enough!

thanks for the tips
🙂

I agree with LeowithCapAndAnnoyed... If he was really into you he would be with you. Granted we don't know any other things that might be going on in his life and why he might shy away from being with someone, but they whole "I like you but not enough" stuff is concerning. Who says that? Isn't that kinda mean? I would peace him out. Chances are good you won't get what you want from him and you will be (and already are) a source of ego stroking for him. Why give him that for being aloof, rude, and communicating double messages?