Message posted by: SoftCookie on 6/2/2006 5:35:32 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.7
Just wanted to get people's opinions on the friendly felines.
Librans are beautiful, but usually too busy fishing for compliments to see beyond themselves.
Now your not fishing for compliments here Mr S are you????
My leo and I just decided that we aren't right for each other...I'm a scorpio. However- I adore him. We're similar in many ways, maybe too much. This was the first opportunity I had to get to know a leo, I've never crossed paths with one before. I'm impressed. It was fun, safe, exciting...but seemed too superficial for me (that's really the wrong word, but I can't think of a better on right now.)
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Jun 01, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 790 · Topics: 20
perhaps he feels the same way...
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Sep 28, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 7602 · Topics: 89
Cookie
In all honesty, you see unkindness where there isn't any.
Do you not see how dating someone who is not at our level makes the other person uncomfortable? Our level meaning all of us.
There is no way this guy could date me and be comfortable. He would always be dealing with other men. Always. Even if I am not looking, other men will be. I can be clearly on a date with someone, the moment they leave, a man will come up to me and start chatting me up.
It would be unkind to make him deal with this at the moment. He has had a bad break-up and lacks his confidence. It would upset him to continue. Perhaps in the future, but I don't know.
Sometimes letting someone go, is an act of kindness. You just don't see that.
Message posted by: SoftCookie on 6/6/2006 10:23:00 AM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.7
No, I'm ugly as a toad but I try to make up for it with personality.....
lol, I'm sure your not, all furry and cuddly with a big mane and sharp teeth......
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little_sparrow
Sorry if I came off as rude, that honestly wasn't my intent. It just seemed that your comments that you were out of his league and that dating down never works seemed a bit condescending toward the guy that you're dating. Perhaps you meant that his emotions aren't in the same place as yours at the moment.
Just watch the excessive Libran flirting with other guys while on dates, not many men (or women) can handle that, regardless of sign.
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Sep 28, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 7602 · Topics: 89
No worries Cookie.
I can come across as flippant. Very little I do is flippant. I just don't like explaining. lol! Plus, I was snappy with you too. Elsewhere. So I apologize for that.
They flirt with me not the other way around. I am selective because many cannot handle all the attention. There is a joke about the burden of beauty in there somewhere. lol!
As for you and me, in my mind, we are all good!
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No problems, truce.
But there is also a proverb that beauty fades, just prepare yourself for the day when compliments from eager admirers are hard to come by...
Message posted by: SoftCookie on 6/6/2006 4:34:40 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.7
No problems, truce.
But there is also a proverb that beauty fades, just prepare yourself for the day when compliments from eager admirers are hard to come by...
You know Mr S if I had to rely on the approval of other people especially men i think I'd top myself right now, we all grow old, it's the only sure thing in life, I just don't need it really and truly. If I cannot beleive in my own worth who will??
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Not knocking Libras, Leos have a vanity problem too. It took me awhile to realize that time marches on (especially on my face)
Message posted by: SoftCookie on 6/6/2006 5:36:21 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.7
Not knocking Libras, Leos have a vanity problem too. It took me awhile to realize that time marches on (especially on my face)
You can have a vanity problem that eats you up until it sends you mental, but what do you do, but accept it Mr Cuddly cat. What will change nothing.......Don't mean to be morbid but it's the one sure thing in life nothing else is........thank you I will bow out now after my theatrical statement......thank you one and all, where is the wine......
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**** But there is also a proverb that beauty fades, just prepare yourself for the day when compliments from eager admirers are hard to come by...
What makes you think this will ever happen? Beauty is beyond the skin my dear. What makes me attractive is not my face. It is the total package.
My self-worth comes from within, not without. I earned it the old fashioned way.